How to tell that a Gem Guy is genuinely interested

Soooo I've been seeing this gemini guy for the past 7 monthes. we get along great but at 6 monthes he kinda realized we were STILL hot for eachother and that feelings could get more serious for both of us because we were still interested. he said he was scared at what could happen if we let it progress and we should just stop hooking up, we had allll this intense drama, like him battling me off as if i hurt him or something. And I was just left in confusion, because the whole time i was being playful etc. He was afraid of us becomeing attached to eachother again. Then I was like look, I tried for a whole month to show that I'm sorry I ditched u (which i did because I have like relationship ADD), and i see you dont care so you can just do ur thing. we can start over but now in a way so we can trust eachother.

and now he's back and we talk a lot and things are good. he said he didnt wantme to be so close (like with his friends/family as if i were his girl) anymore but nowww after i gave it some time he's getting closer and closer and now were back and happy he just "doesn't want a relationship". i think he just doesnt want the pressure of one.... and thats fine w/ me because id never want to force a relationship. but now i'm back aroudn his family adn he wants to bring me out with his friends again after he swore that idea off... its so crazy and inconsistant with what he said before... when he said he didnt want that anymore i completely freaked out and took him seriously! but now those words proved to be complete bulllll because he's bringing me around and claiming me like no other, and wanting to chill and talk all the time just like before. so cray haha.

i noticed what he had said does not match his actions at allll... he was always drawn to me and me drawn to him at a point where we have a hard time resisting eachother. and he said he didnt want it to be the way it was before and now it is, im just unsure because he pulled all this "i dont want you" stuff that drove me into a frenzyyy for like a couple weeks to a month and then in actuality he never went anywhere he drives me nuts but it keeps me interested even tho its psychotic lol.

so if his actions dont match his words, what can i look out for to know he is genuinely interested?

Gems are pretty understanding and forgiving people and they always come back when they like you. They don't like to be around people that they don't like at all... it's actually torture. But the idea of space and freedom is paramount.

Guys thank you so much for your responses. I COMPETELY agree withyou 100% on your points because I find him to be just as you say. I let it go and we have been super happy together and he has literally been the best and so good to me. I'm very grateful to have him 🙂 He treats me very well and always wants to spend time with me (weve been pretty much inseperable, at his choice)and is super affectionate. Never found anyone to have treated me better. Were celebrating Valentines day together today 🙂

reallllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyy. howwwwwwwwwwwwwws that tyyyyyyyyyyyping cominnnnnnnnng alonnnnnnnnnng idont blame him tho if hes smart he'll brek this off

UPDATE.ok 3 months later. we were sooo good. like perfect! just as he was going to take the relationship to the next level...

i started having drama and got stressed. NOTHING to do with him. but i was looking for his support. and was a mess. i was going thru so much. he wanted to be there for me, but over time, and patience, and trying to tell me.... he but couldnt handle doing it. it started to make him angry. i know he couldnt help it. he said he cares about me but wants space

and now, he's doing this again:/.

what does this happen, every few months?
hes afraid of me becoming unhappy again.

he gets so insecure.

Nobody likes someone without a grip on his/her life. Your bf is not there for you to discharge your stress upon him. He's not your dad, your boss or your psychiatrist, but someone looking for the best partner he could get!

He would offer you advice, but only if he has the experience to do so. He would be supportive, but only if there is something to support (like YOUR solution to your problems, the right attitude to your problems, etc). Deal with your mess by yourself for a few hours/days till you reach a conclusion/ come up with a few solutions and THEN let your bf know.

Personal experience: I have been dating a Gemini during one of the most stressful times at work, when a lot of re-structuring was announced and my Aries boss took his frustration on me. I talked to my Gem about all these in detail, but without freaking out. I presented it as an exciting challenge that I was looking forward to master! He was very happy to listen, probably because he liked my attitude. That is why I recommend it to you.

I apologize for saying this...so basically she should just play jekyll & hyde back with? like play pretend?...or like do to him exactly what he did to you, but worse to let him know the consequences of his actions...The only way to stop him from that is to hurt him, so that he can experience the feeling. Tell him whatever is on your mind, whether it be good or bad and then just leave no trace of you....sorry im in a happy place right now, in a smiley way...lol...

I like a Gemini guy but I am unsure about if he even likes me back. I met him on 2/14/14! He does invite me to see his band play. He just seems so busy with work ad band related stuff. I don't want to seem clingy or pushy. Also when I message him he rarely messages back. Should I just be his friend for now and then see where it goes? If it even does evolve into something I don't know.

BTW: I am a Pisces.

Posted by starwitch4
I like a Gemini guy but I am unsure about if he even likes me back. I met him on 2/14/14! He does invite me to see his band play. He just seems so busy with work ad band related stuff. I don't want to seem clingy or pushy. Also when I message him he rarely messages back. Should I just be his friend for now and then see where it goes? If it even does evolve into something I don't know.

BTW: I am a Pisces.

The thing with Gemini is if they like you, they will spend time with you. If that is the case with the guy, then rest assured. 🙂