Gemini Playing Games???

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by LibraFlirt on Wednesday, December 12, 2007 and has 9 replies.
I met a Gemini male a little over a year ago and the attraction was intense. We had to meet on a regular basis due to a class assignment and I have never met anyone more interesting. It was quite obvious back then that he liked me (unless he was just playing) and although I would flirt back I didn't let it go any further for fear of pushing him away. This seemed to make him like me more. Just this past summer I couldn't resist and gave in to him. No relationship, just physical bliss. We were getting deeply involved when I told him I had real feelings for him. After that he claimed he was busy (for the rest of the summer). When this past semester started he would come up to me like nothing ever happened. I am hurt by this!!! I still catch him staring at me and things like that yet I don't know what he is thinking!!! HELP.. I still love him yet I don't know if he loves me or just wants a physical relationship with no strings.
Well I understand how by me telling him I had real feelings for him scared him away. However, I don't understand the running off for several months with no word. Is that normal? I am not the type to lock people down and I thought I made that very clear. Now, whenever I see him at social events I know he wants to talk to me but I think he is unsure if he should. I would act like I don't see him since I don't want to seem too excited, maybe it is the same for him. On the other hand, when I see him by himself we always embrace and chat and he has the biggest smile on his face.
He has already once mentioned getting involved sexually but I turned it down since that is not what I want. I know he wants sex but I feel that he also likes me a lot. How should I treat the situation? Should I just ignore him and move on?
"physical bliss" lol wow how cute.
I don't know. I'm seeing a guy right now, and I smile when he's around, but I know I don't want it to go anywhere. He was confused when I told him this. "You seem happy when I'm with you" he said. I like people, I like cuddles, of course I'm happy. But I don't want him as my partner.
I don't know why your Gemini is being difficult like this, but you could pull back a bit and see what he does. Not sure?
You haven't already had sex?? I don't understand, anyway he's probably just curious about you on many levels love, sex, friendship, romance - everything is relative this word 'love' just might scare him because on a subconscious level these relationship words are loaded heavy, he's probably just curious about having sex with you so you might as well just go along with it - but then he might disappear again you won't see him and then he is back again and then gone again - here's a keyword for you 'experimentation' if you don't wan't it find someone else but because only you know yourself only you will be able to gauge on how must excitement that you missed out on. And about his informality that can be disconcerting so he's basically undecided about how close he want's to be with you - either this or he has too many things in his background that he has to deal with and it would be impossible for devote himself completely to you.
Libra is natural 'marriage' - 'relationship' sign Geminis... I suspect are different this way. Hope you have a romantic winter season.
'for him to devote ...'
Good points GeminiFox.
Libra keywords - 'partnership' 'relationship' and 'marriage.'
Gemini's and Libra's have a natural attraction to each other if you look up relationship compatibilities.
Gemini's naturally come in and out of peoples lives. At least thats how I am. We can only take so much of the same person for so long. Then we need a break and go to a different person for excitment.
If we always have fun with you then we will come back time and time again. I have a guy best friend who is a libra and I'm sure he feels the same way that you do about me. I know he has feelings for me so when it gets to be too much I back off. I lose contact for a bit weather its a week or a month I disapear. But I do enjoy being with him. I could spend everyday with him if I didn't feel like I was leading him on.
So maybe your gem doesn't want to lead you on. That's why he backs off from you. You need to make a decision is his friendship enough untill he comes around to want a relationship. Or just keep it as friendship.. I have thought about being with my libra friend but I don't know everytime I get close to him it scares me so I back off..
Don't scare him away. Gem's are great friends to have around. Especially when your having a bad day. We love to cheer people up: )

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