how do you know when you CAUGHT a gemini?

Posted by candi3bb
noelle: hmmm @ this point i would assume..the signs of ANY man losing interest would be:
hmm think of it as a taking medication...Zoloft and gabapentin or something. You cannot just stop taking them. You'll need to slowly* sween off it. So your bf (gem) would slowly go away. First it may be not asking you out to go out to certain events, saying he is working (less time spent together in comparison to before), his smile when he sees you disappears (its becoming routine), his kisses feel empty, less calls and texts on his end...by then the plan to not hurt you will work...you would probably lose interest too. The plan is flawless in the sense no one will feel hurt. While he will be pretending to be his charming self.

Posted by Norcalman67

Posted by noelle83
I've been dating my gemini for 4 months....What i would like to know is how would i know if i caught him? i hear and have caught certain comments like : "you didn't catch him" "disappearing act" etc.
what are the signs that he is losing interest? or signs he is falling deeper? (if that is even possible?)

If we loose interest, we are gone. No warning, (you'll see the signs), and we disappear like a vapor. Been there, done that. Can move a house hold inside of one day. Jobs inside of one hour.
Yes-once we want something or someone,...look out. On the flip side: Reject us, we'll dump you in a second and (almost) never look back.
With that said, we do get hooked. We get hooked by our choice, on our terms and our timing.
Agree with:
whimsy: "...can't really catch one. We're like feral cats."
happybee: "...already had a plan in mind, just pretending otherwise. But I agree you never "catch" one more like the other way around - once they know what they want watch out!"
- Yes, always have a plan. Almost 'always' have the answer before it's even asked. Pretty hard to catch a Gem off-guard.
Ask us if we love you, and like candi3bb mentioned what her Gem said, "up to you to find out" lol...dating one...
- We'll obfuscate to the end and rarely give a direct say, 'I love you' even if we're madly head over feet in love. We will flirt with you if we're not interested. However, if we are 'interested', we'll switch to interview mode. Once we feel safe, we'll let you in. The rare person gets to see the real us.

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Posted by noelle83
I've been dating my gemini for 4 months....What i would like to know is how would i know if i caught him? i hear and have caught certain comments like : "you didn't catch him" "disappearing act" etc.
what are the signs that he is losing interest? or signs he is falling deeper? (if that is even possible?)

We'll obfuscate to the end and rarely give a direct say, 'I love you' even if we're madly head over feet in love. We will flirt with you if we're not interested. However, if we are 'interested', we'll switch to interview mode. Once we feel safe, we'll let you in. The rare person gets to see the real us.

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Posted by acattychattyscorpio
I know a pretty strange Gemini then. He doesn't do interview mode. He asks bits and pieces here and there (over the space of months haha), it's never like grilling for an hour. He also stares a lot. I can see it out of the corner of my eye but as soon as I look at him, he looks away. Last night at a party, he followed me around a lot but didn't say too much to me. I was drunk and pretty funny so that could've been it. When I told him I was sorry I ever hooked up with him (year ago) because I see him as a cousin, then as a brother, he told me he didn't regret anything and that'd he'd prefer cousin haha. But he still acts interested? Yet he does it in an uninterested way.. so confusing. sorry I've made this about me.. again. >
that is kinda weird LOL

Posted by roamingfree

but we will stay with you on our of free will - is that not enough? I say that's more.

Posted by acattychattyscorpio
don't me honey what?
I'm not talking about me specifically. It's about my friend who likes a Gemini right now who I THOUGHT I did.
Actually woooow this Gemini has your exact chart almost, except a Mars in Leo. Eek.

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Posted by GeminiMind
I could never be a "slave" to anything. Gems love, just not a slave to it. To each their own. Unfortunately the people that say that they love so much, usually don't, so to speak. If you can't be true to yourself, then you for damn sho can't be true to me. I ain't sticking around for the other shoe to drop. Fuck that, I got a plane to catch. Either you're with me, or you're not. Either way, I love ya! But, I gotsta go! ???

Thats so my attitude...and where were u when I was battleing the asshole Pises..

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Posted by acattychattyscorpio
Before you start psychoanalyzing me, I do love and respect myself thank you very much.
I'm not bitching and moaning about anyone, I was talking about Geminis in general.. the meaning of this message board section.
"I'll treat you how you act and how you treat yourself." doesn't make sense in this case because she had been obsessing over him since grade school and didn't care that he took her for granted. even though he said he didn't like her, in fact at one point "HATED", he dated her anyway for a while... now it's back to the way it was before. so you can see why I'm weary of Gemini men, sorry, BOYS, and their immaturity/coldness.
I don't need your condescending pity or sympathy. You don't love me or anyone on this board you don't need in real life, you just enjoy spewing your beliefs, seeing yourself as a kind of wiser than thou granddaddy and it gives you enjoyment. "You youngsters in this age are so out of sync, it's a wonder that any of you will ever find true love. " By all means, do what you want, but don't assume you know ME on ANY level.

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Posted by acattychattyscorpio
Before you start psychoanalyzing me, I do love and respect myself thank you very much.
I'm not bitching and moaning about anyone, I was talking about Geminis in general.. the meaning of this message board section.
"I'll treat you how you act and how you treat yourself." doesn't make sense in this case because she had been obsessing over him since grade school and didn't care that he took her for granted. even though he said he didn't like her, in fact at one point "HATED", he dated her anyway for a while... now it's back to the way it was before. so you can see why I'm weary of Gemini men, sorry, BOYS, and their immaturity/coldness.
I don't need your condescending pity or sympathy. You don't love me or anyone on this board you don't need in real life, you just enjoy spewing your beliefs, seeing yourself as a kind of wiser than thou granddaddy and it gives you enjoyment. "You youngsters in this age are so out of sync, it's a wonder that any of you will ever find true love. " By all means, do what you want, but don't assume you know ME on ANY level.

Struck a nerve, huh? HaHa!
Then get your ass off of the Gemini boards, and stay out of other people's business. Better yet.... get some business. Since you're going to be defensive and stupid you should know that you've just proved my points. Thank you, child.
But be honest. You're really Nancy Grace aren't you? There are 2 types of Scorps. The intelligent, thoughtful, methodical, loving Scorpio i.e. Bill Gates, Whoopi Goldberg's, Ellesque's etc. Then you have the Nancy Grace psycho bitch Scorps which I to this day have a restraining order against. I don't have to guess which one you are. See, you can't be nice to dumb, stupid bitches, like you. So, I'm done being nice to your evil ass. Fuck you, and anybody like you and anybody who likes you. That's why you are on these boards bullshitting. Don't think you're fooling anybody saying that it's your "FRIEND". Even if you're being truthful, then you are a fucking loser for coming here because now nobody's going to believe you. "Friend" my ass. I hope I know this Gemini guy you speak of. I'm going to tell him to leave your crazy ass alone! This is the only way to communicate to a dummy like yourself, so there it is. Deal with it! Fake ass psycho! Better?

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