How to break out of the Gemini thinking pattern and figure out what you want

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Gemsgem on Monday, July 16, 2018 and has 3 replies.
This is probably a multiple sign problem but i think us Gems tend to get in our head and beat ourselves up for not coming to a decision quick enough. With so many options it's hard to figure out what's the best way to take as we love having multiple ways to go.

I've been struggling to figure out what i want to do with myself, i am currently in corporate and i have a passion for all things natural and earthy, so i've been looking into naturopathy and nutrition, also psychology but at the same time i love making money and managing people so i've been in my head for months now having multiple ups and downs, pulling a plug on dating as i'm just not getting anything out of it (and happy days, the cap that i allowed to dick me around for nearly a year just got engaged), but all this thinking just makes me have less energy and less motivation to do literally anything.

I'm going to start to listen to Louise Hay again (love her work, so positive and happy) to get me out of this mental ditch but wondering what you guys could recommend in ways of finding the self and the right passage?

Also any jobs Gemini can be particularly good at? Big Grin

Thanks fam Love
Posted by GemFallOut

I don't think one job will ever be enough to satisfy... as truthfully, we always are expanding and wanting something more. I've had plenty of jobs because of this. Have you thought about making one job the main and doing what you love on the side as extra cash, without a schedule? If you get what I mean? That way you have a steady income, but also you are still working outside on your own time making money?

Love i am with you love, stay positive throughout your troubles

I think you are so right, i have been thinking about this so much that i always want to do everything and anything i am just scared to spend years of my life studying in vane that's why i am struggling to make any decisions. I was thinking to just chill for a few weeks or maybe months and then pick up again smile i don't think with my current job i will be able to have a second job but if i end up doing something different in another field that's how i can have multiple hats and enjoy it smile

Thank you!
Posted by nanobot

What seems the most practical to me is to stay in your current position that you enjoy, make money and move up the ladder if you wish... continue to manage people and challenge yourself. Try for promotions or anything else that will have you work toward something so that you don't get bored. Meanwhile, you can take your passion for natural and earthy stuff as your pastime, and maybe create a business on the side.
I will try and make something on the side while figuring things out. Issue with my current role is i don't have a degree and my moving up the ladder is because i am good at my job and i know the business well, but i am so bored here right now, i am not occupied and not learning anything else here hence the strive for more study but it's both expensive and time consuming so i want to make sure i am on the right path.

Thank you for your suggestion smile