TxOgal
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How to friendzone Gemini guy?
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First, don't go out on anything that could be seen as a date!
Second, just tell him. How he takes it is not any of your fault, unless you led him on. If you didn't, then don't worry about it.
Second, just tell him. How he takes it is not any of your fault, unless you led him on. If you didn't, then don't worry about it.
Simple enough, stop going on dates with him.
@LadyNeptune @misslissa yeh i think i should stop.. I did not see it as a date though .. just getting to know him as a friend.. but yeh i already started giving hints and hoping he will get it. Seriously even that hurts him.. whn i told him before i cant go out. Just now his mood changed all of a sudden just bec. i was talking with another guy on the phone.
Why is he that way yet tells me he knows he doesnt have the right to be upset .. so confusing ugh!!!
Why is he that way yet tells me he knows he doesnt have the right to be upset .. so confusing ugh!!!
Posted by libraqueenhe already knows...
Tell him the truth you're not over your ex
He'll friendzone himself
Posted by libraqueenit seems that way ..yesterday he told me hes so confused and doesnt know how to act around me ..like im traveling in a couple of days for a month and he wanted to see me but i told him ill be very busy.. he says he doesnt know what to tell me and that all he wanted to say by then is that he is missing me so much and wants to see me but hes even noy able to say that cause hes afraid that he will push me away..Posted by TxOgalThen he must be crazy for you. Why don't you like him? Is he unattractive?Posted by libraqueenhe already knows...
Tell him the truth you're not over your ex
He'll friendzone himselfclick to expand
i told him before to give it time, but he cant adjust to that.. it hurts him if he finds other guys flirting with me.. hurts him that he doesnt have the right to say anything yet cant win me over
ok maybe when i heal from my past relationship, i can feel him out but really now i cant feel anything, its out of my hands.. he even understands that and said he knows he doesnt want to be a rebound and its better when i think clearly about it ... yet he cant act as a friend only.. thats why i wanted to friendzone him
Posted by libraqueenI just told him i dont think there could be anything more than friendship...Posted by TxOgalYou can't friendzone him because it's not like his feelings can be turned from on and off like a switch. Friend zoning him won't do much honestly. Just take a break from him as a person and let him know you don't like him.Posted by libraqueenit seems that way ..yesterday he told me hes so confused and doesnt know how to act around me ..like im traveling in a couple of days for a month and he wanted to see me but i told him ill be very busy.. he says he doesnt know what to tell me and that all he wanted to say by then is that he is missing me so much and wants to see me but hes even noy able to say that cause hes afraid that he will push me away..Posted by TxOgalThen he must be crazy for you. Why don't you like him? Is he unattractive?Posted by libraqueenhe already knows...
Tell him the truth you're not over your ex
He'll friendzone himself
i told him before to give it time, but he cant adjust to that.. it hurts him if he finds other guys flirting with me.. hurts him that he doesnt have the right to say anything yet cant win me over
ok maybe when i heal from my past relationship, i can feel him out but really now i cant feel anything, its out of my hands.. he even understands that and said he knows he doesnt want to be a rebound and its better when i think clearly about it ... yet he cant act as a friend only.. thats why i wanted to friendzone himclick to expand
mmm i really dont wish to lose him...
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?
Posted by TxOgalThe only reason I friendzone a guy is either A he's unattractive or B he's not husband material/doesn't have his life together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?click to expand
Did you try to tell him that you're not interested romantically with him?
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI already told him that... N told him i dont like him that way... Yeh i guess both.. Hes handsome but i dont feel this attraction... Hes smart n got a good job that hes successful at but his laid back attitude towards finding another job cause the current one is boring him to death...makes me think hes still got a long time ahead to even plan for actual committment.. Im 26 so im not really looking to play around.. I need real committment..Posted by TxOgalThe only reason I friendzone a guy is either A he's unattractive or B he's not husband material/doesn't have his life together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Did you try to tell him that you're not interested romantically with him?click to expand
N the fact that i dont know what his house n familyr like... Makes me afraid of going into something that will not last if for example his family seem to be from a different world than mine
Posted by misslissaKinda harsh for me to say that.. I know how hard it is for him to even be that open with me n saying how much he likes me eventhough he knows i dont... He opens up to me so much.. N i do too.. So it will be cruel to tell him that while hes vulnerable dont u think?Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?click to expand
Posted by TxOgalAh... so there's a level of intimacy here. Just keep reminding him when the subject comes up. And, just remember, you are NOT responsible for his feelings. He is.Posted by misslissaKinda harsh for me to say that.. I know how hard it is for him to even be that open with me n saying how much he likes me eventhough he knows i dont... He opens up to me so much.. N i do too.. So it will be cruel to tell him that while hes vulnerable dont u think?Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?click to expand
Posted by misslissaFumny you said this.. Cause today i was starting to feel bad and insensitive but theres nothing i can do. ThnxPosted by TxOgalAh... so there's a level of intimacy here. Just keep reminding him when the subject comes up. And, just remember, you are NOT responsible for his feelings. He is.Posted by misslissaKinda harsh for me to say that.. I know how hard it is for him to even be that open with me n saying how much he likes me eventhough he knows i dont... He opens up to me so much.. N i do too.. So it will be cruel to tell him that while hes vulnerable dont u think?Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?click to expand
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameNow the gemini wants me to tell him a reason for why i cant see something more than friendship with him other than me not over my ex .. Etc (he said that in a funny way though) ... He told me it will be easier for him to get over this thought if i give him a reason even like telling him "i dont like short guys" (he is my height.. Im not tall) .. Im at loss about what to tell him now ..Posted by TxOgalThe only reason I friendzone a guy is either A he's unattractive or B he's not husband material/doesn't have his life together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Did you try to tell him that you're not interested romantically with him?click to expand
Any idea?
Posted by InstantkarmaWell that wasnt helpful....Posted by TxOgalPosted by HarleyTwinFlameNow the gemini wants me to tell him a reason for why i cant see something more than friendship with him other than me not over my ex .. Etc (he said that in a funny way though) ... He told me it will be easier for him to get over this thought if i give him a reason even like telling him "i dont like short guys" (he is my height.. Im not tall) .. Im at loss about what to tell him now ..Posted by TxOgalThe only reason I friendzone a guy is either A he's unattractive or B he's not husband material/doesn't have his life together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Did you try to tell him that you're not interested romantically with him?
Lol
tell him to get a life and you should get one too :-p
Tell him he is in the friendzone. How difficult is that?
Cut him off for few months, before you know it he would have found a gal who likes him back.
Hs won't remember you by then. So don't worry about hurting his feelings.click to expand
Posted by InstantkarmaI made it clear to him that we shouldnt talk or hang out again but he still wants to remain.... Says he will get over it... I did tell him its not fair to him or our friendship since he has feelings for me. I was actually brutally honest with him.Posted by TxOgalPosted by InstantkarmaWell that wasnt helpful....Posted by TxOgalPosted by HarleyTwinFlameNow the gemini wants me to tell him a reason for why i cant see something more than friendship with him other than me not over my ex .. Etc (he said that in a funny way though) ... He told me it will be easier for him to get over this thought if i give him a reason even like telling him "i dont like short guys" (he is my height.. Im not tall) .. Im at loss about what to tell him now ..Posted by TxOgalThe only reason I friendzone a guy is either A he's unattractive or B he's not husband material/doesn't have his life together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Did you try to tell him that you're not interested romantically with him?
Lol
tell him to get a life and you should get one too :-p
Tell him he is in the friendzone. How difficult is that?
Cut him off for few months, before you know it he would have found a gal who likes him back.
Hs won't remember you by then. So don't worry about hurting his feelings.
Alright!
String him along then,because from what you have mentioned thats how it looks to me. You don't wanna lose the hold you have on him but you can't give yourself to him.
See, so many gals face this issue,many times. Either cut him off so he can move on or string him along as a friend. I have seen many gals who keep guys who are into them as friends, i don't get it. Whenever i was in your situation,I have been brutally honest with them and cut them off. Eventually they moved on. And they came back as good friends. Most of them did.
Your life. Do what you think is best.click to expand
Maybe i should be the one to cut him off but its a shame cause i like this friendship we have ... Before knowing what he has for me.. I dont think he will let me though but maybe i should try gradually
I hope it works out fellow cow. If not you know what to do, stay strong my dear.
@Instantkarma he is a very nice guy this is why im so in struggle about what to do so not to hurt him. He just cant seem to understand that I truly need a break!
@Admiral he is ashamed of telling me this.. He tells me he was never that way, making a fool of himself, yet cant help letting me know these things. It sucks really
@Admiral he is ashamed of telling me this.. He tells me he was never that way, making a fool of himself, yet cant help letting me know these things. It sucks really
Posted by misslissaIts funny i ended up doing what you said..told him we cant stay close friends and cant continue with the phone calls often cause he needs to move on.. It was getting too much he almost said he loves me yesterday and he would have if i havent pulled the brakes..Posted by TxOgalAh... so there's a level of intimacy here. Just keep reminding him when the subject comes up. And, just remember, you are NOT responsible for his feelings. He is.Posted by misslissaKinda harsh for me to say that.. I know how hard it is for him to even be that open with me n saying how much he likes me eventhough he knows i dont... He opens up to me so much.. N i do too.. So it will be cruel to tell him that while hes vulnerable dont u think?Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?click to expand
I hate to fill like stringing along somebody ..its not fair and i feel really selfish eventhoughi told him many times we shouldnt be talking that much since he said he likes me that way... N ugh ppl say taurus are stubborn sigh..
Posted by TxOgalGems can be passively stubborn, at least I am. Lol.Posted by misslissaIts funny i ended up doing what you said..told him we cant stay close friends and cant continue with the phone calls often cause he needs to move on.. It was getting too much he almost said he loves me yesterday and he would have if i havent pulled the brakes..Posted by TxOgalAh... so there's a level of intimacy here. Just keep reminding him when the subject comes up. And, just remember, you are NOT responsible for his feelings. He is.Posted by misslissaKinda harsh for me to say that.. I know how hard it is for him to even be that open with me n saying how much he likes me eventhough he knows i dont... He opens up to me so much.. N i do too.. So it will be cruel to tell him that while hes vulnerable dont u think?Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?
I hate to fill like stringing along somebody ..its not fair and i feel really selfish eventhoughi told him many times we shouldnt be talking that much since he said he likes me that way... N ugh ppl say taurus are stubborn sigh..click to expand
I think what you did is for the best. It's like Admiral said. He's not respecting your choice and definitely not having any respect for himself. So reject and ignore his calls. Block him on all media.... And, don't worry about him... he'll bounce back in a week or 2.
Posted by misslissaYeh well i dont need to block him.. He already stopped texting after i told him that.. He only asked if we can discuss or if its my decision, i told him its my decision n he didnt text at all which seems unusual but well i expected that.. Hes not clingy.. i think he was just hung upPosted by TxOgalGems can be passively stubborn, at least I am. Lol.Posted by misslissaIts funny i ended up doing what you said..told him we cant stay close friends and cant continue with the phone calls often cause he needs to move on.. It was getting too much he almost said he loves me yesterday and he would have if i havent pulled the brakes..Posted by TxOgalAh... so there's a level of intimacy here. Just keep reminding him when the subject comes up. And, just remember, you are NOT responsible for his feelings. He is.Posted by misslissaKinda harsh for me to say that.. I know how hard it is for him to even be that open with me n saying how much he likes me eventhough he knows i dont... He opens up to me so much.. N i do too.. So it will be cruel to tell him that while hes vulnerable dont u think?Posted by TxOgalTell him you can't be friends with him as long as he behaves this way.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?
I hate to fill like stringing along somebody ..its not fair and i feel really selfish eventhoughi told him many times we shouldnt be talking that much since he said he likes me that way... N ugh ppl say taurus are stubborn sigh..
I think what you did is for the best. It's like Admiral said. He's not respecting your choice and definitely not having any respect for himself. So reject and ignore his calls. Block him on all media.... And, don't worry about him... he'll bounce back in a week or 2.click to expand
Posted by TxOgalEven if he joked about it, I guarantee he's being dead serious. Making it sound funny is an attempt to not make you awkward and more likely to answer.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameNow the gemini wants me to tell him a reason for why i cant see something more than friendship with him other than me not over my ex .. Etc (he said that in a funny way though) ... He told me it will be easier for him to get over this thought if i give him a reason even like telling him "i dont like short guys" (he is my height.. Im not tall) .. Im at loss about what to tell him now ..Posted by TxOgalThe only reason I friendzone a guy is either A he's unattractive or B he's not husband material/doesn't have his life together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYeah..hes really a good guy.. Its just i dont feel attracted to him that way.. Plus other few things but not major i think
Im pretty 100% sure it's because you're not attracted to him but he's a nice guy right? That's why you want to friendzone him?
Did you try to tell him that you're not interested romantically with him?click to expand
Geez...what can you tell him??
I honestly don't know.. sounds like he likes you alot
😢
Going through the same thing...
He was the driver I had on the bus I took to work every morning. After 6 months he changed routes. I was devastated! Then one day about a month later I get his AC route by chance! It was a long ride to AC and we had great conversations! The next day my co-worker tells me this guy called me twice on my work phone and wouldn't leave his name. I know its him, so when I get home, I fold my number up in this tiny origami crane and wait for him. I walk up the steps, hand him the bird, and run right back off that bus! Granted, he put the bus in park, and went after me. We are both smiling like fools, exchange a few works, then he returns to his bus.....
We text each other....I catch his route a few times. Spend some time alone with him during his layover. Then, he tells me he is married. I say we need to stop talking. I block him. He texts me from another phone saying he told his wife. PSHH, yeah...Then I find out that he chose to sub for my current work driver for two days so he could see me.
I thought Geminis got bored of people easily and could move on in a snap! I thought if there was enough time in between, he would eventually forget about me. He is one of the most persistent frustrating people! It doesn't make it easy that he made me care about him before he told me!
His Sun, moon, Merc, and Venus are in Gemini.
He was the driver I had on the bus I took to work every morning. After 6 months he changed routes. I was devastated! Then one day about a month later I get his AC route by chance! It was a long ride to AC and we had great conversations! The next day my co-worker tells me this guy called me twice on my work phone and wouldn't leave his name. I know its him, so when I get home, I fold my number up in this tiny origami crane and wait for him. I walk up the steps, hand him the bird, and run right back off that bus! Granted, he put the bus in park, and went after me. We are both smiling like fools, exchange a few works, then he returns to his bus.....
We text each other....I catch his route a few times. Spend some time alone with him during his layover. Then, he tells me he is married. I say we need to stop talking. I block him. He texts me from another phone saying he told his wife. PSHH, yeah...Then I find out that he chose to sub for my current work driver for two days so he could see me.
I thought Geminis got bored of people easily and could move on in a snap! I thought if there was enough time in between, he would eventually forget about me. He is one of the most persistent frustrating people! It doesn't make it easy that he made me care about him before he told me!
His Sun, moon, Merc, and Venus are in Gemini.
@Snar they are presistent...
After about 3-4 days of silence he asks me if we can still be friends or if its too late...
Im not sure what to tell him.. I do want to be friends but what if his feelings dont stop? We will go again through the same cycle....
After about 3-4 days of silence he asks me if we can still be friends or if its too late...
Im not sure what to tell him.. I do want to be friends but what if his feelings dont stop? We will go again through the same cycle....
Posted by TxOgalSo he ended up texting you back after you stopped all communication?
@Snar they are presistent...
After about 3-4 days of silence he asks me if we can still be friends or if its too late...
Im not sure what to tell him.. I do want to be friends but what if his feelings dont stop? We will go again through the same cycle....
Mine doesn't get that no means no either. Before I blocked him, I tried to make it final without blocking him. That didn't work! He would try to bait me with messages that picked at my curiosity, trying to tempt me into keeping conversation with him. He would also try the "Okay, I understand, Just text me once in a while so I know your okay". In what world does no mean yes, dammit! GIRRR.
Someone somewhere said that they go crazy when their interest at the moment does not communicate with them. Apparently they love the chase. The excitement and drama of it all. In love with love, not necessarily the person.
Disclaimer: I still very much love Gemini energy. I am very fond of it, so I hope no one take offense!
Posted by SnarYeh ... I am afraid to say yes we r friends though cause then he might have hope again .... I didnt respond but i know i will some timePosted by TxOgalSo he ended up texting you back after you stopped all communication?
@Snar they are presistent...
After about 3-4 days of silence he asks me if we can still be friends or if its too late...
Im not sure what to tell him.. I do want to be friends but what if his feelings dont stop? We will go again through the same cycle....
Mine doesn't get that no means no either. Before I blocked him, I tried to make it final without blocking him. That didn't work! He would try to bait me with messages that picked at my curiosity, trying to tempt me into keeping conversation with him. He would also try the "Okay, I understand, Just text me once in a while so I know your okay". In what world does no mean yes, dammit! GIRRR.
Someone somewhere said that they go crazy when their interest at the moment does not communicate with them. Apparently they love the chase. The excitement and drama of it all. In love with love, not necessarily the person.
Disclaimer: I still very much love Gemini energy. I am very fond of it, so I hope no one take offense!click to expand
Im feeling so confused ugh.. 😢
Posted by TxOgalI'm a 22 year old Gemini. I say to just leave him alone. If he can't respect the fact that you just want to be friends and nothing more than it's not much more you can say or do. He needs to understand that there are more fish in the sea. It'll make a man out of him. No way he should ever make you feel like you're obligated to be with him. Fuck that.
Gemini still wonders... Says its so hard that we r not together..
Any advice? Geminis where are you at?
Well we finally talked again.. He said hes over it now and just wants to be friends... He apologized for making me uncomfortable n said he didnt realize he was talking to me that much, said he didnt "intend" to do it n just foumd himself doing that without thinking..
Anyway we dont talk as much ofcourse.. But at least we remain friends.. Hopefully he is really over it as he says.. I heard geminis get over such things quickly..
So lets see
Anyway we dont talk as much ofcourse.. But at least we remain friends.. Hopefully he is really over it as he says.. I heard geminis get over such things quickly..
So lets see
Ok that was three months ago already?!!
Update: He started telling me his feelings again omg.. What do i do?!!?!
He says he knows he shouldnt but cant control it? Saying hes me missing me so much!
I told him this made me feel unconfortable .. And he apologized, but really things soo freaking awkwards now 😢
Help...
Update: He started telling me his feelings again omg.. What do i do?!!?!
He says he knows he shouldnt but cant control it? Saying hes me missing me so much!
I told him this made me feel unconfortable .. And he apologized, but really things soo freaking awkwards now 😢
Help...
Sorry for typos..
Posted by TxOgalAre you two physically affectionate as well? 😕
Ok that was three months ago already?!!
Update: He started telling me his feelings again omg.. What do i do?!!?!
He says he knows he shouldnt but cant control it? Saying hes me missing me so much!
I told him this made me feel unconfortable .. And he apologized, but really things soo freaking awkwards now 😢
Help...
If it's only a verbal displays of affection and intimacy (private discussions but nothing sexual of nature), then - that's a platonic friendship. And if that's the case - then you should ask yourself - if you want to be friends with him anymore.
Though, if you made it clear - that you're not interested in him - as far as romance goes - and he's still showing a romantic/erotic interest in you - then, you'll have to switch to actions as well. But actions expressed through words, like: make it clear - that it's the last time you're telling him this (even use the words "last time") - that you don't want to have anything do with him anymore - and you intend to cut him off - cause this (staying friends) - isn't working out and his behaviour - has become really obnoxious. The blunt/straightforward approach - can have a strong effect on some Geminis. Yet, it's hard to say - if it's the same with him (Aries Mercury if i recall and?).
@neves .. Yeh it was never the same after making this thread ... Hes been acting so strangely and insecure. He was not like that when i first knew him. We were never intimate .. We only casually met twice, no sexual tension or any of that. Im afraid ill have to tell him this again.. Eventhough i made it clear before n he told me he was over it ..until we talked on the phone a week ago i think. Cause he said he was over it until a week ago. And i realized its whn he called me hmm..
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
Posted by TxOgalAll things consider - his change in behaviour seems normal. I mean, this is a case of unrequited love - where you're actually struggling to make the rejection as clear as possible. So, I'd take it his feeling for you - are indeed pretty strong, if he's still expressing those feelings - 4 months after you started rejecting him. Such strong feelings of affection - which happened to be unrequited - can take a real tool on someone while facing rejection, which - explains his strange behaviour and his insecurity in relation to you (cause obviously - you crushed his confidence).
@neves .. Yeh it was never the same after making this thread ... Hes been acting so strangely and insecure. He was not like that when i first knew him. We were never intimate .. We only casually met twice, no sexual tension or any of that. Im afraid ill have to tell him this again.. Eventhough i made it clear before n he told me he was over it ..until we talked on the phone a week ago i think. Cause he said he was over it until a week ago. And i realized its whn he called me hmm..
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
It's not your fault and it's not his fault either. Things like this happen sometimes. 😢
People with Mercury in Gemini - can struggle with rational/practical thoughts - while dealing with a crisis - cause they have a tendency to overthink the details. And they do have the potential to dabble with a lot of details (though - scattered, cause they can't go deep - while dabbling with so many concepts) - even the ones that are not based on any perceivable evidence.
Posted by NevermoreHis:Posted by TxOgalwhats his venus and pluto (please, add degree)
@neves .. Yeh it was never the same after making this thread ... Hes been acting so strangely and insecure. He was not like that when i first knew him. We were never intimate .. We only casually met twice, no sexual tension or any of that. Im afraid ill have to tell him this again.. Eventhough i made it clear before n he told me he was over it ..until we talked on the phone a week ago i think. Cause he said he was over it until a week ago. And i realized its whn he called me hmm..
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
and what's your venus and pluto? (also add degree, please!)click to expand
Venus in Taurus 23 deg
Pluto in Scorp 15 deg
Mine:
Venus in Aries 6 deg
Pluto in Scorp 16 deg
Posted by nevesSadly your words make so much sense.. And he does have sooo many random thoughts and concepts and I always find myself arguing with him over him making assumptions and acting upon it even when they are totally not true... I am the one with the practical thoughts so we do clash alot of times cause of this..Posted by TxOgalAll things consider - his change in behaviour seems normal. I mean, this is a case of unrequited love - where you're actually struggling to make the rejection as clear as possible. So, I'd take it his feeling for you - are indeed pretty strong, if he's still expressing those feelings - 4 months after you started rejecting him. Such strong feelings of affection - which happened to be unrequited - can take a real tool on someone while facing rejection, which - explains his strange behaviour and his insecurity in relation to you (cause obviously - you crushed his confidence).
@neves .. Yeh it was never the same after making this thread ... Hes been acting so strangely and insecure. He was not like that when i first knew him. We were never intimate .. We only casually met twice, no sexual tension or any of that. Im afraid ill have to tell him this again.. Eventhough i made it clear before n he told me he was over it ..until we talked on the phone a week ago i think. Cause he said he was over it until a week ago. And i realized its whn he called me hmm..
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
It's not your fault and it's not his fault either. Things like this happen sometimes. 😢
People with Mercury in Gemini - can struggle with rational/practical thoughts - while dealing with a crisis - cause they have a tendency to overthink the details. And they do have the potential to dabble with a lot of details (though - scattered, cause they can't go deep - while dabbling with so many concepts) - even the ones that are not based on any perceivable evidence.
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Posted by NevermoreOh no .. I dont mind at all ofcourse .. Mm do u think i should tell him its the stars? I think he doesnt even understand himself being that way around mePosted by TxOgalHmm, only 6 degree away. Of his venus opposite your pluto. Sorry to asked all of these astrology things (since there's more to it of curiousity).Posted by NevermoreHis:Posted by TxOgalwhats his venus and pluto (please, add degree)
@neves .. Yeh it was never the same after making this thread ... Hes been acting so strangely and insecure. He was not like that when i first knew him. We were never intimate .. We only casually met twice, no sexual tension or any of that. Im afraid ill have to tell him this again.. Eventhough i made it clear before n he told me he was over it ..until we talked on the phone a week ago i think. Cause he said he was over it until a week ago. And i realized its whn he called me hmm..
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
and what's your venus and pluto? (also add degree, please!)
Venus in Taurus 23 deg
Pluto in Scorp 15 deg
Mine:
Venus in Aries 6 deg
Pluto in Scorp 16 deg
But this is one part of the attraction of his venus sign.click to expand
Posted by NevermoreOk ill message u our chartsPosted by TxOgalYou can show me those chart if you wanted to, I would like to see where his strong attraction coming from.Posted by NevermoreOh no .. I dont mind at all ofcourse .. Mm do u think i should tell him its the stars? I think he doesnt even understand himself being that way around mePosted by TxOgalHmm, only 6 degree away. Of his venus opposite your pluto. Sorry to asked all of these astrology things (since there's more to it of curiousity).Posted by NevermoreHis:Posted by TxOgalwhats his venus and pluto (please, add degree)
@neves .. Yeh it was never the same after making this thread ... Hes been acting so strangely and insecure. He was not like that when i first knew him. We were never intimate .. We only casually met twice, no sexual tension or any of that. Im afraid ill have to tell him this again.. Eventhough i made it clear before n he told me he was over it ..until we talked on the phone a week ago i think. Cause he said he was over it until a week ago. And i realized its whn he called me hmm..
I wish i were attracted to him even but im not at all 😢 he even told me tht he knows he has no chance
Oh n his mercury is in gemini
and what's your venus and pluto? (also add degree, please!)
Venus in Taurus 23 deg
Pluto in Scorp 15 deg
Mine:
Venus in Aries 6 deg
Pluto in Scorp 16 deg
But this is one part of the attraction of his venus sign.
But remember, it's always the best thing to tell him that you're not interested, no matter what. 😢
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Mm i told him this 3 months ago. He understands. He says he doesnt know why he keeps telling me eventhough hes 100% sure its not mutual ..
@Nevermore .. I'd never want to be in his shoes 😢 I really liked him as a friend, hes someone i can trust and I rarely find people like that. He's very decent too. This is why I'm so in struggle...
I wonder how one places a picture in a message? :/ no clue
I wonder how one places a picture in a message? :/ no clue
Update: I think I lost him 😢
Posted by pakmaiI feel you it's sad really.... But I believe he'll be the one making this decision when he feels not needed
I'm having the same problem. I've talked to this Gemini about another guy I love, I've been on dates with other guys, I've even ran into him in public on a date.. He won't let up and it's frustrating cause we've never even established anything further than friendship but he wants to date me so badly.
I almost feel like the only thing I can do to get it thru to him is to not be his friend at all.. But like you, he's a great friend and guy but I just don't like in that way.
Update: so hes been trying to call me but i was very busy, so he texted that he realized it wont work out n how he sees its a good friendship that he doesnt want to lose... I told him its the last time then to go through such issue.
And now hes asking me out cause ill be traveling out of the country soon. So far our timings are not working out, cause our work days clash (which i am glad for cause.jm not ready to see him face to face now.. Will be so embarrassing)
And now hes asking me out cause ill be traveling out of the country soon. So far our timings are not working out, cause our work days clash (which i am glad for cause.jm not ready to see him face to face now.. Will be so embarrassing)
Posted by bubbythewhale1I think you have to force him out of his way of thinking... If he treats u like in a relatiinship then thats wht he thinks... Id try to be clear again with him about it
My male Gemini friend from college told me that you have to trick them into relationships (lol what?!) but thinking back it seemed like he was trying to trick me into one, everyone thought that we dated and I was just sitting there confused like "this is just my friend?? What are yall talking about??"
Recent Gemini friend started off platonic, but over time he wanted more like he'd push the envelope a little more each time I saw him. His reason: because he lives in the moment, my guess is you have to put your foot down, he's one of my closet friends but at the same time we act like were in a semi relationship. Im not really attracted to him in a relationship way bc deep down I feel like I couldn't trust him as a bf. I told him yesterday that we should slow down, he didn't take me serious (played along but you could hear a sarcastic tone) but that made me want to prove him wrong even more (one of the most confusing "friendships" ive had)
Ok I dont think this can even work as friendship...
Our conversations suck .. He makes me mad with his irrational words ..
Our conversations suck .. He makes me mad with his irrational words ..
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