Gemini man says I "intimidate" him?

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There's been a Gem sun who's tried to pursue me in the past and I've just kind of ignored it. I wasn't trying to pursue anything with him, and now he's been asking all around where I've been, asking friends. And he just texted me saying that he's always had a thing for me and that I intimidate him. And that he doesn't feel he's good enough for me. I don't exactly know why he's coming out of nowhere with this. I've never had a Gemini act this way with me.
Any take on this?
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Posted by xomelindabelle
I'm not saying this in a conceited way, I'm just curious as to why a Gemini would approach someone this way. It's never been my experience in the past; his approach just seemed slightly passive.
I bet you are turned on behind your mind on his passiveness. Be warned Geminis are big flirt and they will act submissive if that can take him inside your pants but then again you are an Aries woman you don't give a damn. This is the beginning that can leads to



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Posted by Gem20Redux
Don't take it the wrong way. Your natural Aries stern and possibly domineering personality/appearance set off one of his insecurities to the point he felt that'd be the only way of catching you off guard and gaining a possible interest from you. The passiveness stems from deep from within for an air sign so take it as a compliment that he had the guts to admit that and swallow his pride.
That's the thing, I don't personally have a very 'domineering' or 'stern' persona. The only Aries traits I relate to are excitement, spontaneity, passion and a temper lol but outwardly I act like a Libra, due to my ascendant and moon. Also Piscean at times, having a 12th house moon. I've had people be quite surprised to know I was an Aries lol
But you see it once you get to know me. I suppose that he could've reacted to me being concise and somewhat dismissive of him when he first made his advances in the past. And that somehow attracted him? Just different for me lol
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Posted by littlemegabyte
The aries I've met are aggressive, masculine, and very in your face energy. I think gem men are really attracted to this. I find Aries men very off putting for the same reasons though. I don't find the ones I've met intimidating. Yours must like a dominant woman! I do find this kind of odd because gems are not very intimidated by people generally. I hear gem and aries are a good match.
I'm super low key, way more Libran when interacting with people; never in your face. Only close friends see the silly, childlike Aries part of men honestly.
And that's exactly why I found it odd, lol I've never met a Gemini who would be intimidated by another person, let alone speak on it.
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Posted by xomelindabelle
There's been a Gem sun who's tried to pursue me in the past and I've just kind of ignored it. I wasn't trying to pursue anything with him, and now he's been asking all around where I've been, asking friends. And he just texted me saying that he's always had a thing for me and that I intimidate him. And that he doesn't feel he's good enough for me. I don't exactly know why he's coming out of nowhere with this. I've never had a Gemini act this way with me.
Any take on this?
Why do you intimidate Geminis? We are awesome creatures once you get to know us.
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Aries women terrify me. I love them but they terrify me. I guess intimidate is the right word. I just find myself sugar coating everything around them.

Aries men are putty in my hands because I know from experience that their bark is louder than their bite.
Never piss off a fire sign PERIOD. You're just asking for trouble. Not to say Gem's are going to just roll over and give in easy as well it just will take longer for them to give a good lashing while Aries and the other fire signs "combust" much more regularly or impulsively in most cases haha.
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It's fun to watch as long as it's not directed at you.
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Never piss off a fire sign PERIOD. You're just asking for trouble. Not to say Gem's are going to just roll over and give in easy as well it just will take longer for them to give a good lashing while Aries and the other fire signs "combust" much more regularly or impulsively in most cases haha.
It's fun to watch as long as it's not directed at you.
You have merc. in Taurus right?
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Yeah. Is that telling ?