Grrr emergency here?!

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by KingOfAries on Wednesday, December 28, 2011 and has 72 replies.
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love what you said, well i just asked her out, we started texting she told me shes been lazy and hasnt done nothing since break began so i said " lol you deservet it" then i sent another text saying "but since youre being lazy and arent doing anything we should go do somehting for the last time this year" i think i should now propose what to do and i have no clue where to go, i live in nyc is opera something she might like?

~ $ 740 for Wicked, premium seats lol.. is there something less romantic? i can pay no problem but it will be so obvious

okay i have a perfect plan asholes listen here, i take her to see that sherlok holmes movie if she havent seen it yet, then we go ice skating, with hope that she hasnt done it before cause i havent, and there u have it she saw a movie, did something new, and then we will obviously go eat
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yeahh maybe she does but we are very busy people really no time to read, we both are premed and if we have free time we like to spend it away from books, i am giving it a shot i am going to text her and ask her if she saw sherlock holmes yet, i dont know if shes back with her bf cause they broke up two months ago, im just shooting with my eyes closed, we have few mutual friends but only one of them knows her really well, and i dont know her number to ask... so its all up to me, i will think of a backup plan, thinking now, but the primary thing were going for is the movies, the rest is just a causality of events
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definitely, shes not answering lol probably thinking .. i assumed they arent back together from her text saying that she hasnt done nothing and been lazy, if they were back together she WOULD do something already... if she says no then she must really hate me lol.. well im waiting ill let you know what her response is, if she doesnt answer should i bug her till she does? cause it always comes out funny when i do it to her when shes not answering right away
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she said she watched it the other day and that it was pretty good, should i say lets go see mission impossible then?
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or should i ask who she watched it with cause she knows how nosey i am
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i asked her if she watched mission impossible, she should say no, then ill say lets go see it then
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peoplee i asked her whether she saw this other movie she said "no y" and then i said "great lets go see it" that was yesterday she hasnt replied yet, theres tons of possible things she can be going through in her head but i feel like i need to interfere and text her asap saying something like "come on lets go youve got nothing better to do anyways" what should i do should i wait or follow my brains?
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Posted by KingOfAries
peoplee i asked her whether she saw this other movie she said "no y" and then i said "great lets go see it"


you fucked up dude. dont you dare text her again.
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why do you say so? i got her to talk we had a short convo, in the end i asked her what shes doing tomorrow, she hasnt answered yet again but im keeping it very light and cool and give no signs of any sorts, i keep it in the "i really wanna go to the movies and you have nothing to do so lets go together" i dont see how i could fuck up, im just defending my standpoint and being insisting, time and pressure breaks everything, i dont see that she has a choice, its unlikely that something will come up, the only thing she can do is just ignore me for the rest of the week.. and why would anyone do that.. Question now is, i asked her few hours ago what shes doing tomorrow, should i ask her now again to answer me now or should i ask in the morning?
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Posted by KingOfAries
why do you say so? i got her to talk we had a short convo, in the end i asked her what shes doing tomorrow, she hasnt answered yet again but im keeping it very light and cool and give no signs of any sorts, i keep it in the "i really wanna go to the movies and you have nothing to do so lets go together" i dont see how i could fuck up, im just defending my standpoint and being insisting, time and pressure breaks everything, i dont see that she has a choice, its unlikely that something will come up, the only thing she can do is just ignore me for the rest of the week.. and why would anyone do that.. Question now is, i asked her few hours ago what shes doing tomorrow, should i ask her now again to answer me now or should i ask in the morning?


because you seem pushy as hell. but if shes down with that then whatever. seems to me like you're trying too hard, which will NOT workout in the end.
( from experience )
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I DONT KNOW IF SHE IS DOWN OR NOT OMFGGGGG GUYYS IM GOING CRAZY SHOULD I TEXT HER NOW ABOUT TOMORROW OR TOMORROW MORNING< SHE KNOWS IM PUSHY i think she doesnt care about that quality of mine, as long as it works grrr trying too hard? imnot i want clear yes or no answer
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"I dont know im just not feeling like going out. usually i love to go out, but lately im just not in the mood."

i can keep pushing it until she agrees or i can leave her alone until next year
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i almost broke her woohooooo few more texts and shes on board, i told her after that text "i think you have homeolazyhateritis it is usually curable once you get your butt outside lol" then i asked her whether it was funny, she said "lol ughhhh" and thats all, it was at 2am, so today in about ah hour or half an hour ill ask bug her again and hopefully she just goes with it and comes with me to the city, wish me luck geminies
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lol nooooo shes too precious to me
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i think i should call her instead of texting to ask her for the last time to go out it, my voice is more persuasive than text, but my parents are at my house grrrrrr
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she is depressed about her ex who she went out with for 3 years, i could barely pull a word out of her, she acted casual but never picked up my call, i asked her in the end if she wants to come with me to the city and chill to what she said "i dont think so" after that i called her, she didnt answer, so i just told her ":/ kay for now hope you feel better" after what she never answered Sad i feel bad
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i understood it, she is depressed, i did leave her alone and she seemed to like it and she spoke to me today first etc. but im having a libra come over idk wtf im supposed to do with her shes so boring ugh
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I predicted this whole thread...
I have an aries guy who does the same thing. He's not as pushy, but I have a feeling a lot of aries have this "ram into it till it works" kinda mentality. No finesse.
tHE
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Posted before I couldn't finish.
They just don't take a hint.
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fukc hints and you predicted nothing because its not over yet, its far far from over.
BY THE WAY, some girl, family friend asked ME out, its an extreme turn off and i stopped liking her that instant, BUT, what IF I do go out with her, and then days after I talk to Gemini and she asks me what i did this weekend and ill tell her that i was on a date.. to make her jealous or give her the feeling that im not stuck on her, what do you say? or should i give her more time first cause she might not give a crap at this point of her life?
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Posted by KingOfAries
fukc hints and you predicted nothing because its not over yet, its far far from over.
BY THE WAY, some girl, family friend asked ME out, its an extreme turn off and i stopped liking her that instant, BUT, what IF I do go out with her, and then days after I talk to Gemini and she asks me what i did this weekend and ill tell her that i was on a date.. to make her jealous or give her the feeling that im not stuck on her, what do you say? or should i give her more time first cause she might not give a crap at this point of her life?


thats manipulative dude
no bueno
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ohh noo freaking wayy that pic was an example of an aries girl, the gemini is hottt, and okay i wont complicate it with other dates, and she is not awkward around me i have no idea when im gonna see her next time, ill need to think of something quickly, but its not awkward, we have this brief 5 minute delay/awkward pause when we meet and cant begin having a conversation, after that it goes smoothly lol.. but she is very nice, for example she called me yesterday to tell me to switch my zoology lab to her section because a spot opened up, i wasnt even checking for it, she was? but i switched and now we have 5 classes together
im not being manipulative Sad im just steering things my way you know? she is my game im playing to win, not just a goal, its for out common good, i might not be expressing myself clearly or as i would always wish but trust me my intentions are very best...
Dazed, Im the king bitsh, you cant say that to me, have you lost least of the sanity that has remained?
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im a gem and i like people ramming me,i hate the "hints" shit and games...Straight on..but if a person is not important 2 me or im just in a thinking period im not so social.
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Posted by DazedScorp
Posted by KingOfAries
im not being manipulative Sad im just steering things my way you know? she is my game im playing to win, not just a goal, its for out common good, i might not be expressing myself clearly or as i would always wish but trust me my intentions are very best...


*facepalm*
Wut? Haha!
Posted by KingOfAries

Dazed, Im the king bitsh, you cant say that to me, have you lost least of the sanity that has remained?


First off, When you learn how to speak English properly and learn how to spell "bitch", you can become King of Dxp young grasshopper.
Second, This scorp has the Gem ladies on their knees, backs, and the hoods of their cars without having to try very hard.
Sorry, but your game...is rather unattractive. If you would listen to half the shit I say to you instead of being a hard headed ram, you might learn a thing or two... and actually end your days as a virgin.
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i lost my virginity when i was 11 with a 17 year old behind the stage where i had to sing in half an hour, then my second sex was with a hot hot girl that was a senior and i was in the 7th grade, believe me my friend i have enough confidence and maturity to nail a bitch, i dont want to begin my relationship with this particular girl like that comprende? i know how to spell bitch the website changes it to word cookie monster lol thats why i change it around get it? besides my circles have no whores and i wouldnt lay down with such anyway, id need to have a very low self esteem for that
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha haaha
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Stop stop, the laughter is making my headache return!
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Lol Winking
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Lol this kid is a real tool
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dazed what does bieber have to do with anything wtf..
thehealer,
just stop right there youre embarrassing yourself, at least get your facts right if youre planning on mocking me, dumb slut

back to the topic, my good friend, ironically a scorpio who has quite a history with women, right now he lives with a woman who is 15 years older than him... but he is very mature, but he is a mature scorpio i asked him to chill together get some bishes, but he told me that he is tired of screwing them and that he just wants piece and someone to talk to.. he told me that im being completely stupid with what im doing, he told me to keep "ramming" her but not with words but actions, he told me to do something rather romantic for her like flowers, take her for a walk in a park, somewhere to eat, to take her mind off her ex and that that would switch her attention to me. that is what i wanted to do, to take her mind off her ex, i tried to and i failed, cause everything was done over texts and she refused to pick up..
i need help with only one thing now, i think i should do it spontaneously and over the phone right away no BS texts, besides she knwos i hate texting her, takes forever, so ill call ill talk ill sound cool meaning ill be very easy and casual on her and will convince her to get out, think that will work?
and another thing, kill me but i have no freaking idea where i could take her so it looks romantic to her! I know that they had a beach spot with her ex where they used to go, and its kind of an isolated from people part, she told me few times about it, so that was their spot, and i just have no idea, park?-stupid we dont have any cool parks in nyc other than central park, beach? -too cold right now, restaurant? -umm maybe but would it seem romantic to her?, some sort of icecream cafe? -doesnt seem romantic and the point of going into one wouldnt be the whole point of one date, zoo? -yeah dont think shed like that, now i was thinking museum of natural history, it has this really cool star show but going to the museum im sure shes been to 3 times like me at least just to see a 15 minute show is retarded no matter how cool the show is, aquarium? - i hate fish, now what does that leave me with? thats right, nothing... i know she loves sushi and we never been to a sushi restaurant before that is an idea.. to find a really nice sushi place and eat there and then what? FML idk its fun for you but i really am trying to overthink everything so hard...
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If she's still hung up over her ex she most likely won't go out with you. If she does it'll be just to use you.
I just got outta something with a scorpio and this aries keeps "ramming" me with texts. Like I said, not as much as you, but he'd always mention we should hang. I was nice and said maybe. But I really don't want to hang with him cus I still want to process things about my ex. That and I just don't like being "rammed" like that. It's annoying. Granted I am a sag and the opposite of a gem, but my rising is in gemini so I can see where some gems are coming from.
That being said the one thing that finally got me to say yes to him was him telling me he'd take me out to dinner. Well I almost never say no to a dinner if I don't have to pay and I'm betting a gem will definitely take advantage of it. That being said I still haven't met up with him and told him I'd let him know when I was free, which I haven't...I know I'm bad Tongue In the long run we are just using you. Never try to lure a women in with paying for stuff. Make sure they like you for you.
I understand you really like the chase, but this women just isn't interested and if she does go out with you she'll most likely see you as someone she can use whenever she sees fit.
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only thing is, shes not a user, i mentioned in my other post that i hate this about her, i tried paying for her once at this place she said if i pay that she wouldnt talk to me, that stopped me, we were studying and i was gonna go buy coffee i asked her if she wanted some she said yes and she gave me money which i didnt take, when i came back it was in my bag, i gave it back to her, thing is i am trying to be useful and do nice things like that for her, but she will NEVER let it happen, thast why i kind of on purpose want to pay for something like a restaurant and not let her pay a penny. my gem ex was like that too but i heard her say once that she says "no no ill pay formyself" but she still likes when guy doesnt listen and pays for her. so there might be a true but shes not one of them, i smell users miles away. she likes to eat thast why im thinking of dinner too, but god damn me if im not out chilling with her by the end of this week..
i know yes she might be sorting out things with her ex and inside her head but i wanna catalyze it, give me other places where i could take her
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Idk honestly the gem females I know will do things to get over their exes. But if you're chasing her she may be put off by it. And that's what it sounds like is happening.
I'm still gna go with my first instinct that she won't come with you willingly. If she does it won't be because she sees herself being able to date you
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its like shes in a thinking mode that is lasting for quite a while now, i dont show her that im chasing her, for the past few days ive been very passive, i do chase her but even if she is aware of it - it shouldn't put her off because i dont pressure her at all, i only state everything here on forum she knows nothing about my "struggle" to get her.. i can get all cutesy with her but for real im an ass and i dont want to show her any of my situational identities, i am serious, fun when we party, mature, smart, intelligent, im a quiet type and once in a while when i do open my mouth everyone in the company is laughing because usually its a really funny sarcastic joke, she noticed that and told me that my jokes were sarcastic, she seemed to like it, but for example my a-hole taurus friend who was hitting on her was very cutesy with her, bastard was drawing hearts on her notebook and telling her how much he loves her, she told me all that, and she described him as being funny, after i told her not to even think about talking to him she said nothing, but she said that she told him that she doesnt like him, and then she told him how actually dumb he is that he pretends to be intelligent but gets away with everything in school by cheating... next time we spoke i was messing with her said that ill talk to her friend and she said if i will that she will talk to my taurus friend i said "NOOOOO, fine i wont" then she started laughing "are we being hypocritical?" she is quite interesting and things that interest her interest me too, only she doesnt think they interest me so she doesnt talk about them thats why sometimes our conversations are about nothing. i have no freaking idea why i just wrote all this, oh yes, you see she told my friend that she doesnt like him though he was clearly asking her out, then she said it was weird how he wouldnt talk to her next time they were in class and it got her very curious, she said "how could a person like someone so much and then stop talking to them" now that guy has got a charisma of a star, she even told me of her friend who made a fake facebook to stalk him, ehh i just dont know im so tired of thinking about it all, i dont care what others tried if they failed, i need an idea that worked, i dont even know what i need anymore this got so confusing omg.. i think she knows that i like her, but why wont she just tell me that she doesnt like me or doesnt wanna date yet?? ill keep ramming -_-
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and its like shes all very independent but ive noticed every time i told her to do something she actually listened, most things just by saying "you should blah blah blah," others by nagging.. why cant i just nag her to go out and chill, cause when iw as naggin her last week she actually replied "you wanna go out?" then i said yes, then her next text was "i dont know i usually like going out but lately i dont want to go out anywhere" after that i kept come on come on come on she wasnt replying at all, then the day when i was gonna take her out i texted her saying "so do you wanna come with me to the city today" and she replied "i dont think so" i said well "alrighty i hope you feel better" then in couple of hours i asked her whether she was okay she said "yes im okay", next day she asked me how was it i said i didnt go and that i just went out with my friends drinking, then she made fun of me saying where do they let underage drinking which was cute my reply was "-_-" then something like.. "well everyone in my company is of legal age, the place knows me, and i dont look that underage lol" it seemed like i didnt get the joke, she always tells me it was a joke and i answer i knew that, i just respond poorly to jokes sometimes.. but anyway she made fun of me we had a short nice convo etc. so ill nag?
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I see a long list of restraining orders in your future.
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Posted by KingOfAries
and its like shes all very independent but ive noticed every time i told her to do something she actually listened, most things just by saying "you should blah blah blah," others by nagging.. why cant i just nag her to go out and chill, cause when iw as naggin her last week she actually replied "you wanna go out?" then i said yes, then her next text was "i dont know i usually like going out but lately i dont want to go out anywhere" after that i kept come on come on come on she wasnt replying at all, then the day when i was gonna take her out i texted her saying "so do you wanna come with me to the city today" and she replied "i dont think so" i said well "alrighty i hope you feel better" then in couple of hours i asked her whether she was okay she said "yes im okay", next day she asked me how was it i said i didnt go and that i just went out with my friends drinking, then she made fun of me saying where do they let underage drinking which was cute my reply was "-_-" then something like.. "well everyone in my company is of legal age, the place knows me, and i dont look that underage lol" it seemed like i didnt get the joke, she always tells me it was a joke and i answer i knew that, i just respond poorly to jokes sometimes.. but anyway she made fun of me we had a short nice convo etc. so ill nag?




If she made a fake fb profile just to stalk on the taurus then I think she likes him. I was reading one of your other posts and while your taur friends is very sleazy he does know how to play the game a bit. Him saying he really liked the girl then not talking to her suddenly really got her interested.
Your strategy? Well, it's not really a strategy. That's something someone from middle school would do. And honestly I thought you were in high school because of your level of maturity. I'd take some notes from your taurus friend. Your scorpio friend doesn't seem too smart so I'd say just take notes from other scorpio males in general.
And judging by the way she was texting you after you went out drinking with your friends it sounds like she was talking down to you and only sees you as a mature little kid. Gem women are very mature people. They like people who either act their age or act older. Chill out and pull away for a while. Make her wonder where you went.
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she just randomly messaged me saying she will be in school studying, i messaged her back saying that ill come too then
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an immature* little kid
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Posted by KingOfAries
she just randomly messaged me saying she will be in school studying, i messaged her back saying that ill come too then


Do you mean randomly as in you haven't texted her in a while and she just suddenly text you?
How exactly did she word it?
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Posted by ellybd
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I see a long list of restraining orders in your future.


Only if he continues to go for Gems alone. Some signs dig the Aries "Ram till I break through" thing.

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Ugh, until they realize that once the ram is in..... they grow bored QUICKLY.
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Posted by KingOfAries
she just randomly messaged me saying she will be in school studying, i messaged her back saying that ill come too then


Do you mean randomly as in you haven't texted her in a while and she just suddenly text you?
How exactly did she word it?

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yes that's exactly what happened and she said it exactly how i stated it, and i am anything but immature
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she didnt make fake profile to stalk anyone she would never fall that low, its her friend that did it and she just told me about it, he doesnt know how to play his game its just that most of the girls are sluts so if he sees that a girl is shallow - what most of the gemini appear to me from the first look, he keeps ramming until he is told off, after that he has this attitude of you dont need me i dont need you and he wont talk to you, i know him he is my friend ive had that plenty of times when i couldnt go out to chill he was ignoring me and not talking to me the next time we chilled.. it could intrigue her yes but definitely didnt spark any interest other than "wtf happened?"
yes i dont have a strategy what can i do, but it doesnt mean that im immature
and just a note, she would never talk down at me, she respects me all 100% just like i respect her, besides everyone respects me, first thing you would notice about me is that i havent noticed you, you will notice my nobel elite whatever u wanna call it side, you woudlnt dare to talk to me, once we do get to know each other and i start trusting people i will let them on my nice comforting calm silly sometimes shallow side, but never disrespect, unless youre in my way somehow and i have to embarrass you or boss you around because you're being an noncontributing useless piece of crap at whatever we might be doing.. so she knows im smart and intelligent, it was just a sarcastic joke, i make similar jokes on her and we both laugh
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It will be interesting to see what happens here.
Aries like to talk themselves up so I'm not surprised at the response you gave me.
I said you were immature not just by the way you were trying to get her, but by the way you present yourself online via text. Maybe if I met you in real life I'd think differently, but I highly doubt it. Your "strategy" for trying to get her is very basic and could be more efficient and less time consuming if you didn't come on so strong. Or if you did at least pull back afterwards to let her get interested. Then come back strong again.
How did the studying with her go?
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still doesnt explain any immaturity but okay, studying went well we met up sat down started talking opening up books and stuff then her best friend came over, i actually wanna talk to her friend alone and maybe ask whether she is back with her bf just to confirm it once and for all.. idk if i should though, but anyway i was studying they were talking and distracting me a little, i made few sarcastic jokes overall it went well, i wasnt pressuring anything, everything was friendly and comforting. Oh i asked her whether she liked my new cologne because she complemented on my old one, and im little unsure about my new one so i asked, so i figured she would lean to me to smell it but instead she just kind of waved her hand to get air from me lol she asked what it was then said she likes it, btu then she said she liked her dads Fahrenheit and i though like damn it i used them when i was like 10-12 -_- and she had to mention that im younger than her and her friend again ugh i wish i never told them my real age and would tell them about it once we'd get serious, theres 2 year difference im younger, and i think it may be holding back because she has a brother who is also 19 and also an aries so im afraid that could be creeping her out but shes very cool with him i dont think it should be a problem nor i dont think shed need to get used to me much since her bro
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Idk, she may be a bit creeped out, or she could be comforted by the fact that you're like her bro. Generally tho, when women are ok with you being like their relatives it's usually a father figure or an older bro they tend to fall for because they like to feel protected.
If she feels like her lil bro is just a pest or isn't someone she can see feeling like he'd protect her then I'd be worried
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yeah when we went out she got drunk, we both did, but i had to keep her in check you know i wasnt letting her go anywhere she was with her friend too so i had to keep that one with me also, so i just kept them dancing, and when i wasnt letting her do something she would wine "stop being my daaad, youre being my daaaad" and i wined back noo im not being your daaad then distracted her with dancing so that she doesnt wanna go wherever she was gonna go, it wasnt bathroom lol, but yeah and someone told me that its bad to be a fatherlike figure so idk.. she doesnt take her bro as a pest shes very cool with him
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it was in summer
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well she may or may have not, either way she seems comfortable with how things are right now, i havent spoken to her since i saw her this week and im just planning on not answering or talking to her till the end of next week, and if she texts me then ill just call her back chit chat and ask her out, it never goes as planned but ill stick to my plan as much as i can
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she saw it already she claims
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