gemini's and flirting
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by drops of jupiter on Friday, July 14, 2006 and has 14 replies.
Ok I know gemini's like to flirt.. I know this really typical gemini male. He talks fast, moves fast, has about 3 different personalitites, and he can be really intimidating to be around. I find myself being veerrrryyy attracted to him, and I'm a libra so I hear thats good. He does like to flirt a lot with me, but I'm wondering if he's just doing that because he's a gemini.. i heard they flirt, even if they have no intention of ever being with the person, its just the way they carry themselves.
So, my question is, how am I supposed to know how hes just flirting and nothing more? Do they have any special ways they flirt or a way they look at you or something? I can't exactly ask him, its a little more complicated than that.. I could probably write a book, but I'd really like to know of any little gestures or words, or anything I should look out for to tell if hes serious. Anyone??
So, my question is, how am I supposed to know how hes just flirting and nothing more? Do they have any special ways they flirt or a way they look at you or something? I can't exactly ask him, its a little more complicated than that.. I could probably write a book, but I'd really like to know of any little gestures or words, or anything I should look out for to tell if hes serious. Anyone??
hi drops =) i'm a gemini female who is friends with alot of gem males, and were kinda the same so here it goes...
Yes we do flirt, and sometimes with out knowing we do it we ppl we don't like, but when he talks to you look for these things.
A)Does he seem really interested in what you have to say(meaning are you the only one is he paying attenstion to)
B)Does he seem nervous? If he likes you, you can kind of tell he'll be nervous, just keep up with it so you can see it clearer.
C)If your not around for a little does he seem excited(in a man way lol) to talk to you? and strike up a conversation?..
Now the flip side to this is also if he likes you he might be kind of shy to be aggressive at first, but you will sooner or later know bc if he isn't he won't give you that much attenstion around the people he'd rather talk to... Hope i helped a little, if you have anymore questions ask away
and... welcome =) i'm sure the other gems will help you out more!
Yes we do flirt, and sometimes with out knowing we do it we ppl we don't like, but when he talks to you look for these things.
A)Does he seem really interested in what you have to say(meaning are you the only one is he paying attenstion to)
B)Does he seem nervous? If he likes you, you can kind of tell he'll be nervous, just keep up with it so you can see it clearer.
C)If your not around for a little does he seem excited(in a man way lol) to talk to you? and strike up a conversation?..
Now the flip side to this is also if he likes you he might be kind of shy to be aggressive at first, but you will sooner or later know bc if he isn't he won't give you that much attenstion around the people he'd rather talk to... Hope i helped a little, if you have anymore questions ask away
and... welcome =) i'm sure the other gems will help you out more!ATTENTION* i always do that lol
Since you are a Libra and you are investigating a Gemini man you'll need to take into consideration that you are dealing with a convergently related Air sign, a rather different kind of Air so to speak, a mutable one. Be more direct is my advice, show some reciprocation with his behavioural tendencies. And do check up on your decanate position to see if you have a Gemini - Mercurial decan.
Use this link to read up on the decans of Libra and Gemini. Type in the address.
http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/libradecans.html
http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/libradecans.html
Thanks for all the comments! Yes I've actually already looked into my decan, and I do indeed have a Gemini decan (Oct 20th), and he's actually a Libra decante, so it seems we're very compatible. The reason I started the thread though, was because I cant exactly act on anything at the moment.. its a very messy situation. But based on what I've been reading so far, it looks like its not just a one-sided attraction. But, we'll still have to wait it out and see. Thanks so much 
Thanks GeminiLover, I do think there is something different. When he does flirt with others, its almost like hes making fun of them. With me he seems a little more like he's trying to flatter me, rather than get on my nerves. I was also told by someone that he looks at me a lot, which I found hard to believe, since his attention is never on anything for more than 4 seconds! btw I'm 20, and hes 29, so you're not far off. Hopefully, someday, he'll also make it clear he was just after me too. I feel like I'm supposed to understand these gemini's, and I just dont at all lol
i'm a gemini, & i'm faithful as can be...i find cheating the weakest of all things, just my opinion.
You will know if he is truly interested if hes nervous around you. It a dead giveaway. I personally am usually nervouse around women im interested in its a normal thing for me ive always had. When im flirting with women just for fun im never ever nervous. Its really wierd. Remember always have a clever responce to your Gem to keep him intrigued. If he looses interest hes gone trust me on that one. Good luck let me know how your doing.
yeeeeuuuup =)
I'm an aquarius, was married to another Aquarian (best friends still); dated a Scorpio for a bit( talk about stifiling ). I was engaged to a Gemini for 6 years (explosive, delightful combo, he died young); I am currently involved with another Gemini man...and yes they do flirt, it seems to come natural to them. But he's as sweet and sensitive as he can be, but talk about charming and a quick talker and mover..phew! The flirting doesn't bother me at all though, I find it cute and harmless. Being an Aquaurain, I am told (by him and others) that I'm also a big flirt; but in a subtle way, so maybe that is why. I don't know, yet I dont deny being a flirt. Aquarians have their way of flirting...too.
I was once asked by my Gemini what type of man I like and I proceeded to lay out this list--and when I asked him in return, he made one succint statement: I like all women. LOL! Typical! And he flirts with them all in his sexy, charming way--all sizes, shapes and colors.
I say, if he flirts with you, flirt right back--go for the gold! It's how I met my Gemini--he flirted and I gave it back to him, but even better. He was helpless after that--just like I them..lol!
Honestly, he pretty much told me--that is what sealed the deal--me being bold and upfront, yet coy and playful. Gemini's love a challenge though, so don't show all your cards, or they get bored really quickly--and above all--be able to hold a conversation on various topics. Gemini men are fascinated by the women that are unique, different, yet accessible and boy do they love to talk--for hours, no less. My first phone conversation with my Gemini was a record breaking 5 hours and we only live 30 minutes apart...
Good luck
I was once asked by my Gemini what type of man I like and I proceeded to lay out this list--and when I asked him in return, he made one succint statement: I like all women. LOL! Typical! And he flirts with them all in his sexy, charming way--all sizes, shapes and colors.
I say, if he flirts with you, flirt right back--go for the gold! It's how I met my Gemini--he flirted and I gave it back to him, but even better. He was helpless after that--just like I them..lol!
Honestly, he pretty much told me--that is what sealed the deal--me being bold and upfront, yet coy and playful. Gemini's love a challenge though, so don't show all your cards, or they get bored really quickly--and above all--be able to hold a conversation on various topics. Gemini men are fascinated by the women that are unique, different, yet accessible and boy do they love to talk--for hours, no less. My first phone conversation with my Gemini was a record breaking 5 hours and we only live 30 minutes apart...
Good luck
haha thats so true about us and conversations when were interested...we go on and on and on lol
boy do they love to talk--for hours...
...... record breaking 5 hours ....
jeeeez... i can never get along well with a gemini then.... how can u just talk ..talk and talk non stop for hours?????
...... record breaking 5 hours ....
jeeeez... i can never get along well with a gemini then.... how can u just talk ..talk and talk non stop for hours?????
we flirt. be open just ask if he thinks something is there. just take intitive. he will tell you if he wants what you want, and if its not what you want...its not him you should be with.
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