gemini man for taurus women

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by cream22 on Tuesday, September 30, 2008 and has 6 replies.
I am Taurus women, ive been dealing with my gem guy both May babies different signs. We been dating for about a yr and 3 months about 4 months into are relationship he confessed that he had more children then what he told me and thought I should know if I wanted us to go further I wasn't mad I actually already knew lol. I just wanted to know why he wasn't taking care of his responsibilities. So shortly after that the calls started to fade him stopping by, making empty promises so on and so on. But he never completely stopped he made sure he kept me on a thread?so one day he finally made a visit and went to sleep I went through his phone which was something I never really did but I had to know and guess what I found exactly what I was looking for he was engaged and back wit the mother of his kids?did I push him there???? I was hurt the fianc? called me later that week and we talked she called him and he denied me like I was nothing?..we stopped talking for awhile and eventually became friends it seems like everyday we grow closer but I still have that in my mind he seems like he is trying more and appreciates me more but he is still wit the chick he says cus of the kids but men always say that in these situations I don't know what to do I try my hardest not to get to deep but I cant help but think why wont he leave me alone ill tell him not to call me or text and he ignores me and pops up at my house and I love it!!!! Also I heard gems can be superficial im wondering is this why he like me his friends always look at me and did know he likes it just like a true gem also he always talk about our sex life is this why he stick around?
what ages are you guys if you dont mind me asking?
i am aries involved with gemini guy
im 23 he is 31 he says im young and whats funny is we met sme yrs ago whn i was 18 and he tried to talk to me i was took away by the way he looked i was dating women at the time but he was beautiful but we never talked...then i met him 4 yrs later and a couple of weeks went by and he remembered me from all those years back that was weird.
If i was in your boat with this guy i would leave him alone. Forget about even being friends because it doesn't seem like you two can be friends since he seems to push it further. He is engaged and lied and all kinds of things.. how many more flags do you need?
From just what you said it sounds like he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. he might be bored in his relationship with the mother of his kids and you are entertainment for him. You add some spice to his life.
yeah im trying now its so hard but i got to i feel like im just setting myself up ive tried to tell him leave me alone and stop callin me he doesnt take me serious and im so weak and dumb for him i let him come back everytime it was fun for a while but my feeling cant be on hold forever so yeah that pretty much what i need to do
Awe... that sucks. Best of luck to ya. They are pretty stubborn so you might have to take severe measures if you really want to end it.