gemini women and virgo men?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by leejt86 on Thursday, September 5, 2013 and has 11 replies.
curious as to if these relationships work?
NO
why dont they work?
i dont think theres a chance of this going anywhere because she just got out of a very serious relationship. But we have gotten close recently...
so i dont know....
lol prince charming? that only happens in movies right?
I have a friend who is a male virgo and his wife is a gemini. they've been married over 30 years. with that said, i know it's been an up and down relationship.
I don't know all their personal issues ext., but being a gem and knowing a few male Virgo's, I can attest to several things.
Female Gems and Male Virgo's usually have this instant connection. It must have something to do with our mercurial ties.
Gems are communicators and love to share. Virgo's can be effective communicators, but really don't like the emotional stuff. If you connect
with them on topics as politics, current events, economic issues, sports etc., and occasionally add a sense of humor, they will enjoy the conversation.
But I've found most of the time it's the Gem who has to engage them first.
Now once this first step of communication is reached, it's really hard to move the rapport further. Why? Because Gems like a guy who listens and can demonstrate some empathy. You know, basically act human. Male Virgo's OTOH, don't emote, except for anger. And as the entire world knows by now, most Male Virgo's love to critique you from head to toe. After hearing about all your flaws and how you need to fix them, Gems take this stuff personally and start resenting the Virgo. Virgo's see the change of behavior in the Gem and can't understand the cause of it. Thus, the undermining of the relationship ensues.
OK, that was a generic version, however, in real life, I've experienced this. I know my Gem. friend whose married to the Virgo for 30 plus years has experienced it. She must be a better person than I am, because I would have left that marriage a long time ago. I believe what's gotten her through the friction and resentment stage is that both are very independent people, and they have their own interests and hobbies outside their marriage. So because of that, they've made it work.
I've always been a very independent person. I think most Gems are blessed with this strength. Relationships are suppose to be give and take. I've had some good Virgo friends over the years, but nothing more has come about even when we tried. The initial flame is very strong, but then it seems to burn out because once the sexual tension thing dies out, you can only be left with friendship.
Posted by geminicandle
I think it takes two mature individuals, who are willing to work on it. Love is patient and love is kind.


Obviously. I've been married for 15 years, so trust me, i get it. My husband is a Scorpio. He is very stubborn, and often I have to push and push and push to get him to do something or change his mind on an issue. However, it's not directed at me personally nor a means of berating me. That's where in lies the difference compared to a Virgo.
When you have one side whose DNA makes him criticize because he desires perfection, and the other who wishes to be understood, you will naturally have conflict. And the OP asked about Virgo and Gemini relationships. I've known about 10 male virgo's in my life, 3 of which were very close. Those 3 all had the tendency to criticize. I resented it. Any human being with a pulse would. This is why this connection is not easy. It is what it is.
FTR, I also had a double's partner years ago in tennis. She was perfect, but when I made an error, she criticized me as if it was the end of the world, and did so through the entire match. I ran into her last year at a match and we reflected on our younger days playing doubles together. The first thing she said to me was, "Yea, I recall you always had trouble with throwing up lobs..." I couldn't believe after 30 years, that's the first thing she would say to me. She wasn't any better than I was, but in her mind, she was. And every time I stepped on the court with her, I resented her. Same deal in a relationship with someone who targets you rather than building you up.
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interesting story actually..
Her and i were friends when we were kids, I moved away freshman year of HS and we lost touch.
After HS she moved out to California with her boyfriend. They broke it off recently and she's moving back home.
Recently her and I have gotten pretty close. I dont know if she's ready to date again, just seeing if its a possibility in the future
hmm i dont know right now
Nothing happened I just don't want to push her away if she's not ready