Geminis worst in long-term relashionships?
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by sexysyrian on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 and has 12 replies.
Is it just me, or does everyone else have experience full of gemini's cheating and being extremely manipulative in relashionships?? Me and my friends swore never to date a gemini.. all from bad past relashionship experience with them hahaha has anyone else had problems with geminis in a relashionship?
Thats interesting.. and heard so often.. BUT... if dating a gem, say like me was so bad, then why would it take a simple phone call, to every one of my ex's but 1... for me to get a man? They all keep in touch and try to keep that line open for me coming back... even though they know full well, when i'm done, i'm done... i know i'm not an exception.... we are great partners, especially if taken the time to understand us. ALot of it is not realizing what you get being with a gem. understanding us is key.. to me anyway.
"Is it just me, or does everyone else have experience full of gemini's cheating and being extremely manipulative in relashionships?? Me and my friends swore never to date a gemini.. all from bad past relashionship experience with them hahaha has anyone else had problems with geminis in a relashionship?"
If you ask me (& since your on Gemini forum, so you are) I think that that's the most stupidest thing any one can do. Not everyone carries the "Supposed" Gemini traits.
Just because you may have a bad run-in w/ someONE, doesn't give you the right to catagorize ALL that, just so happens, shares that person's gender, race, sign, religion, etc. That is like me saying all Scorpio women & men are hoes, All Leo women & men are egotistical, All Taurus women & men are thugs, All pisces women & men are pussies, etc. And, hell, maybe it's just you & your friends that is the problem....you all should pick your mates more carefully & not just look for someone to spoil you w/ affection or etc.....Not everyone does this.
If you ask me (& since your on Gemini forum, so you are) I think that that's the most stupidest thing any one can do. Not everyone carries the "Supposed" Gemini traits.
Just because you may have a bad run-in w/ someONE, doesn't give you the right to catagorize ALL that, just so happens, shares that person's gender, race, sign, religion, etc. That is like me saying all Scorpio women & men are hoes, All Leo women & men are egotistical, All Taurus women & men are thugs, All pisces women & men are pussies, etc. And, hell, maybe it's just you & your friends that is the problem....you all should pick your mates more carefully & not just look for someone to spoil you w/ affection or etc.....Not everyone does this.
This conversation couldn't have come at a better time! I am engaged to a gemini and we have been together for over 5 years. I am sure this will surprise some of you but I am a Scorpio (believe it or not) I think I have a Gemini rising sign but anyhow-frankly, I understand what sexysyrian is saying!! In the beginning of our relashionship he was heavily flirting with everyone and I believe he cheated once when I went away for the weekend (of course he denied it and through a temper fit) but all the while he would say how much he loved me and that he would never cheat. It is still hard for me to totally trust him becuase he is so hypocritical! I try to trust the fact that he says he would not do that but then we go out together and I catch him oogling a hot chick to the point where hw acts like we are not together. NOrmally I don't care if he looks but when it is overly done than it is insulting to me. I am sorry to say this gems but in my experience, my fiance flip flops a lot and he is very intellectually manipulative to the point of cruelty and yes! he stabs very deep sometimes with his comments! Also I have to know -where does this chronic gemini boredom come from????? As a scorpio I love travel and adventure which turned him on in the begining but now I can't drag him anywhere, he is making me bored!
Hey emeraldgem-
I realized after I wrote the post that I would get a response such as yours ( I mean that in the nicest way) .Truthfully I am still deciding. There are traits about him that I admire and we have helped each other grow in so many ways and overall he is a nice person but often I feel that he is benefiting himself and not working as a team in the relationship. It is very frustrating and his procrastination drives me crazy-not to mention holds us back from doing a lot as a couple. It is interesting because I find him to be very jealous and I didn't think that Gems were like that. It is almost like we are competing against each other. He never seems interested in doing anything or spending the money to do it but yet he complains about being BORED!!!!!!!!!! Ahhh.
Something keeps us together? It is hard to see him with someone else in many ways.
We separated for a year because of he ways struggling with himself-just when I gave up on him (after a year) he crawled back to me crying and begging to be with him again.
Next thing ya know he asked me to marry him???
The way he acts sometimes I wonder why he bothered to ask?
ONe word to say CONFUSING!!
I realized after I wrote the post that I would get a response such as yours ( I mean that in the nicest way) .Truthfully I am still deciding. There are traits about him that I admire and we have helped each other grow in so many ways and overall he is a nice person but often I feel that he is benefiting himself and not working as a team in the relationship. It is very frustrating and his procrastination drives me crazy-not to mention holds us back from doing a lot as a couple. It is interesting because I find him to be very jealous and I didn't think that Gems were like that. It is almost like we are competing against each other. He never seems interested in doing anything or spending the money to do it but yet he complains about being BORED!!!!!!!!!! Ahhh.
Something keeps us together? It is hard to see him with someone else in many ways.
We separated for a year because of he ways struggling with himself-just when I gave up on him (after a year) he crawled back to me crying and begging to be with him again.
Next thing ya know he asked me to marry him???
The way he acts sometimes I wonder why he bothered to ask?
ONe word to say CONFUSING!!
tanya023: "Okay you know what, it really does matter w/ gender..
And guys are guys. It comes w/ maturity also, not by sign.. any sign can have a cheater.. i say it's even."
What an assine statement. No longer are we living in the 18th or 19th century. Educate yourself! Women cheat just as much or more than men. Review some of statistical data in recent research studies and surveys. Sometimes the best advise to give people is NO advise.
And guys are guys. It comes w/ maturity also, not by sign.. any sign can have a cheater.. i say it's even."
What an assine statement. No longer are we living in the 18th or 19th century. Educate yourself! Women cheat just as much or more than men. Review some of statistical data in recent research studies and surveys. Sometimes the best advise to give people is NO advise.
I know that this is a very old topic, but I found it funny because this used (and it's weird for me to even say that) to be my mindset too. Gems were the one sign I would avoid at all costs because of my bad experiences with them. But I never gave these Gems a chance; mind you, I didn't because we just wouldn't work out and I knew that. Those Gems were very cocky, annoyed me ON purpose, and couldn't take a hint. From these guys alone, I didn't want anything to do with Gems.
Lo and behold... I'm seeing one now. I admit that I saw his sign and I immediately tried to push him away; however, he remained just as sweet and persistent, even when I attempted to see other guys. But I realized he could be something good for me, and I almost gave that up. What won me over is that he was very genuine, and you could tell he was. There was nothing manipulative about him. Obviously it hasn't been long term, a little over two months, but this Gem has been better to me than this Cap guy I was seeing for a few months and a cancer that I had a brief fling with. In fact, I'd much rather be with him for the long run than the signs I just mentioned. So, it's not always the sign that dictates how a person will be. The Gems I mentioned, that was THEM being cocky and irritating; not their sign completely.
My advice is, if you "feel" that this person is going to work for you, then give him/her a chance. Sure it's fun, and it seems like the traits a sign has do come through, but a person is a person. If everyone went by an exact blueprint that was mapped out by the stars, there would be no variety (that's probably why it's better to look at a person's FULL chart before you judge them based on their "sign.") And this is me taking my own advice. I don't know what will be in our future if we have one, but I'm just along for the right, and it's a nice one so far.
Lo and behold... I'm seeing one now. I admit that I saw his sign and I immediately tried to push him away; however, he remained just as sweet and persistent, even when I attempted to see other guys. But I realized he could be something good for me, and I almost gave that up. What won me over is that he was very genuine, and you could tell he was. There was nothing manipulative about him. Obviously it hasn't been long term, a little over two months, but this Gem has been better to me than this Cap guy I was seeing for a few months and a cancer that I had a brief fling with. In fact, I'd much rather be with him for the long run than the signs I just mentioned. So, it's not always the sign that dictates how a person will be. The Gems I mentioned, that was THEM being cocky and irritating; not their sign completely.
My advice is, if you "feel" that this person is going to work for you, then give him/her a chance. Sure it's fun, and it seems like the traits a sign has do come through, but a person is a person. If everyone went by an exact blueprint that was mapped out by the stars, there would be no variety (that's probably why it's better to look at a person's FULL chart before you judge them based on their "sign.") And this is me taking my own advice. I don't know what will be in our future if we have one, but I'm just along for the right, and it's a nice one so far.
Posted by BaBy-GrL414
Thats interesting.. and heard so often.. BUT... if dating a gem, say like me was so bad, then why would it take a simple phone call, to every one of my ex's but 1... for me to get a man? They all keep in touch and try to keep that line open for me coming back... even though they know full well, when i'm done, i'm done... i know i'm not an exception.... we are great partners, especially if taken the time to understand us. ALot of it is not realizing what you get being with a gem. understanding us is key.. to me anyway.
this my dear is so true. and not all gems are the same. i have a virgo rising in me so i like to analyze and take my time with things rather than to rush it. but understanding a gem takes time.
I usually fully commit myself to men that are worth it. If it's not a serious relationship that's when i might get tempted to stray.
I usually fully commit myself to men that are worth it. If it's not a serious relationship that's when i might get tempted to stray.
Well there's still Libra,Sagittarius,Aquarius (male) and Capricorn so they might not be the worst but they're up there.
wow, Candeh, this is an old thread.
I want Emma back.
I want Emma back.
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