just needed some opinion. I recover quite fast but when i was in the 'mourning-mode' i don't eat, sleep and really cry a lot (not a good phase and please don't laugh) and i hate people trying to point out right or wrong, i just needed my closest girlfriends to cheer me up and just listen to me instead of offering solutions.
u see - if and break up times - you usually there are hints, in your self 2 - we need to watch out. It cant' be that you are taken by surprise. Thats why we people have brains...
hahahahah...of course u wanna get thru the phase quickly so u can move on with your life, best thing is when you have a great new haircut, joined the gym and somehow have killer body, smells nice and guys are going ga-ga over you, he'll start thinking why in the first place did he let you go?!?!?! serves him RIGHT!!!
i think the best thing while you are dating or having a love affair. You dont' give up things when you were not dating nore had a love affair. This way you make sure you can walk alone when something happens. I think looking back there is nothing more stupid to grave about somebody who dont' like or what ever...
Yes I don't like to greive as well. With me though is for a day or so I might be depressed, then iv learned an off switch that...If I don't wanan greive I just aint goanna. (Dunno if this is healthy for me lol). Sometimes, like a month or months later ill cry again.
i remember one love affair of mine "was a summer crush" and we had to separete after summer - we cried together this was good but never went back. Funny enough i met her 20 years later and we were together for few month but things had changed and we let it go.
i have never taken back any of my exes. I just don't believe it can work the second time, besides I'm already aware of the issue that made us break up, and unless they are willing to change (I am of course always able to adapt according to people) then there's no way it's gonna work..
That's how I am too. I just delete his number, listen to sad songs, and walk around the house with no makeup and sweats for a few days. Then I buy myself some fabulous clothes and hit the hottest and newest clubs with my girlfriends and find myself another mate.
But, at times, just before I go to sleep or if I'm just running things through my mind, I'll think of him and curse and cry. And the cycle just keeps going. Fairly usual routine.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
what about you?