Posted by MagicMona
no. you're not a bad person. you two just don't mix well. communication is strained and the thrill is gone.
Posted by funkycatsoNo one is perfect. Sounds like your style s of communication are not compatible.
Hi! So I've been with this Scorpio man for 6 years now and it's been a lets say very rocky relationship with lots of very intense arguments and fights. I've thought about leaving so many times I've stopoed counting. There are so many things we just don't speak the same language on and so we have lots of misunderstandings and just small frustration i think. Now we've always kept being together cause I know he loves me more than anything and accepts my stupid quirks but at the same time I keep wondering if I would've been the same woman today if I hadn't been with him. Scorpios are so intense and they want a dedicated and devoted partner because that's what they are and I just feel like I've left myself out of the equation many times following him around. Are there many gems that feel this way ? Also he really have started saying how it frustrates him how I can be so cool and you know emotionless in fights. How my way of being is superficial and that I am way to gossipy and judgemental for my own best. I am not judgemental sure, I like to trashtalk but I am still an open minded person who doensn't stick to her guns. He feels I'm immature and closeminded and way too fast to change her mood up and down... I just feel like after all this time we can't seem to walk by our incompatibilities. Because I can't stand him being so intense and emotional at times, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and every single discussion has to end up in us both hating eachother... I am starting to feel like ending this for real.... I am a Sun gem, moon capricorn, ascendant virgo, mercury taurus, mars aries and venus in libra while he is sun scorpio, moon aquarius, ascendant sag, mercury sag, mars scorpio and venus in libra. Just want to see if there could be some explanation or am I just a bad person ?
Posted by aquarius_beautyFinally an accurate description of what my experience with a Scorpio has been like! Don't mean to get off the subject of the original post, but I just found this description of a Gemini and Scorpio so true, at least for me. We're supposed to be incompatible, but if it's wrong I don't want to be right
I don't think there's a 'bad paring'. Like trusted psychic medium has stated in many of the 'incompatible matches', any relationship takes work. Even compatible pairings can falter if you don't constantly water your relationship. I truly believe that the reason 'compatible pairings' work easier is because they have similarities. Incompatible pairings can work if you have both emotionally mature individuals willing to work against the adversaries. I honestly wouldn't give up on the love of your life. If he is the one man who can make you change and see the other side of the pond, then why not? You both have faults. No one is perfect.
I know I probably can't relate since I've never dated a Scorpio but it hits close to home as I have Gemini Moon and he has Scorpio Moon. So I guess I can give you a bit of hope by coping and pasting what I read recently on one of my Astrology books that match up Hetero/Homo sexual relationship with each astrology sun sign. I found this to be fairly accurate despite the fact that he's a Leo and I'm an Aquarius. But giving our moon/emotional natures, it does correlate as well. Let me know if you agree with it or not.
Gemini Woman + Scorpio Man
'The Whodunit'
Chemistry
There is no lack of intrigue surrounding this couple, even at the outset of the relationship. Often, they represent forbidden fruit to one another-each or both being in an existing bond-and thus start a romance in secret. The sexual connection is unusually strong, yet neither character easily commits, preferring the bond to be a physical one, if and when it suits both parties. But the more they try to avoid falling in love, the deeper they tumble. There is always some complication, but typically one which is self-created. When these two get together, it's sexually combustive, and it can scare them both off. But they can't stay away for long, despite the intensity. Gemini is especially under the Scorpion's spell, just as she senses his inherent loneliness and seeks to bring more light to his life. He sees in her a vital lifeline and a chance at a functional relationship. But make no mistake, appearances count here. Scorpio typically targets a Gemini who possesses model-good looks, while she is drawn to a tall and sinewy brand of Scorpio male. Both are independent spirits, and Scorpio, especially, needs solitude, which allows the Gemini to have her own life outside of the relationship. Friends of either individual may never meet the mystery mate, even as it becomes a lifelong bond.
Compatibility
In a way, these two always seem like stranger to each other, which actually works for them. Gemini gives Scorpio complete autonomy in exchange for a social life; Scorpio is known to usurp a woman's life, barring her from her usual Habitrail but, here, he senses straightaway that that's not possible. Gemini gives only in proportion to what she's given. So, though she knows she's psychosexually connected with this man, she acknowledges that this isn't a symbiotic bond in which she'll share her whole existence with him. Rather, Scorpio and Gemini fuse on an unspoken level, but along a thin membrane of experience, such that the bulk of their activity is centered around individual pursuits. Even when it comes to childrearing, they often take turns being mother and father to their kids, while the other focuses wholeheartedly on solo endeavors. Frequently, these two work under the same aegis, getting behind and monetizing one of their talents or interests, but, even then, they will operate independently, dividing and conquering. The "stranger" element in their relationship often has a more literal manifestation, as these two might come from divergent cultural backgrounds or separate countries, being foreign to each other, adding more intrigue in the mix. Indeed, Gemini governs Scorpio's cosmic 8th house of sex and other mysteries like death (rebirth), the subconscious, and any such means of regeneration on that score. Often, the pairing signals Scorpio's turning a new leaf on life, ditching negative behavior patterns that previously prevented him from utter concentration on his life's purpose, as he defines it. Scorpio, in turn, governs Gemini's 6th house of devotional work, healthy habits, and interdependents, which these characters are to each other.
Carnality
Outsiders wonder how and why this relationship works, as the couple seems disconnected. Not so. The real bonding has always gone on in the bedroom. From the first time they sleep together, both individuals tend to bale this the best sex they've ever had, from the vantage of physical pleasure as well as the emotional link they forge. Gemini's rule over Scorpio's cosmic sex house turns him into more ardent a lover, here, than with perhaps any other woman. He is obsessed with satisfying the Twins lady, pulling out all stop to do so. He awakens every inch of her body, with his skillful tongue and caresses spending countless hours eating at the Y and sending her into what seem like other dimension of experience. He is naturally attuned to her and instinctively pinpoints her every erogenous zone. Geminis is a sensitive sexual instrument, having a low threshold for pleasure or pain, thus for whom subtlety is the secret to making her moan. No man seems to understand that fact more clearly than the serpentine Scorpio, who slithers in, out, and all around the Twins in ways that might go unnoticed to other women, but send this nervy lady right through the roof. Gemini clings to Scorpio, as if she can't get close enough, overcome with sentiment for this most nurturing man. We have jokingly labeled straight Scorpio man "the male lesbian of the zodiac", and in this bond that tag is most fitting. He so knows his way around her female-body parts that one would think he had the same bits and pieces of his own. Moreover, he will hold, stroke, and comfort Gemini as a mother would a child, fully appreciating thus inspiring her to suckle at his own breast, not to mention his notoriously snakelike member. And where, with other guys, Gemini has felt sexually put upon to perform, orally or otherwise, here she is motivated to do so by an almost infantile fixation. Scorpio is so patient and obsessive that he will edge the Gemini without lifting more than a finger, bringing her to the brink time and again until she's so inflamed and juiced up she barely recognizes such vivid bodily reactions as her own. Scorpio wants to do everything sexually, including taking the Gemini anally, something to which she is usually adamantly opposed. Only the Scorpio could, through languid perseverance in erotically activating heretofore barricaded nether regions, inspire the Gemini to beg for things she previously prohibited. Likewise, in her emotionally charged expressions of gratitude toward this secretly loving man, she will find herself seeking to please him in ways, and places, once declared off-limits. And lapping it up. There are rarely bells and whistles in this couple's sexual play, just as a third party doesn't tend to enter in. The tenor of their lovemaking is intense and exhaustive. Passionate outpourings are both emotional and real, meaning laundry will be done after each and every time these two hit the sheets.
---Hope I helped---
Posted by funkycatso
it's been a lets say very rocky relationship with lots of very intense arguments and fights.
I've thought about leaving so many times I've stopoed counting.
There are so many things we just don't speak the same language on and so we have lots of misunderstandings
Posted by aquarius_beautyYes we've been seeing each other for a year now. It's been intriguing, challenging, and so different than any relationship I've experienced. We don't completely get each other, but that might be a big part of the allure. He fascinates me beyond beliefPosted by jolene6776I know what you mean. It can be volatile, as any relationship. It takes a lot of maturity, understanding, and compromise from two individuals who love one another. This is why I take some of the incompatibility with a grain of salt. I've known of a couple, (friends parents) who are Scorpio man and Gemini woman. They've been married for over 20 years. My friend would tell me of the love they had for one another and the occasional arguments. But they learned to work against them.
Finally an accurate description of what my experience with a Scorpio has been like! Don't mean to get off the subject of the original post, but I just found this description of a Gemini and Scorpio so true, at least for me. We're supposed to be incompatible, but if it's wrong I don't want to be right
You're still with your scorpio?click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyThe mystery and the reason behind it definitely keeps me in. I find a lot of men to be simple to figure out, but he's complicated. His moon sign is a gemini and mine is gemini and I read that we're compatible in that sense but I don't know if that will make up for our sun signs being incompatible.Posted by jolene6776I know what you mean. When I read the compatibility that I typed up, it resonated with me and the Scorp moonie in a lot of ways. ^^ That's what keeps you in doesn't it? The fact that you're trying to figure each other out but you can't just quite pin the mystery or the reason behind it...
Yes we've been seeing each other for a year now. It's been intriguing, challenging, and so different than any relationship I've experienced. We don't completely get each other, but that might be a big part of the allure. He fascinates me beyond belief
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