Posted by nanobotGirl, I would love to see your chart.
Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.
Posted by nanobotbtw Red looks great on you.. So pretty.
Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.
Posted by JanMayMarryAre you by any chance an INFP?
Nope, I don't. Hate is a burden to my heart so I chose not to keep hatred inside me.
Like you, I do have some people that did things which hurt me bad but I just cut them off and never let them in again. But to hate them is a no. I just let things go and forgive the both of us for whatever that has happened.
So yeah, no. I do not hate anyone at all. Never will I.
Posted by JanMayMarryMines INFP, my 17yr old is ENFP. I get her so well, except that Extroversion part, she makes me cringe at times. LOLPosted by WateryGemNope but near. I'm an ENFP.Posted by JanMayMarryAre you by any chance an INFP?
Nope, I don't. Hate is a burden to my heart so I chose not to keep hatred inside me.
Like you, I do have some people that did things which hurt me bad but I just cut them off and never let them in again. But to hate them is a no. I just let things go and forgive the both of us for whatever that has happened.
So yeah, no. I do not hate anyone at all. Never will I.click to expand
Posted by nanobotLook at your 11th house. You are a loyal friend, I bet. Would you describe yourself as warm and affectionate?Posted by WateryGemYea, I am an INTP. And I have my chart here:Posted by nanobotGirl, I would love to see your chart.
Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.
Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?
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Posted by ScorpioTruthI could see feeling this way for a while but it never passed? How does your sister feel about him?
I hated my sisters ex husband who was abusive toward my sister and my nephew. I genuinely hated him. I wanted him to die. She divorced him and he practically disowned my nephew so we don’t have to deal with him much anymore... but yes I hated him.
Posted by nanobotLOL You're for real full of Saturn energy. Super smart, though.Posted by WateryGemI know! I am basically an aquarius myself and I am surrounded by them my whole life... 29 years! I think that I am a loyal friend, when I decide to invest myself into a friendship, which for me takes time. So that doesn't apply to acquantainces or other people I don't feel a strong connection or trust with. Because I am willing to bend over backward for those who I consider close friends, I have the same expectations of them in return and that is often too much to ask. I really don't have many friends in my life, strangely enough. I don't think I would consider myself warm and affectionate in general... I definitely can be though if I like you. Especially when I am drunk LOLPosted by nanobotLook at your 11th house. You are a loyal friend, I bet. Would you describe yourself as warm and affectionate?Posted by WateryGemYea, I am an INTP. And I have my chart here:Posted by nanobot
Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.
Girl, I would love to see your chart.
Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?
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Posted by ScorpioTruthSo you don't feel hatred now when you think of him?Posted by WateryGemOh yeah, it has passed now that I never see or hear from him anymore. He has a new girlfriend and he’s abusive to her as well. I’m glad my sister got out.. I used to have nightmares of him killing her. I’m a Scorpio sun with cancer moonPosted by ScorpioTruthI could see feeling this way for a while but it never passed? How does your sister feel about him?
I hated my sisters ex husband who was abusive toward my sister and my nephew. I genuinely hated him. I wanted him to die. She divorced him and he practically disowned my nephew so we don’t have to deal with him much anymore... but yes I hated him.
What are your placements?
My sister is a cancer and her ex was an Ariesclick to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthThat makes me sad that its an Aries man, my dad is an Aries, is he the sweetest. I have heard a lot of bad stuff with the temper of an Aries, which, I have experienced but I used to blame myself. (not now) He was a kid and a great guy at heart.Posted by WateryGemOh yeah, it has passed now that I never see or hear from him anymore. He has a new girlfriend and he’s abusive to her as well. I’m glad my sister got out.. I used to have nightmares of him killing her. I’m a Scorpio sun with cancer moonPosted by ScorpioTruthI could see feeling this way for a while but it never passed? How does your sister feel about him?
I hated my sisters ex husband who was abusive toward my sister and my nephew. I genuinely hated him. I wanted him to die. She divorced him and he practically disowned my nephew so we don’t have to deal with him much anymore... but yes I hated him.
What are your placements?
My sister is a cancer and her ex was an Ariesclick to expand
Posted by WateryGemuhhh no...not that i can think of.
I'm curious, do you truly ever HATE another human?
I have sat and thought about this, I do not hating anyone in this world. I have hated things they have done, I have been hurt enough to mask it with hate but deep down, I do not hate a single soul.
There are people I should but I just don't, if anything I will always care about them but never let them in my life.
Now, that's not to say if something terrible happened to someone close to me, that would require a lot of internal work to overcome such feelings.
Do you feel you can "hate" someone truly?
Don't you feel the negativity in your soul when you feel that hate, though?
Posted by nanobotthe only one who stays in touch constantly is my Cancer sun/Pisces moon /leo venus/Cap mars girlfriend.Posted by WateryGemI am capricorn dominant and merc/saturn dominant, and earth dominant!Posted by nanobotLOL You're for real full of Saturn energy. Super smart, though.Posted by WateryGemI know! I am basically an aquarius myself and I am surrounded by them my whole life... 29 years! I think that I am a loyal friend, when I decide to invest myself into a friendship, which for me takes time. So that doesn't apply to acquantainces or other people I don't feel a strong connection or trust with. Because I am willing to bend over backward for those who I consider close friends, I have the same expectations of them in return and that is often too much to ask. I really don't have many friends in my life, strangely enough. I don't think I would consider myself warm and affectionate in general... I definitely can be though if I like you. Especially when I am drunk LOLPosted by nanobotLook at your 11th house. You are a loyal friend, I bet. Would you describe yourself as warm and affectionate?Posted by WateryGemYea, I am an INTP. And I have my chart here:Posted by nanobot
Yes, there are people who I hate. It's not a consuming thing for me nor does it make me feel negativity regularly unless I was to think about that person, which I seldom do. There are just some people who are dead to me and that I don't and won't fuck with anymore. That I will never reconcile with, that I will never trust, that I will never forgive, that I just don't want to have anything to do with.
Girl, I would love to see your chart.
Have you taken the Meyers briggs? If so, what was your result?
Honestly, you sound like my old Aqua bff, she had very few friends, didn't take the time to invest in most of the friends she did have. However, for those she LOVES, she is very loyal (for the most part, hence, ex bff). I was her one and only true best friend. 26yrs of friendship and I let her go. LOL I'm not sure if that is my Gem side or Scorpio..
I bet you're super friendly when drunk, I am, too!! LOL thats when I can just let loose.
Why did that friendship end? My friendship with an aqua that lasted most of my life ended too. And we will never be friends like we were again. We stay acquantainces ish now. As in, we like each other's social media from time to time lol. She is even getting married in a couple months and didn't invite me, which is fine. I didn't have intention on inviting her to mine.click to expand