How do you make a gemini woman jealous?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by micahh on Sunday, March 29, 2009 and has 65 replies.
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Since Gemini's like to flirt alot, would flirting with someone else while their in the room make a Gemini jealous? Please, If you've had any experience in this area could you please comment. I want to make a gemini jealous.
You flirt with their other half! Winking
LOL @ eric.
micahh, why on earth would you want to make a gem jealous??
Posted by GemGal
There are better ways to kick a gemini out of your life.
If you make a gemini woman jealous.. she will go crazy(your fault whatever she does to you) and then she will delete you from her life.
Like she never had any feelings for you.
Dont do it.

Hey Gemgal, that does sound like good advice. I was wondering if you could tell me how I can get a Gemini friend back. I think it was my fault but I don't remember why we fought. I miss her and she was a really good friend to me. We haven't talked to each other for over two months. Can this guy win his gemini friend back?
Its healthy for Geminis to have jealous streak otherwise they wouldn't be considerate with their partners.
Making a Gemini jealous is a hard thing, but it can be accomplished. And after she realizes she has grown jealous, she will lash out and push you away because we hate that feeling. It won't end the way you want it to, trust me.
Man! All is true. My secretary is a Gem. Don't make a Gemini woman jealous! You will live to regret it! Same with men. We can put finality to a relationship easier than any sign in the zodiac. Thing to remember: They will stop it nothing to get you back just to get even. And believe me. The Gemini mind will be very creative on how to screw your world up. DON'T DO IT!
Gemini's are very forgiving people though. Will give you the shirt off of our backs. Don't screw us though. We make great friends, but even better enemies. Winking
Good point!
I don't disagree with the last part of that .... Gemini's make more enemy's than any other.
In any given social, official or family situation I've encountered ... it's the Gemini who is on the outside, making enemies of the people around them.
In fact, making enemies is likely your strongest attribute.
Oh P-Angel. Pisces always get us Gems wrong. There is a very good reason why we are misunderstood and complex. Ponder that. If we have enemies we don't know them. Nor would we care. You know this. But, I am curious of your story. What has been your experience with certain Gemini's?
"Nor would we care"

Which is why they exist in massive quantities for Gemini's .... because most people do care, and so attempt to know, for better relations.
You say the above like a proud badge ... when in reality, it is the reason why you make enemies.
You would say that you don't, it's people who make enemies out of you ... and yet, you are proud that you don't care.

Nobody can make you see any truth in that if you choose not to .... your life, live it, just don't expect anyone to pity you for it.
You have really got to stop generalizing. I don't understand the hostility.
Sending a telepathic hug to P-Angel.
You use the word 'we' to infer all Gemini's
I quote you, using the word 'we' that you used

Then you respond back taking a tone, trying to suggest that I can't get it through my head not to generalize, and that it means I am hostile.

You said .... "Nor would we care" ..... we, is ALL Gems, a generalization, I quoted you.
don't be stupid .. I can't handle stupid people .. if you want to present yourself as though you are smart, then please doso, rather than presenting yourself as being dumb, and not understanding simple english.

You said that Gemini's would not care if they had enemies .. and I said that that is the reason why they have so many.

And the amount of enemies they have is tremendous .... and I guarantee you it has nothing to do with people being jealous of you, like you so love to boast.
People don't like you, they sure as hell aren't going to be upset because they aren't you.
Posted by CombatingMyGeminiSister
GeminiMind,
P-angel's ex husband was a Gemini and he used to beat her up. So that sums up her animosity towards Gems.
We don't MAKE enemies of people, people make enemies of US.
I have not EVER hate a person even when they don't like me. Even when I disagree with someone, I can still have a civil talk and drink tea with you after.
We choose not to stand on either sides... And we refuse to stand in a box where you narrow minded people commune, so you dislike us because you expect us to cater to your whims.
And we seldomly use revenge to get our ways, we use our mouths! Unlike our zodiac counterparts like Cancers, Pisces, and Scorpios. Where you guys find pleasure in sucking the life out of other people: emotional blackmail, vengeance, dirty schemes... you guys are the evil masterminds. haha
Like my friend Taurus says, if you hate me enough to care to respond to everything I say, I am flattered because I have profoundly influenced you.



Thanks! Now it all makes sense. I didn't know, and I'm sorry that put a damper on your outlook.
Posted by P-Angel
You use the word 'we' to infer all Gemini's
I quote you, using the word 'we' that you used

Then you respond back taking a tone, trying to suggest that I can't get it through my head not to generalize, and that it means I am hostile.

You said .... "Nor would we care" ..... we, is ALL Gems, a generalization, I quoted you.
don't be stupid .. I can't handle stupid people .. if you want to present yourself as though you are smart, then please doso, rather than presenting yourself as being dumb, and not understanding simple english.

You said that Gemini's would not care if they had enemies .. and I said that that is the reason why they have so many.

And the amount of enemies they have is tremendous .... and I guarantee you it has nothing to do with people being jealous of you, like you so love to boast.
People don't like you, they sure as hell aren't going to be upset because they aren't you.



You should really read the things that you write. Then ask yourself a question.
You're too dumb for me to communicate with you, GeminiMind.
I'm sure you're nice and all .... but, nice doesn't mean much, it's only there for superficial impressions to be made so people can have surface conversations.
You cannot comprehend english, and then attempt to pose a situation as if it is the other person who is stupid .... and I can't tolerate stupidity.

Therefore .. you will have to form relations with other people in here who can overlook this quality in you to be to talk to you.
Good luck, and I'm sure you'll find people who can tolerate this.

******* bounce *******
Grow up.
a gemini mustve really broken your heart p-angel
BINGO! I wonder why? She's the negative side of the fish. You can feel her energy. It's really quite dark. I'm glad my Pisces girl isn't anything like her.
P-Angel go be a B I T C H somewhere else....dizzy broad...
"You're too dumb for me to communicate with you, GeminiMind."
Y resort to name calling p-angel, he didn't go there with you? Even though I did it to you, you deserve it though...
I thought that YOU were suppose to be above all that...
you went in attack mode for no damn reason...just miserable...its pathetic
After 50 years of being on this earth, I would think your over-grown ass would be more mature that that...
LibScorp .. I think Eric hit the nail on the head when he said that Geminis are free spirited when it comes to themselves, but are absolutely domineering when it comes to everythign else.
With this free spirited approach comes the attitude that it's My Way or the Highway because a free-spirited person can only think in terms of "I", "Me".

It's not happy twin, grumpy twin .... it's twins of double standards. One twin is allowed to do what "I" want, while the other twin won't allow others to live and let live of their own spirit and has a need to control.

Perhaps, that's what it is all about ... it boils down to a deep-seeded control issue. Because the one twin is sooooooooooooooooooo free, and boundless .. that the other has a need to sternly/absolutely control everything else around it so it has some sort of sense of control.
In fact, psychologically ... a person who has little, if any, self control ... is the person who tries to be a control freak with everybody around them.
All makes sense now.
Again, thank you Eric for bringing this to light.
P-Angel, you are obsesed with Gemini's. Admit it.
Hello all, can anyone help me understand a certain situation I have a female gemini friend (Im aquarius)
this friend has spent the last 4yrs acting attracted then having a new boyfriend and not really wanting to
know me 2 mins later. I dont believe for one minute that she deliberately plays games and if I question her will
tell me she likes certain aspects of my personality but not others so we go back to being friends then she acts
attracted again. Because she is jealous when Im with someone and continues to say flirtatious things I dont think My personality can be that bad. Apparently Im really good looking but to short (Am 6 ft but not as tall as her boyfriends)
Cant seem to get her out of my head need to gain understanding otherwise will end up hating her and ending the friendship.
would prefer to deal with situation in a more enlightend way. Could some of the geminis out there help?
Posted by livingit
Hello all, can anyone help me understand a certain situation I have a female gemini friend (Im aquarius)
this friend has spent the last 4yrs acting attracted then having a new boyfriend and not really wanting to
know me 2 mins later. I dont believe for one minute that she deliberately plays games and if I question her will
tell me she likes certain aspects of my personality but not others so we go back to being friends then she acts
attracted again. Because she is jealous when Im with someone and continues to say flirtatious things I dont think My personality can be that bad. Apparently Im really good looking but to short (Am 6 ft but not as tall as her boyfriends)
Cant seem to get her out of my head need to gain understanding otherwise will end up hating her and ending the friendship.
would prefer to deal with situation in a more enlightend way. Could some of the geminis out there help?


What exactly do you mean when you say you "question her"? I don't get it. Did you ask her what this push/pull attraction thing was about? Have you guys talked about leveling up your relationship? Kind of hard to give advice without knowing these specifics ... context, you know?
Generally though, we flirt and love attention. We will flirt at will until we know what it's all about. It will be lighthearted fun until we get clear signals from the other party that they want to take it serious. When she finally gets that in her head, you will notice a shift in gear.
Jealousy -- different levels for Gems. It can be jealousy because she's no longer the center of attention or it could be romantically based jealousy. Can't tell until you answer my first Q's about context.
Bottom line, until we know you're not kidding around, we're going to do a happy dance around you, just because we like being happy. If you don't like to dance anymore or it's making you miserable, sit her down, ask her directly. She has to know what she's dealing with, first and foremost, to react properly.
""What exactly do you mean when you say you "question her"? I don't get it. Did you ask her what this push/pull attraction thing was about? Have you guys talked about leveling up your relationship? Kind of hard to give advice without knowing these specifics ... context, you know?
Generally though, we flirt and love attention. We will flirt at will until we know what it's all about. It will be lighthearted fun until we get clear signals from the other party that they want to take it serious. When she finally gets that in her head, you will notice a shift in gear.
Jealousy -- different levels for Gems. It can be jealousy because she's no longer the center of attention or it could be romantically based jealousy. Can't tell until you answer my first Q's about context.
Bottom line, until we know you're not kidding around, we're going to do a happy dance around you, just because we like being happy. If you don't like to dance anymore or it's making you miserable, sit her down, ask her directly. She has to know what she's dealing with, first and foremost, to react properly.""
That ^^^^^
Now, I do not specifically refer to livingit's situation, but TwistedTwin is right in asserting that it'll be lighthearted fun until we get signs that it's serious. At least, that's true to me and other Gem friends - subtle flirting and intellectual banter. That's 'testing the waters' from my part, although admittedly Gems are known to flirt just for the fun of it and not pursuing things further than that.
If she's showing signs of jealousy, then the interest is there and I take it you haven't taken any initiative still?
Unless you give any info on how you acted all along, I cannot really comment on whether she's seriously attracted or not.
And - just saw it - I believe she's not with the boyfriend now, else I wouldn't think too highly of a fem that plays such games when attached and/or why she continues to interest you.
and btw, referring to the title of the post;
I am not sure if it applies to all geminis (different placements play an important role) but you DON"T make a gem jealous...
Not one who's been there, done that at least...we generally learn quickly and adapt to situations - if it is used as a manipulative ploy to get the 'upper hand' or have control over the gem/relationship, from my experience - hopeless.
I can see right through it and playing games with a gem is playing in our court, with our rules and a fixed game.
It happened and I laughed nonchalantly...yes, we can be jealous (as EVERYBODY lol) but not when it is merely a tactic to gain control.
Judging from myself and all the geminis I know, we do not care about controlling a person/situation but if others try to do this, things can get nasty.
Be honest and real - and if you need to get sb jealous/play games to win his/her attention (gem or not) then maybe, possibly...
....its not worth it.
Posted by P-Angel
I don't disagree with the last part of that .... Gemini's make more enemy's than any other.
In any given social, official or family situation I've encountered ... it's the Gemini who is on the outside, making enemies of the people around them.
In fact, making enemies is likely your strongest attribute.



P-angel ,I think the reason you say this is because you have misunderstood a Gemini ,they do many confusing things and some people take it the wrong way ,many times they unintentionally are annoying and sometimes it seems as if they don't care ,but I assure you don't take it personal .You have to just try to understand them .everyone has an opinion though .I don't think you are obsessed with gemini's either like a user posted ,I think you prob are just trying to study them ,so that mabye you can work something out with your self ,( like why did this happen) or ( what did I do for this person to react this way?) I think that it's cruel for someone to make accusations that youve had your heart broken by one ,so what if you did? That was a low blow .anyway what I'm getti g at is you are a nice person and give a lot of good advice .just saying .love Angie
And to answer the post ,don't make anyone jealous on purpose .it's a losing battle .do everything with love. If you let .anger jealousy and negativity guide your actions than that's what your life will become .and you can't make a Gemini jealous ,they will laugh at that!! They are too smart for games .trust this .luv ange
Well,obviously gemini's can be jelous as all of you said,i see thought that in the relationship they sense it when their partner is trying to control them or they try to gain the upper hand with jelousy.But,i think i did succed to make a gemini jelous but after the relationship ended.
So it was that he was kinda drunk and i got to this club later then usually,during my absence he made out with his girl who hates me and is spreading rumors about me and is always trying to do something with my boyfriend's.And she did it again,she ruined this relationship between me and this gemini guy.I found out from my friends from there what he did,I asked him "how is ___ doing?" and he said "dunno,i didn't ask her,why?" and then i said i know what he did,and he said that "i don't care about anyone" ,so yea,he was a lil drunk but a drunk person is a honest person.And then my words were "okey,that's good to know" , then i turned away and just had fun and then eventually got together with my male best friend who is an aqua.And then i saw the jelousy in the gemini's eyes cause 1.He kept staring waaaaayyyy too much and he made sure he was always around me. 2.He tried to be always near me with someone else,attempt to make me jelous i think....And he also flirted with my best friend,but i guess he didn't really notice that my best friend's boyfriend was just 2 feet away,lol.
So I guess when these attempts with trying to be with someone else do work to make a gem jelous but not if it's made to directly make him jelous.It's just what appeals to every human being , they don't like it when they see an ex better off without them and with someone else,and it has mostly effect when it's not a game but a real thing to be moving on.
Anyways,i don't think this applies to all gems but this applied to my ex , but i think this just mostly applies to every human being cause nobody likes to feel so easily replaced,when they see an ex suffering after the breakup it's kinda ego stroking for the person.
btw,i don't care,call me an alcoholic but i got a better stomach then my ex!!!! Big Grin
That night he drank only beer and he didn't smoke.
That night i drank beer,wine and brandy,and smoked a cigarette and i was fine as hell.
We both we're kinda dizzy,not totally drunk.Haha,i'm one alcoholic aqua smile
Who are they kidding? Everyone who knows a Gemini, loves that Gemini. Only the internet cowards come on here to say that we make enemies. That's not even logical. If you don't like us, then it's quite obvious who has the problem, period. Can any Gemini really say that they don't like, or hate someone of another sun sign? I think not. People like P-"Angel" hate themselves and judge people based on how that person makes them feel about themselves. That is the epitome of selfishness. They are too stupid to see that hating us only proves us to be right all along. They are the definition of stupid, which is a choice. I have no time for these idiots.
~GM
@GeminiMind : true , i gotta say i loved my gem ex,and we are still friends smile , so i agree that gems rock and people hating on a sign ain't a too smart thing to do,no matter what sign it is.
That totally works for me. If I notice another woman is paying attention to my guy, I would be much more interested in him. However, I do not like if my guys hits on other women- total turn off.
Thanks to those who replied to my post. Yes she is a tremendous flirt so maybe thats the cause of the confusion. Its weird how twisted the friendship is there will be the flirt and the moment it feels (to me)like there is something more happening than flirting that will be the moment she changes and has a new steady boyfriend which sort of confirms that there is something between us and also says that there isnt! when I have sat her down and questioned her about this she is uncomfortable tells me she is attracted if it means nothing or that Im imagining things or that I have aspects to my personality that she cant stand or that she cant be with me because of the way I feel. Yes she has rung me crying when I have moved on with someone else although Ive never planned to make her jealous. Dont think my feeling of a deeper connection is imagined and it isnt her flirting that causes it. Is also the way she acts. wierd how everytime it really feels like it is there thats when she isnt!
When we first met we used to kiss and hook up. the last time it happened it was all there and she just started crying I guess that means Im wrong for her but why the continuing interest then? Maybe she is just really good at flirting or keeping me for a rainy day?
She hasnt acted like this when she is with someone steady and at the moment she is still with him. Not trying to get her back but would really like to understand her a bit more!
very matter of factly say to her:

"The way you used to dress and act
was so attractive to you ... but you've so
totally changed. I was just wondering:
Are you trying to keep guys away from you now
"on purpose" ...like... did someone hurt you?"

If "yes" - move along ( true or not )
If "no ... what do you mean?"
Then say: "You know ... you're ...you're totally a different
person now compared to before (superficial unstated
time reference JUST to drive her batty)

Posted by LovelyMissAries
Okay... I'm not a Gemini.. but do have Gemini rising which makes me what? 1/4th Gemini?
The whole cat and mouse thing she has you riding on here is part of Gemini's traits. They flirt because they like flirting and they like the chase, but actually letting someone get REAL with us will take a LOT of patience. I put people through a lot of nonsensical bullshit to see if they'll still stick around. It's kind of stupid, kind of not. I want friends/lovers who can stand me at my craziest, you know? Show me a person that doesn't. But if you move too fast, the Gemini will buzz off. They're like flies... you need a fly swatter to actually conquer them. Trying to sneak up on them won't work... they have 8 eyes, and they're batting them at 8 different guys seeing who will bite first.


haha - all you need is a chocolate jelly donut.
Drop into your local Dunkin' Donuts
and buy one and stand with it
she'll absolutely

Posted by QLIbraMale
wow y'all gemini are acting nasty to P.Angel no wonder two faced is giving gemini bad name lol.


You see, one of my most trusted confidants is a Libra. This is why I have to smack his ass up side of his head at times: He always tries to fit in, and find balance with people that either hate him, or don't have much respect for him. Libra's tend to try to be so agreeable that they forget to actually.....wait for it.......THINK! But, you guys are much like Cancer's in that you internalize so much and live like hermits if you haven't dealt with your demons. Deal with them and stop using 'friendliness' as a guise to show that you are a nice person when in fact you're scheming at all times. P-"Angel" thinks you Libra's are a weak idiots. She's said so about her "X" Libra mate. Not only that, she absolutely loves my ass!! LOL!! No, really, she does. WinkingI have no feelings for her whatsoever, because I know what she is, and she knows this. That's why she comes here to respond to me. I let her, and I respond back sometimes. That's what we Gem In I's do. We tend to throw a lot of bones to a lot of different dogs. Just like Sag's, Caps, and Scorpio's do. Weird huh? We tend to be the strongest of all of our elemental siblings. You see, you can't fool us. Which is why we tend to war with each other at times. I love them all, even though I will take my gloves off around them when need be. We are the General's of our elements my friendly Libra. Take notes. Winking
Much love and respect,
~GM
Jealousy and missing you all the time will definitally end it for me smile
"sounds like"? Wow, and idiot has entered our realm. Gem broke your heart I see. ***Snickering***
~GM
Hey LoverlyMissAries think you have summed the situation up. Question is what kind of flyswatter or butterfly net do I
need? Maybe when she casually mentions her new partner my reaction to that is the test? Pretending to be ok with her new guys may work but I have to be honest and true to myself. BUT WOULD IT WORK? Maybe I need to just live life and if the butterfly lands on my shoulder then I wont need the net?
Quicker than you can blink, I guarantee it. Speaking from experience here.
~GM
I recommend that you don't make her jealous. You would probably lose her. I would not enjoy wasting my time on a man who plays game with me. Plus being with other people to make me jealous will make me think that he's uninterested in me thus going back to part about wasting my time. lol
To make her jealous would not only have her lose respect for you but also trust, and there is no relationship if there is no trust. I don't get jealous in relationships unless I am truly in love with the guy and that's only been once because I was afraid of losing him, and not his fault...as he couldn't help it if girls wanted him (I didn't blame them, he was a catch) but other guys have tried to make me jealous and I personally dropped them in a heart beat. There are so many other guys out there that don't feel the need to test me or play games, I have no time nor patience for that sort of thing.
Making a Gemini jealous is a bad idea. I usually end up pulling away and disappearing.
Jealousy -> Insecurity -> Mistrust -> Bye.
Posted by angelbunnydarlinglibra
Posted by P-Angel
I don't disagree with the last part of that .... Gemini's make more enemy's than any other.
In any given social, official or family situation I've encountered ... it's the Gemini who is on the outside, making enemies of the people around them.
In fact, making enemies is likely your strongest attribute.



P-angel ,I think the reason you say this is because you have misunderstood a Gemini ,they do many confusing things and some people take it the wrong way ,many times they unintentionally are annoying and sometimes it seems as if they don't care ,but I assure you don't take it personal .You have to just try to understand them .everyone has an opinion though .I don't think you are obsessed with gemini's either like a user posted ,I think you prob are just trying to study them ,so that mabye you can work something out with your self ,( like why did this happen) or ( what did I do for this person to react this way?) I think that it's cruel for someone to make accusations that youve had your heart broken by one ,so what if you did? That was a low blow .anyway what I'm getti g at is you are a nice person and give a lot of good advice .just saying .love Angie
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I don't misunderstand.

One twin is a free spirit that doesn't care what people thinks of it, who enjoys life to the max, you is positive energy ... the other is negative energy, it is controlling, domineering, judgemental .. and it's equally balanced.
One can only exist because of the other.
I assure YOU, I don't take things personally .. quite the contrary, my normal level of discussion takes an impersonal slant.
I would like to mention at this point ... the fact that you think I take this personal, is relative to Geminis thinking people are jealous of them, all the time.
I also want to mention that since a Gemini thinks people are jealous of them ***quite a lot*** then a person can only know how an emotion is, if they feel it themselves.
If you've never been angry .. would you know fury if you heard it, saw it? If you know, without a doubt that people get jealous of you, then without a doubt, you experience this same human conditin.
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