Geminiphobia
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by LilYanga11 on Saturday, September 17, 2016 and has 8 replies.
I'm a Virgo Sun and a Virgo Ascendant. I am a very Virgo Virgo. I love Geminis and I find them fascinating. But why do they terrify me?
Im a virgo moon and gemini rising. Very Mercury energy.
Posted by LilYanga11Could you give some more details, or examples of when you felt this way around a Gemini?
I'm a Virgo Sun and a Virgo Ascendant. I am a very Virgo Virgo. I love Geminis and I find them fascinating. But why do they terrify me?
I have a Virgo sister; we get along well and have a good rapport when it comes to communication. However, one thing I noticed is that my way of communicating is much more free flowing, summarizing, abrupt and constantly changing subject matter. She is totally different. She is much more focused, analytical and will frequently stop me and ask to confirm or clarify the details of something, which I have to admit I find a bit annoying, lol.
Y'all really don't have a plan do y'all? You just make it up as you go, don't y'all? Y'all are open and trusting, ain't y'all?
See, that's terrifying. And then y'all be random and distracted and unfocused.
I know this Gemini from East Oakland and we'll be out in the streets and she'll stop and pause to talk to random crackheads. I'm not saying she'll ocassionally do this. We'll be walking through some sketchy-ass head and she'll talk to every random-ass person on the block like that's cool. This woman used to be sexually exploited and I don't think she has any idea how to keep herself safe or stable. That ish terrifies me. I can't enjoy being out with her cuz I feel like she gone run off in some random direction or do some weird stuff and I have to keep her safe and I might have to get violent with someone cuz this woman wants to be open and friendly with random ass strangers in the hood.
I mean I guess I don't have no powerful, overwhelming urge to have an intimate conversation with the dope fiend across the street. I don't hate or judge the person, I just move around without wanting to draw attention to myself and mind my business and not mess with random ass people.
But Geminis want to be best friends with every random person they walk past or sit next to on a bus. That's beautiful but I can't relate. If I had that urge, I guess I'd go pour my heart out to random strangers too and be very vulnerable because I trust random ass people.
See, that's terrifying. And then y'all be random and distracted and unfocused.
I know this Gemini from East Oakland and we'll be out in the streets and she'll stop and pause to talk to random crackheads. I'm not saying she'll ocassionally do this. We'll be walking through some sketchy-ass head and she'll talk to every random-ass person on the block like that's cool. This woman used to be sexually exploited and I don't think she has any idea how to keep herself safe or stable. That ish terrifies me. I can't enjoy being out with her cuz I feel like she gone run off in some random direction or do some weird stuff and I have to keep her safe and I might have to get violent with someone cuz this woman wants to be open and friendly with random ass strangers in the hood.
I mean I guess I don't have no powerful, overwhelming urge to have an intimate conversation with the dope fiend across the street. I don't hate or judge the person, I just move around without wanting to draw attention to myself and mind my business and not mess with random ass people.
But Geminis want to be best friends with every random person they walk past or sit next to on a bus. That's beautiful but I can't relate. If I had that urge, I guess I'd go pour my heart out to random strangers too and be very vulnerable because I trust random ass people.
btw I mention things like not having a plan as being terrifying from a Virgo perspective. I'm not saying that sort of thing is objectively wrong or anything like that, it's just terrifying for me cuz it's so alien to my way of existing and it conflicts with how I am.
*through some sketchy ass hood
@LilYanga11 What area are you from? lol I only ask bc of all of the "yalls" and the first sentence reminded me of Juvenile (rapper)
And I was cracking up at "I know this Gemini from East Oakland and we'll be out in the streets and she'll stop and pause to talk to random crackheads."
I have a Gemini friend that'll talk to anyone about anything but also cuss a homeless person out for walking towards her at night (not sure if thats the gemini twin lol)
But I feel like I can relate to Geminis with being able to talk to anyone, sometimes I don't want to talk at all, even to ppl I know. I typically know a couple of homeless ppl's faces downtown and will carry on a short convo but I assess the situation before I walk into it and while im in it. Ive taken food to ppl downtown and had dance offs w/ homeless ppl (just light fun) bc they're still ppl too, yea there are some that may try to harm others but I watch ppl for a while before I interact with them (and theres ppl around)
If she has been sexually exploited this could be her way of dealing with it, getting to recognize ppl instead of fearing them. And if she's kept herself safe all of this time you shouldn't worry, if she really needs you, you'll know
And I was cracking up at "I know this Gemini from East Oakland and we'll be out in the streets and she'll stop and pause to talk to random crackheads."
I have a Gemini friend that'll talk to anyone about anything but also cuss a homeless person out for walking towards her at night (not sure if thats the gemini twin lol)
But I feel like I can relate to Geminis with being able to talk to anyone, sometimes I don't want to talk at all, even to ppl I know. I typically know a couple of homeless ppl's faces downtown and will carry on a short convo but I assess the situation before I walk into it and while im in it. Ive taken food to ppl downtown and had dance offs w/ homeless ppl (just light fun) bc they're still ppl too, yea there are some that may try to harm others but I watch ppl for a while before I interact with them (and theres ppl around)
If she has been sexually exploited this could be her way of dealing with it, getting to recognize ppl instead of fearing them. And if she's kept herself safe all of this time you shouldn't worry, if she really needs you, you'll know
@littlenanobyte Okay I guess my friend's just... herself lol.
@EarthBoundFeline
I stay in the Bay Area but I'm originally from Houston lol. I say y'all a lot.
@EarthBoundFeline
I stay in the Bay Area but I'm originally from Houston lol. I say y'all a lot.
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