Geminis, Scorpios and Leos
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by ImaLeo on Tuesday, April 4, 2006 and has 9 replies.
I posted this question on the Scorpio board but thought I would post it here also.
Both Gemini's and Scorpio's seem to like a mysterious type and want to be noticed much like Leo's. However, if a Leo is a quiet and shy person and does NOT thrive on attention, would that kind of person be intriguing for a Gemini or Scorpio? Like, would they (the Gemini or Scorpio) be more apt to try to get that persons (the quiet Leo) attention more?
Both Gemini's and Scorpio's seem to like a mysterious type and want to be noticed much like Leo's. However, if a Leo is a quiet and shy person and does NOT thrive on attention, would that kind of person be intriguing for a Gemini or Scorpio? Like, would they (the Gemini or Scorpio) be more apt to try to get that persons (the quiet Leo) attention more?
HMM...thats a tricky question. I think scorpios and Geminis like two different kinds of mystery. For gemini rather (I) get bored if you play it for to long, then it's annoing. Which i think scorpio in a way LOVES to find out everything, so they have more staying power then us! (YES IVE SAID IT LOL) umm but to answer your question. YES in the beggining i'd find it rather cute about the shyness and YES it would make me want to stay tuned and find out alot of stuff, the attenstion part though thats really hard to say bc i never met a Leo that didn't love attenstion lol so i wouldn't know, But if that ever happens , you'll be the first to get the answer 
i'm with ya on that Juicy.. especially about a Leo that didn't like attention. They may not seek it out. But they damn sure love getting it. I have always loved the Leo's. I love that arrogance.... that supiority they THINK they have.. LOL
I also can't stand that being too mysterious... i love a good chase and all but.. playing too hard and mysterious is a sure way to make me move on.
I also can't stand that being too mysterious... i love a good chase and all but.. playing too hard and mysterious is a sure way to make me move on.
baby -GRL...great minds think alike once again! haha yeah and i deff agree with you on the loving a good chase but overdoing it could be a deadly outcome.Lol
dancing bread.. i'm a gem with cancer raising... what you said cracked me up. I used to be like that.. really bad.. but my problem was, i wear every emotion on my face... so i got busted all the time.. so as i grew up... lol i figured things out. I'll still throw one in there... and you get that same giggle response.. that's some funny sh*t. The thing with that is, that's one of the things when i look for a guy.. i will try that..and see if i can get away with it.. as bad as it sounds. if i can, i lose complete interest. i think it has to do with, i'm looking for someone to truely know and understand me (Imagine that). so if he can't see i'm runnin a game on him, that's a huge turn off for me.
I am definately a more shy and quiet Leo. When I was younger my nickname was "shy". I don't like a lot of attention either. It makes me very uncomfortable, especially in a crowd. I think a lot of it stems from when I was a child, my Dad had the belief that children are to be seen, not heard. He also was telling me a lot not to bother people. Like if we saw someone we knew when we were out I would be like, "Hey there's so and so". He would always come back with "Now lets leave them alone, they don?t want to be bothered". And if I didn't listen?.well....he was Dad. Funny thing is, he's a Leo. He probably told me not to bother people so he could. Anyway, the only people I really seek attention from is friends and those I am interested in, lol.
Back to the subject though, well, part of the subject. I didn't really think of it until now but there's a couple of Gemini's I know well and they don't seem to read people very well at all from what I can tell. One Gemini I know real well told me when he sees a girl he thinks is hot, he ignores her because he believes that will make her try to get his attention. I told him I don't believe that's necessarily true. Then I asked, what if she doesn't pay any attention to you. He said that doesn't bother him, he just lets it go and doesn't really care. Now I find that real hard to believe but then again, I am a Leo.
If I'm interested in someone though and I try to get their attention and it doesn't work, it makes me feel real bad. Like I take it they just don't like me as a person then that makes me completely shut them out. I did that to the Gemini I work with at work. He gets my attention then acts like he doesn't care when I show him attention back. I got tired of it and just recently I decided to completely ignore him. If he's playing a game, I don't want to play anymore. I just got tired of it. So now when I walk by he talks louder or brushes by me or pops out in front of me likes he's trying to get me to say something, but I don't, I just keep on going. Now, should I think "silly man" or "silly Gemini"? I just don?t know anymore. As for figuring him out or reading him, sometimes I think I have him all figured out then other times I'm not sure. Usually I'm really good at reading people, but when it's someone I'm interested in, I just go round and round with it.
Back to the subject though, well, part of the subject. I didn't really think of it until now but there's a couple of Gemini's I know well and they don't seem to read people very well at all from what I can tell. One Gemini I know real well told me when he sees a girl he thinks is hot, he ignores her because he believes that will make her try to get his attention. I told him I don't believe that's necessarily true. Then I asked, what if she doesn't pay any attention to you. He said that doesn't bother him, he just lets it go and doesn't really care. Now I find that real hard to believe but then again, I am a Leo.
If I'm interested in someone though and I try to get their attention and it doesn't work, it makes me feel real bad. Like I take it they just don't like me as a person then that makes me completely shut them out. I did that to the Gemini I work with at work. He gets my attention then acts like he doesn't care when I show him attention back. I got tired of it and just recently I decided to completely ignore him. If he's playing a game, I don't want to play anymore. I just got tired of it. So now when I walk by he talks louder or brushes by me or pops out in front of me likes he's trying to get me to say something, but I don't, I just keep on going. Now, should I think "silly man" or "silly Gemini"? I just don?t know anymore. As for figuring him out or reading him, sometimes I think I have him all figured out then other times I'm not sure. Usually I'm really good at reading people, but when it's someone I'm interested in, I just go round and round with it.
i don't know about me liking people i ignore them, but i know i get very nervous so i tend to do the opposite by mistake. There goes that nervous energy lol..It's kinda like i'm a diff person...The outgoing, silly , giggly girl suddenly gets very quiet,shy, and nervous!
until im comfortable of course
JuiCy
I do the opposite also when its someone i'm really interested in...strange how that works.
I do the opposite also when its someone i'm really interested in...strange how that works.
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