Posted by ACsquareplutoI have been trying to delay my reaction and not react for at least a day but sometimes I definitely react sooner then am like opps should I have done that and spend the rest of the time second guessing myself when really I guess I should just trust my original judgement
I try to live by a rule of delayed reaction. Don't take action until time has passed and you can reach an informed conclusion. I don't believe in wishy-washiness or indecision so when I've made one, I stick it out through all doubt.
Posted by MissAllisaHahaha this is me. I go back and forth so much its ridiculous. I'm like I'm never contacting him again, two days later Hey! lol. I really need to just know when to cut things off and not second guess myselfPosted by MissMI can relate! I tend to go back and forth quite a lot, especially when dating. I could be thinking im done with him in the morning, send a text explaining how i feel and then regretting it all 3 hrs later😂. But i’d say always go with your gutfeeling that never failed me.
I find it so hard to stick to a decision especially when I'm dating. Even if I have an inkling the guy is shit I get so curious as to why people are a certain way I either stay in the situation or say I'm not going to contact them again and end up doing it. I need some self restraint. How do you stick to a decision?click to expand
Posted by GemFallOutI wish I was more logical when I liked someone when dating but the reality is i'm like a hot mess lol. I chase then withdraw, don't really have a clue what i want and if I ever got what I want I think I would get bored and run away lol
I'm def. like this. lol
Emotion can kick in first and I'll go off that and then when a few hours have passed I've calmed down and can approach it logically. Usually, the outcome is completely different. Especially in dating.
Usually only a guy I'm really into can cause that in me. lol. I'm usually not very emotional in dating so if he can get that reaction, I know right away... I fucked up. lol
Posted by GemFallOutI wish I was more logical when I liked someone when dating but the reality is i'm like a hot mess lol. I chase then withdraw, don't really have a clue what i want and if I ever got what I want I think I would get bored and run away lol
I'm def. like this. lol
Emotion can kick in first and I'll go off that and then when a few hours have passed I've calmed down and can approach it logically. Usually, the outcome is completely different. Especially in dating.
Usually only a guy I'm really into can cause that in me. lol. I'm usually not very emotional in dating so if he can get that reaction, I know right away... I fucked up. lol