gemini man

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by lilyofthevalley987 on Sunday, September 10, 2017 and has 9 replies.
hello my gems,

so my best friend is seeing a gemini man.with taurus moon.mercury in taurus and venus in taurus.shes is a taurus woman

the issue is that his ex is still present in his life .he send her money each month for his son and everytime he doesnt send money she doesnt answer the phone or she wont let him talk to his son.so all the rage he projects it on my friend.he would fight with her over past stuffs or silly things.my friend is with him for 7 months now.

Nowadays he critisize her(my friend) like why are talking to this guy.or why dont u call as much or why with others you have conversations but with me u dont......

its a never ending thing.but at same time he flirts with girls .just today a girl that seems interested in him asked for his number and he gave it to her infront of my friend which crushed her.i dont know what to say to help her.can u guys give me some insights?
Posted by Ganon
He gave a woman he flirts with his number in front of his gf (your gf) on top of all the other stuff?

And she is still with him??? Zero respect here!

What help do you or she wants? In my opinion there's only one thing left to do?

And she knows what that is....

But then again I'm a no-bs woman, so maybe i'm too drastic!
I share your opinion if it was me hes out the door.but she cant let go and when she ices him he comes back begging by saying i love you. that doesnt mean anything and why are jealous..... So i tried reason with her alot of times but she is a fixer and she loves him so i dont know what is it she wants and she has some problems at home with her family already and he is not helping.

Posted by lilyofthevalley987
the issue is that his ex is still present in his life .he send her money each month for his son and everytime he doesnt send money she doesnt answer the phone or she wont let him talk to his son.
His ex is ALWAYS gonna be in his life. They have a child together.

And yes if he doesn't pay his child support she has every right to ghost his trifling ass.

Flirting is one thing. Actually taking a number is a whole nother level of disrespectful.
Posted by Senorita_LL
You know, I've got to be honest here. I am guilty of that too, when I was much younger. I've grown out of that shit now.

Him, flirting with the other girls, is sort of a mirror thing, a Gem would do and I guess he was just trying to hurt the Taurus on purpose, by showing her that he can also do the same thing.

It is quite kiddish, I know. I hate that about me too. Sad

How old is he, btw?
He is 28 years old
Posted by LadyNeptune
Flirting is one thing. Actually taking a number is a whole nother level of disrespectful.
To tell you the truth sometimes i just want to yell at her because the level of sacrifices she made for him is huge.and she forgives him all the time for his mistakes.

I mean she even changed alot for him and all he cares about is his image and what people say about him.

she even stopped talking to other guys to spare them a fight about it

Posted by Senorita_LL
You know, I've got to be honest here. I am guilty of that too, when I was much younger. I've grown out of that shit now.

Him, flirting with the other girls, is sort of a mirror thing, a Gem would do and I guess he was just trying to hurt the Taurus on purpose, by showing her that he can also do the same thing.

It is quite kiddish, I know. I hate that about me too. Sad

How old is he, btw?
Believe me when i tell you she doesnt flirt with anyone.

And by past i mean some dude she was friends with who supported her when she cut all contact with the gem guy for months they didnt talk

all she saw in the other guy is a friend but i guess he saw her as more.so when the gem guy witnessed it he now everytime they fight he would bring it

and when she points at the same thing he would say its in the past.
This is exactly what my Gem did to me. He was engaged but his ex fiancé broke the engagement. He started flirting with other girls including me. Last Friday, I saw someone who looked like his ex fiancé got into the same car he had. He has been ignoring me ever since. I guess time for me to move on... does Gem forgive that easily? Just curious.
Posted by taurus0105
This is exactly what my Gem did to me. He was engaged but his ex fiancé broke the engagement. He started flirting with other girls including me. Last Friday, I saw someone who looked like his ex fiancé got into the same car he had. He has been ignoring me ever since. I guess time for me to move on... does Gem forgive that easily? Just curious.
Depends why she broke up with him... but yeah, once they fall the FALL so be ware if you are in a rebound situation.