Gemini Man, Virgo Woman (charts included)

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by BreathBreather2SoulLover on Saturday, February 26, 2011 and has 11 replies.
I received a phone call from the secretary of a physical therapy office that I have been going to a few times a week, The secretary and I are pretty cool with each other and she says, "I have someone who would like to speak to you", in my curiosity I stayed on the phone to see who it was. A man with a heavy Latin accent comes on the phone and says, "hey how are you? I haven't seen you around lately...when are you coming back to therapy?" I then said in awe (I''ve never experienced anything like this), "oh, I come in the morning, I get some much done within my day that way." He then proceeds to say, "oh I see, well I am always here around 3...you know 3pm? You should come at 3." This was my hint from him. So I replied, "ok, I hope you've been doing better, I'll see you around." I was so taken back, it was something out of a tv show, the secretary gets on the phone and says, "he's been asking about you every time he comes, everyone in the office is surprised he knew who you were." She then coaxed me to change my following appointment to 3pm, kept saying how nice of a guy he wast etc, so I did. That Monday comes, and he arrives, I look at him and he is just drop dead gorgeous. (In therapy everyone is in physical pain, people don't usually make eye contact etc with anyone but their physical therapist, I have on;y had appointments with him in the past about 3-4 times, he never spoke...had no idea he had interest). We exchanged contacts, tried to hang out twice but it dodn't work with my schedule. Then we finlly found a day that worked, he seemed excited he told the secretary about it. He then got sick we didn't hang out, he asked if I would be at therapy the next day, I said yes. I gave him a funny get well card, he liked iit. 2 days later I asked what he wanted, if he was interested. He says, I want to get to know you, hang out...see what happens" (I was so so surprised he said that, I even giggled...made be feel happy), he then says, "I am not looking for a relationship, but I think it's good to meet people, get to know them and see what happens." We are on the same page, letting it flow. Days later we chatting he asked for a sexy pic, I sent a pic fully dressed in form fitting attire he didn't like it he sent a half naked pic in his undies (you could see everything). I was shocked, didn't respond. Then we saw each other at therapy 3 days later. He slightly smiled as did I. NEXT POST HAS REST OF STORY W/CHARTS
After the smile he later asked how I was feeling. I said, good and smiled. He barely spoke to me after, he's done this before even before his half nudie pic. We spoke that night I told him he was acting weird, barely talks, he says I don't talk. So the next day I took more initiative and spoke more, we were chatting on blackberry messenger in his language using a translator. He would give one word, answers, one sentence answers as usual. I said communication is a two way street. I later asked if he was shy, he said yes. I asked him to explain, he said, "forget it!" I told him I can't read his mind and if he felt uncomfortable. He said he wasn't uncomfortable. I said, I have been speaking to you using a translator I put effort. We haven't spoken since. What the heck is going on here? He was asking about me until no end, now that we exchange numbers he barely talks. Is he really shy? I am shy too at times, but we can't both be shy so I am taking initiative. Here are our charts:
Now here are our charts:
Sun VIRGO GEMINI
Moon Sagittarius Pisces
Mercury Virgo Gemini
Venus Libra Gemini
Mars Sagittarius Taurus
Jupiter Capricorn Libra
Saturn Scorpio Libra
Uranus Sagittarius Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius Sagittarius
Pluto Scorpio Libra
Rising/Ascending Scorpio [genini?] Leo
ME: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/coj3filepWmGGZ-u1298734553/astro_w2at_02_m_hp.57081.10947.pdf

HIM: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/coj3filepWmGGZ-u1298734553/astro_w2at_01_d_hp.56935.9881.pdf
Another watery Gemini. That's all the world needs. Tongue They are the shy ones (unlike myself) that really get deep into their emotions (unlike myself). So, it seems that I'm the only Gemini on these boards, with the exception of maybe Norcalman that isn't a watery Gemini. I'M EARTH-WIND & FIRE BABY!!! RRRRAAAAAAAWWWWRRRRRR!!!!!! smile
But seriously, I think that Gems are getting tired of answering these kind of questions. HaHaHa!! We get a thread about once a month, at least. My suggestion would be to go back into the archives. Plenty of Virgo/Gemini threads to choose from. Unless someone wants to chime in.
In short. This is normal Gemini behavior. *shrugs* Don't bore him if you haven't done so already. Don't do the Virgo critical analysis. Be flexible, and allow his wings to spread. Give him a beer, the remote, and plenty of head. Do all of that, and you got yourself a keeper. Big Grin
Hey GeminiMind!!
I am a pretty chill person, I love my space, mental stimulation. The issue I am having with him is what people usually have with me...go figure haha! He's been lw on communication since day one, and when it's alot I just back off for a few days (I don't like to be on top of anyone, stressing). I don't want to analyze him, he's not a science project. Lol! I take your advice and will read some more, I love reading!!.
But what do you think about his chart and mine? Also, I get bored VERY easily...he seems like he won't bore me, but I adore stimulation like a manic.
How would I know if I bored him already? When someone bores me, I just tell them...I really like to be honest.
Thanks so much for chiming in!
Posted by GeminiMind
Another watery Gemini. That's all the world needs. Tongue They are the shy ones (unlike myself) that really get deep into their emotions (unlike myself). So, it seems that I'm the only Gemini on these boards, with the exception of maybe Norcalman that isn't a watery Gemini. I'M EARTH-WIND & FIRE BABY!!! RRRRAAAAAAAWWWWRRRRRR!!!!!! smile
But seriously, I think that Gems are getting tired of answering these kind of questions. HaHaHa!! We get a thread about once a month, at least. My suggestion would be to go back into the archives. Plenty of Virgo/Gemini threads to choose from. Unless someone wants to chime in.
In short. This is normal Gemini behavior. *shrugs* Don't bore him if you haven't done so already. Don't do the Virgo critical analysis. Be flexible, and allow his wings to spread. Give him a beer, the remote, and plenty of head. Do all of that, and you got yourself a keeper. Big Grin

Posted by GeminiMind
Give him a beer, the remote, and plenty of head. Do all of that, and you got yourself a keeper. Big Grin



lol, that goes for any guy lmao!
Posted by BreathBreather2SoulLover

How would I know if I bored him already? When someone bores me, I just tell them...I really like to be honest.
Thanks so much for chiming in!


I don't tell people they bore me - that's rude...I just...move on and make myself scarce. If he's into you than you will know, he will be all over you. Until the interest dies and he finds something else more challenging. Just keep busy with your life and don't be living your life through him and don't be clingy, thinking that all is set in stone.
just real life advice, from my own perspective how I would react, nothing to do with charts.
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Okay, I'm not one for being indirect. So, I'll be direct. THERE'S NO CHANCE IN HELL!!! HaHaHaHaHaHa!! But I've been wrong before. smile The ONLY shot you have based on those charts is that you both have Air elements in Venus. Sexually you are compatible. But dude has that Pisces moon which might make him a bit on the softer, more sentimental side. I can not relate to that. But, that doesn't make him a bad person. However, that Sag moon of yours might be a bit overbearing for him. When he gets all sensitive, he might use emotional manipulation. Which makes him quite the dangerous Gemini. You've got your hands full sweets. I mean, you are going behind his back and coming on dxp to figure him out, right? However, if you push him he'll turn into vapor. I posted something an hour or so ago that will give you some insight into the Gemini man.
ank you!
My friend who is into astrology more than me kept mentioning, "It's cause he's a Gemini, it's cause he's a Gemini" and directed me here. I like this site, it's interesting. Behind his back? I see what you mean. Hmm...well he doesn't speak to me, he told me he wants to get to know me, I do as well. But when I ask questions, talk about interesting intellectual subjects it's one word answers since day one. He talks to everyone but me and only asks me "how are you feeling today?" ad that's it. Doesn't even really look me in the eyes. I feel he hides behind a tough exterior, he's so cute. At the end of the day, it's ok if it doesn't work out. I'm optimistic about life. He seems bright, getting to know him as a person wouldn't hurt. But force pushes me away, I agree that it would push him away.
Posted by GeminiMind
You can ALWAYS be direct with me! I appreciate it!

I wouldn't use "You are boring", yes you're right, that is rude. But if I don't feel a onnection, I do speak my mind as opposed to leading someone on or not saying anything at all. I like being honest. I think that's fair. Communication. I definitely agree with just living my life. It's the best way to go about everything, just live! Thank you!
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Posted by BreathBreather2SoulLover


I don't tell people they bore me - that's rude...I just...move on and make myself scarce......s.


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So guess what? :-) We finally hung out yesterday, for 8 hours. We spoke on the phone for about 20 minutes, decided to hang out. He admits he's just very quiet, doesn't talk much etc. But he says random, sex related things and then laughs at my response. We actually both laugh. I'm not usually prudish, but since we haven't really hangout yet, he is just a "so fresh" for a "shy" person, perhaps that's his twin lol. At times I don't reveal my fire until I feel free about it and that it will be appreciated. He says he's just joking, but he says things that are outlandish and laughs at my reaction and continues to make point of it. I have no diea what that is about. Is it for shock value? But when we met up, we spoke and joked around, he did have his random outlandish comments again. But we fell asleep cuddled at times when we slept (I slept fully dressed hahaha O:-) - I didn't plan to fall aselep, nor was I going to get undressed). Seems like it flowed nicely, for the most part he was respectful and sweet to me. He asked if I was going to the Drs office today which I told him yes. He always seems to ask that as if he wants another opportunity to see me again.
He seems very sexual and connected to himself which I like (he doesn't need to now that right now, as I am still curious of his intentions), but I'd just I like to know if it is "common" for Gemini men to say sexual things for shock value or is that just a normal part of their character?
Hanging out with him gave me more insight on his personality and I am no loner in wonder, that's all I wanted since he was such a cute mute. Big Grin
Hope your weekend was grad, and yes you can be direct with me.

Posted by GeminiMind
Okay, I'm not one for being indirect. So, I'll be direct. THERE'S NO CHANCE IN HELL!!! HaHaHaHaHaHa!! But I've been wrong before. smile The ONLY shot you have based on those charts is that you both have Air elements in Venus. Sexually you are compatible. But dude has that Pisces moon which might make him a bit on the softer, more sentimental side. I can not relate to that. But, that doesn't make him a bad person. However, that Sag moon of yours might be a bit overbearing for him. When he gets all sensitive, he might use emotional manipulation. Which makes him quite the dangerous Gemini. You've got your hands full sweets. I mean, you are going behind his back and coming on dxp to figure him out, right
Breath - Oh my gosh, you have the same placements as me except my rising sign is Pisces!! Sorry for the lack of input, I just found that interesting smile
Ha ha!! What are the odds, me thinks we'd get along! Your sun is in Virgo too?? It's cool, I decided to cut him off.
He is looking for something I am not willing to give. I asked an extremely direct question and he is a man whore. Go figure and he claims he's shy. His course of actions were, all over the place and I think that's has to do with other factors as opposed to just being a Gemini. He's just an undercover jerk who isn't honest with his intentions haha!!
Thank you for stopping by anyway ^_^

Posted by oddball73
Breath - Oh my gosh, you have the same placements as me except my rising sign is Pisces!! Sorry for the lack of input, I just found that interesting smile