Giving up on friendship?

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camim20
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Hi. I'm a pisces female ... Yes, we don't like to be ignored. But, at least me, I would never make the first move, I always wait for the other person to call me and reach out to me, even if I'm dying to talk to them.
Pisces are very intuitive, so if you haven't been in touch and you haven't contact her, she probably figure out you are mad or that something is going on. But she is probably thinking the same thin as you "if someone cares about me, they will call me".
I say: be the bigger person & make the first move, talk to her & explain why you are mad. After you geminis are the communicators 🙂
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take it from me, My gemini friend started ignoring me & it took us 11 months to talk again! & he was the one that initiated the conversation. I missed him every day, but I just thought: "if he is not talking to me, he probably doesn't care about me at all". So, I just moved on.
After suddenly last week I woke up and saw a missed call from him. That was so weird! I called him back & everything was normal, our friendship is still as it was before. Though I'm prepared for his next disappearing act
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RaeofSun
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DO NOT GIVE UP! When there is no contact between friends, it is so easy to let our minds wonder and come to numerous assumptions about what the other person is thinking or feeling. I'm stubborn, I hate making the first move, but... when it comes to matters of the heart and people I care about... why waste time. Stop festering, you are only putting more time between the two of you by not communicating. Call them and meet them up for a drink or bite to eat already :-)

I'm a cusp Aqua/Pisces... and I HATE to be ignored. It truly infuriates me, but the more time that passes the easier it is for me to keep that space between us.
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Posted by KillerGemini
My friend slept in my boyfriend's bed while he was drunk. Then my friend insisted on gloating about it to me. She said, "If I didn't care about our relationship I would have done something with him."



If I were her I would be too ashamed to contact you and the fact that you hadn't reached out to me yet would lead me to believe that you were mad at me. So what I would do is I would wait for you to stop being mad at me and contact me; although, if more than a month goes by and I haven't heard from you then I would panic and reach out to you begging for you to not be mad at me anymore.

I also think it depends on how often you two talk and if it's normal for you both to not be talking for this long. I hate being ignored as much as anyone else, but it's not uncommon for me to not talk to my friends for long periods of time.