Gemini W and Aquarius M

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by generalgemini on Thursday, May 10, 2018 and has 20 replies.
I know it’s typically said that a Gemini usually gets along great with an Aquarius but I have tons of trouble with them and I was wondering if any other Gems did too? Or if anyone even knows why?

There was an Aquarius guy who I used to have classes with and he used to constantly ask my name which I said no to every time until he found it out on his own and he told my cousin I was pretty and he would definitely sleep with me!! He continued to talk inappropriately about me until I asked him to stop and then he got all mad saying I thought I was too good?! Now it’s like he has this huge problem with me, he goes out of his way to argue with me.

and there was this Aquarius guy who kept liking all of my posts until he finally messaged me and we started talking and flirting all that good stuff. Then a very childish issue came up, he said he wasn’t gonna keep approaching me and that I’d have to start coming to him and I got annoyed because he said it like I was beneath him or something and we argued. After my last message he didn’t message back and months later he messages me saying the only reason he never talked to me was because “You probably weren’t going to speak back you had a little boyfriend” which I never did 💀 now he’s like a toxic thorn that pops up whenever he wants to. So all bad experiences with Aqua men for me.
May I know your name?
Yes everyone says Gemini matches Aquarius. In fact, they are difficult to handle each other because they think too much, have their own views, then argue
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I think Aquarians are individualistic and confident like us, so there can be an ego clash. In the past I've taken offense when none was intended. The friendship became harmonious after I learned to respect him and acknowledge all the good I see. After that they become patient listeners and eventually open up more about themselves
You’re extremely correct. We have arguments about the littlest things and sometimes it escalates but at times we can agree and join sides. I think I take the things they say the wrong way and they mistake the way I am for snobbishness.
Posted by Bluebellecalm
Yes everyone says Gemini matches Aquarius. In fact, they are difficult to handle each other because they think too much, have their own views, then argue
There are lots of debates between Aquarians and I, so this is extremely true. I kind of like being challenged on my views but after a while it gets annoying because they genuinely believe it’s their way or no way.
Posted by WittyGem88v2
Most days, aquas like us more than we like them lol
I get on with aquas though but i see what youre saying about the guys. My twin didnt like aquas chasing her. I love it when aquas chase me. Its all good. Lol
Exactly! And sometimes they are kind of intense. At times I like it but then they have this god complex that annoys me to no end.
I swear that Gemini women are easily annoyed by Aquarius men.

Grow some backbone and don't be so sensitive.
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head
Haha💀 I actually like them sometimes I guess I gravitate towards them and it’s a bad habit. But they are just very argumentative and they have a god complex, those are the only negatives for me.
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head


AerialView is a bad representative of Aquas.
We are not all like him. click to expand
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Hey I actually like Aquas. They’re all always very attractive, they are just a bit difficult
Posted by exsqueezeme
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head



Haha💀 I actually like them sometimes I guess I gravitate towards them and it’s a bad habit. But they are just very argumentative and they have a god complex, those are the only negatives for me. click to expand


I love the arguments. Sharpens the mind. click to expand
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I do too, at times. I just hate to be proved wrong 💀 Aquas have definitely helped me become more open minded.
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head



AerialView is a bad representative of Aquas.
We are not all like him. click to expand


Hey I actually like Aquas. They’re all always very attractive, they are just a bit difficult click to expand
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All Geminis are like that.

Only few admitted it though.
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head



AerialView is a bad representative of Aquas.
We are not all like him. click to expand



Hey I actually like Aquas. They’re all always very attractive, they are just a bit difficult click to expand


same goes for Geminis but I think that's a good thing.
There need to be some difficulties or the attraction and later the relationships wouldn't be as strong.
Many Aqua guys are just cowards. click to expand
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I believe it’s a good thing too, a relationship is extremely boring without the difficulties, but some don’t feel the same way I guess. And when you say that they’re cowards what do you mean? Because I believe we may feel the same!
Posted by AerialView
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head



AerialView is a bad representative of Aquas.
We are not all like him. click to expand



Hey I actually like Aquas. They’re all always very attractive, they are just a bit difficult click to expand


All Geminis are like that.
Only few admitted it though. click to expand
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I know I hate to admit lots of things as a Gemini, so I think you’re correct.
Posted by ACsquarepluto
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I think Aquarians are individualistic and confident like us, so there can be an ego clash. In the past I've taken offense when none was intended. The friendship became harmonious after I learned to respect him and acknowledge all the good I see. After that they become patient listeners and eventually open up more about themselves



You’re extremely correct. We have arguments about the littlest things and sometimes it escalates but at times we can agree and join sides. I think I take the things they say the wrong way and they mistake the way I am for snobbishness. click to expand


Respect is big with them and they don't want to bend over backwards to prove they deserve it, especially not at first when they may be unsure you are worth the effort. To give effort and appreciation and to need little in return will go far
Have you considered not provoking conflict, or if it happens, ceding to him within the argument out of care/love? (if you feel it)
I don't know Aquarius to want to pick fights. The one I know will turn around and walk away from it click to expand
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You are the REAL GEMINI 😎
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by AerialView
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head



AerialView is a bad representative of Aquas.
We are not all like him. click to expand



Hey I actually like Aquas. They’re all always very attractive, they are just a bit difficult click to expand



All Geminis are like that.

Only few admitted it though. click to expand


I know I hate to admit lots of things as a Gemini, so I think you’re correct. click to expand
click to expand
At least you're honest unlike the most of your kinds 😉
Posted by ACsquarepluto
Posted by AerialView
Posted by ACsquarepluto
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I think Aquarians are individualistic and confident like us, so there can be an ego clash. In the past I've taken offense when none was intended. The friendship became harmonious after I learned to respect him and acknowledge all the good I see. After that they become patient listeners and eventually open up more about themselves



You’re extremely correct. We have arguments about the littlest things and sometimes it escalates but at times we can agree and join sides. I think I take the things they say the wrong way and they mistake the way I am for snobbishness. click to expand



Respect is big with them and they don't want to bend over backwards to prove they deserve it, especially not at first when they may be unsure you are worth the effort. To give effort and appreciation and to need little in return will go far
Have you considered not provoking conflict, or if it happens, ceding to him within the argument out of care/love? (if you feel it)
I don't know Aquarius to want to pick fights. The one I know will turn around and walk away from it click to expand



You are the REAL GEMINI 😎 click to expand


😁 click to expand
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You know how to have fun with Aqua 😎
Posted by ACsquarepluto
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I think Aquarians are individualistic and confident like us, so there can be an ego clash. In the past I've taken offense when none was intended. The friendship became harmonious after I learned to respect him and acknowledge all the good I see. After that they become patient listeners and eventually open up more about themselves



You’re extremely correct. We have arguments about the littlest things and sometimes it escalates but at times we can agree and join sides. I think I take the things they say the wrong way and they mistake the way I am for snobbishness. click to expand


Respect is big with them and they don't want to bend over backwards to prove they deserve it, especially not at first when they may be unsure you are worth the effort. To give effort and appreciation and to need little in return will go far
Have you considered not provoking conflict, or if it happens, ceding to him within the argument out of care/love? (if you feel it)
I don't know Aquarius to want to pick fights. The one I know will turn around and walk away from it click to expand
click to expand
Most of our arguments have stemmed from them feeling I haven’t given enough, I realize that but I like to debate it a lot. It took me a while to understand that they feel that way and I can’t debate feelings. As I said before I hate to be proved wrong but if the problem is to ever rise again, I won’t want to make it a huge argument. I think it’s time I started showing effort in all of my Aqua/Gem relationships.
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Don't date Aquas. They are annoying for sure.
Run away from them. Before you do that whack him on his head



AerialView is a bad representative of Aquas.
We are not all like him. click to expand



Hey I actually like Aquas. They’re all always very attractive, they are just a bit difficult click to expand



same goes for Geminis but I think that's a good thing.
There need to be some difficulties or the attraction and later the relationships wouldn't be as strong.
Many Aqua guys are just cowards. click to expand



I believe it’s a good thing too, a relationship is extremely boring without the difficulties, but some don’t feel the same way I guess. And when you say that they’re cowards what do you mean? Because I believe we may feel the same! click to expand


Starting an argument and then run away from it as soon as it becomes "too serious" for they taste for example.
They like to dish but when they have to take some they crumble. click to expand
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Yes. Yes a million times. When they don’t want to deal with the intensity of it all, they shrug it off as if they didn’t start it to begin with!
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I think Aquarians are individualistic and confident like us, so there can be an ego clash. In the past I've taken offense when none was intended. The friendship became harmonious after I learned to respect him and acknowledge all the good I see. After that they become patient listeners and eventually open up more about themselves



You’re extremely correct. We have arguments about the littlest things and sometimes it escalates but at times we can agree and join sides. I think I take the things they say the wrong way and they mistake the way I am for snobbishness. click to expand



Respect is big with them and they don't want to bend over backwards to prove they deserve it, especially not at first when they may be unsure you are worth the effort. To give effort and appreciation and to need little in return will go far
Have you considered not provoking conflict, or if it happens, ceding to him within the argument out of care/love? (if you feel it)
I don't know Aquarius to want to pick fights. The one I know will turn around and walk away from it click to expand



Most of our arguments have stemmed from them feeling I haven’t given enough, I realize that but I like to debate it a lot. It took me a while to understand that they feel that way and I can’t debate feelings. As I said before I hate to be proved wrong but if the problem is to ever rise again, I won’t want to make it a huge argument. I think it’s time I started showing effort in all of my Aqua/Gem relationships. click to expand


As much as I'm aware of Aquas weaknesses and flaws I would say the same about Geminis.
They often expect much in return for very little given.
This wighs even more is it a serious relationship like a romantic/sexual one. click to expand
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Sadly, you’re right. At least about this Gemini. I notice that I’m doing it but it’s a habit that is hard to shake. It is usually the demise of my friendships or relationships.
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by Pleistoanax
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
Posted by generalgemini
Posted by ACsquarepluto
I think Aquarians are individualistic and confident like us, so there can be an ego clash. In the past I've taken offense when none was intended. The friendship became harmonious after I learned to respect him and acknowledge all the good I see. After that they become patient listeners and eventually open up more about themselves



You’re extremely correct. We have arguments about the littlest things and sometimes it escalates but at times we can agree and join sides. I think I take the things they say the wrong way and they mistake the way I am for snobbishness. click to expand



Respect is big with them and they don't want to bend over backwards to prove they deserve it, especially not at first when they may be unsure you are worth the effort. To give effort and appreciation and to need little in return will go far
Have you considered not provoking conflict, or if it happens, ceding to him within the argument out of care/love? (if you feel it)
I don't know Aquarius to want to pick fights. The one I know will turn around and walk away from it click to expand



Most of our arguments have stemmed from them feeling I haven’t given enough, I realize that but I like to debate it a lot. It took me a while to understand that they feel that way and I can’t debate feelings. As I said before I hate to be proved wrong but if the problem is to ever rise again, I won’t want to make it a huge argument. I think it’s time I started showing effort in all of my Aqua/Gem relationships. click to expand



As much as I'm aware of Aquas weaknesses and flaws I would say the same about Geminis.
They often expect much in return for very little given.
This wighs even more is it a serious relationship like a romantic/sexual one. click to expand



Sadly, you’re right. At least about this Gemini. I notice that I’m doing it but it’s a habit that is hard to shake. It is usually the demise of my friendships or relationships. click to expand


I think communication between our signs is the key.
Once one sign has become suspicious and doesn't trust the other side anymore things go downhill rather fast.
If an Aqua becomes soft or caring with you it's very special and means a lot.
Unfotuantely Geminis are often more interested in those common, somewhat superficial "proves" of love and demand more.
Geminis can also be incredibly unaware of the fact that the other person has feelings too.
It can be good and beautiful between our species but I requires some effort and sacrifices on both sides.
Just as a good relationship should be. click to expand
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I completely agree. The problem with my relationships with Aquas is I don’t really communicate properly. I’m completely oblivious when they’re being honest with their feelings and that gets them angry. But I have to admit at certain points in the relationships, it is complete bliss.