Geminis......Please tell me the truth...

Hi all,

For the most part I get along pretty well with Geminis....BUT I notice some things you guys do that irks the hell out of me. My aunt, and the mother of an ex friend I used to have both did the same thing and I wonder why. They both tried to intimidate people that I believe they deemed either as weak or those they DARED to get slick at the mouth with them, I wonder why. They start ALOT of drama and then watch the showdown and giggle from the sidelines. Why is this? I would really like to know the truth from one of you that can keep it real. I also wonder why you guys tend to start trouble with those (that I believe) you find to be a threat, or possibly hotter than you or that you feel intimidated by....please an honest response...

Not a Gem here .. but, used to be married to one and one of my best friends is one .. I can tell you what I've percieve as for their motives, as being an outsider looking in .. Inferiourity Complex.

If drama is started, or some kind of trouble ensues .. then all the other people are looking at this "situation", instead of focusing on the fact that the Gem has started this so we won't notice how inferiour they believe they are in comparison to everyone else.

Distractions .. when I pay attention to what actually "is" instead of how it appears, I find that this only happens when they know they are defeated, or are looking stupid, or are embarrassed ..

I've noticed a lot of the younger Aries do this a lot, too. Thankfully, when the Ram matures .. they become more centered and realize that life isn't about how they "look". Wish I could say the same for the Gemini. My ex is nearly 50 and still he will take this posture when he feels small, instead of accepting that every person is small sometimes, just as we are big at times, as well .. human.

Wish I could help cept I don't know if I understand or can relate to what you've mentioned about Leodiva.

Hmmm P-Angel...I kinda agree with you but what I don't understand about that (in regards to the inferiority complex) is how they act so superior to me (these are JUST the Gems I know people)....they need everyone to gather at "their house" for the family stuff so they can show off how THEY FEEL they are better....they need to be deemed as the "nice/cool relative" or the ":Favorite"....but in some random situations they seem like they see a particular person as a threat (or feel inferior to that person) and they stir up trouble or "start with" that person kind of like wielding power to test the person .....my aunt (in response to aqua) has no particular problem going on in her inner life that I know of actually she tries to make it seem like she has the perfect relationship with the perfect man and I actually have a Gemini coworker who did the same thing...come to find out her husband was in jail why she tried to make everyone believe he was home every night, and having wonderful "family" weekends with her and the kids....I feel sorry for the ones I know....also the ones I know are always trying to get Money out of people to the point its disgusting....

lol make no mistake though, I do not believe any of us are perfect....AT ALL....and again, I GET ALONG WITH GEMINIS, there are just some things I see/observe in them that I wonder why they are this way like they have some deep seated issues.....and the funny thing is I have not thus far in my life encountered a physically unattractive Gemini to incur this much insecurity...its weird to me, the women I know including my aunt are good looking/pretty women...crazy

I have noticed that the Gemini's that in my life do have bad spending habits. They seem to always need the latest fashion but seem to neglect their priorities. Then attempt to give you a sap story w/ a brand new outfit on! LMAOOO!

SAG WHO ARE YOU TELLINGGG—?They are SHOPAHOLICS that is one thing I definitely forgot to mention. Its outrageous...I'd never put one in charge of my bankbook or give one a credit card...lol (no offense)...I cant speak for the men but the women need jesus for sure when it comes to spending

Yep .. that's what I observe in my Gem's also.

"If drama is started, or some kind of trouble ensues .. then all the other people are looking at this "situation", instead of focusing on the fact that the Gem has started this so we won't notice how inferiour they believe they are in comparison to everyone else."

Maybe they are bored.... I know I don't like to start drama or or be mixed up in it. When I was younger, I was guilty of that, because I would get so bored and want to get some excitement going. But as i matured that all stopped and now, I can't stand tention around me. And Inferiour— I don't know too many Gems that feel they are inferiour to anyone... arrogant ya, but inferiour never... that's actually pretty funny. Iw ould think that is exactly the opposite of who and what we are.. we are social butterflies.. so that didn't make any sense to me.

"I have noticed that the Gemini's that in my life do have bad spending habits. They seem to always need the latest fashion but seem to neglect their priorities. Then attempt to give you a sap story w/ a brand new outfit on! LMAOOO!"

We all aren't shopaholics.. but i don't think money management is on our list of positive attributes. I struggle with this daily. I envy those that have that natural ability. I do pretty good.. but if i want something, it's bought. I have learned over the years to save and manage better, but it will always be an issue for me.

Baby gurl may have a point, I get the inkling that my aunt gets bored when she starts this stuff and they have and give the most cunning/mischievous looks/glances I have every seen in my life....its like they are the face behind a scorpions actions lol its weird

I also notice they are very jealous, not in the inferior sense, Im not sure, but in not being considered popular or liked and someone else is....they CANT TAKE THAT. They need to be liked and be everyones favorite...and MANY of them think they know EVERYTHING can never be wrong, they say Pisces are this way but all the Gems I knoow are like this, they will NOT surrender their view till you agree with them....or feel they are right

"I also notice they are very jealous, not in the inferior sense"


Maybe you're right, leodiva .. maybe it's more a jealousy or eny thing, then feeling inferiour. Now that I think about it .. I have several Gem friends who get jealous of their own siblings and will throw a fit because their siblings get attention. They have a severe reaction to feeling left out of something .. thing is, they cause it themselves, from my perspective, for the reason below ..

One thing that really gets on my nerves, is that they don't know what objectivity means .. right up there with Cancers in my book, every little thing they take personally and I find that to be quite a bad quality .. especially, since they are so social. I wonder if they even realize that people think this about them? If you're gonna be a social butterfly and talk to everybody about everything .. then you can't subject yourself personally to everything said to you.

That's just a complete contridiction to the very nature of wanting to be socially graceful .. inept.

LeoDiva, I must admit, I do that, but I do it to mess with my nieces/nephews/little cousin/little sister and other kids...I do it to let them know that i am the adult & "you must respect me or I will light your up". They know i do it with a laughing face behind my mask. I can not be serious with kids...they have natural "minds games" they will shine a light on honesty.
However, I do not it with most adults (no matter who/what they are) because they try TOO hard to play you with a old ruggedy & boring mind games that are in the books & it's not worth playing w/. Some kids, however, play dirty & do not play by the books...Oh those selfish bastards.