I don't relate to gemini traits per se.

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by BigEyesBigLies on Tuesday, July 14, 2015 and has 13 replies.
How am I flighty in relationships when it's always the opposite?
It really seems like I'm the crazy possessive one and my partner is too casual. My venus is also in gemini so what's the big deal?
Is astrology just bullshit?
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
How am I flighty in relationships when it's always the opposite?
It really seems like I'm the crazy possessive one and my partner is too casual. My venus is also in gemini so what's the big deal?
Is astrology just bullshit?

My ex Gem has Venus Gem as well and he was possessive...def not the "typical" Gem. what is the rest of your chart?
cancer rising, taurus moon and aries mars.
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
cancer rising, taurus moon and aries mars.


Well you do have a well balanced chart of air, earth, water and fire...so this kinda influences the air to be more passionate/caring then aloof. You not feeling like a "typical" gem makes sense you prob identify more with Taurus Winking
As a gemini it seems like my love life is more or less tragic and not from my own doing just the circumstances the universe has thrown at me.
Not ideal examples but Marilyn Monroe and Lana Del Rey seem to be these tragic love goddesses, I relate for their desire for true love.
Yes it's very depressing to here that I, a gemini is probably at fault for my relationships because I am too fickle or slutty. It makes me consider either astrology is bs or I'm too evolved for that :I
Posted by TokerX
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
As a gemini it seems like my love life is more or less tragic and not from my own doing just the circumstances the universe has thrown at me.
Not ideal examples but Marilyn Monroe and Lana Del Rey seem to be these tragic love goddesses, I relate for their desire for true love.
Yes it's very depressing to here that I, a gemini is probably at fault for my relationships because I am too fickle or slutty. It makes me consider either astrology is bs or I'm too evolved for that :I

Or maybe it is bc Gemini won't settle for anything less than perfection?
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LOL ok good luck with the whole finding "perfection" thing...
Posted by TokerX
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
As a gemini it seems like my love life is more or less tragic and not from my own doing just the circumstances the universe has thrown at me.
Not ideal examples but Marilyn Monroe and Lana Del Rey seem to be these tragic love goddesses, I relate for their desire for true love.
Yes it's very depressing to here that I, a gemini is probably at fault for my relationships because I am too fickle or slutty. It makes me consider either astrology is bs or I'm too evolved for that :I

Or maybe it is bc Gemini won't settle for anything less than perfection?
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Nah I don't care about perfection.
I can see the character flaws but i learn to love them.
I'll even tell someone that I love that one thing they hate about themselves because that's what makes them unique.
As corny as it sounds, I like to thing Gemini's are tolerant beings and when your strive for perfection you are close minded.
Perfection is a set to your own individual ideals.
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
Posted by TokerX
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
As a gemini it seems like my love life is more or less tragic and not from my own doing just the circumstances the universe has thrown at me.
Not ideal examples but Marilyn Monroe and Lana Del Rey seem to be these tragic love goddesses, I relate for their desire for true love.
Yes it's very depressing to here that I, a gemini is probably at fault for my relationships because I am too fickle or slutty. It makes me consider either astrology is bs or I'm too evolved for that :I

Or maybe it is bc Gemini won't settle for anything less than perfection?

Nah I don't care about perfection.
I can see the character flaws but i learn to love them.
I'll even tell someone that I love that one thing they hate about themselves because that's what makes them unique.
As corny as it sounds, I like to thing Gemini's are tolerant beings and when your strive for perfection you are close minded.
Perfection is a set to your own individual ideals.
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True^^ Gems like and appreciate what is different, which I
I think we just want people to love themselves so they can love us more haha
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
I think we just want people to love themselves so they can love us more haha

You guys just want what everyone else wants, but only you can have Tongue
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Posted by Lust
Ooo,, is that so? 😉

yep. it's so Winking.

um, you know i like to know a little about you. i see you here on the gem board from time to time. i just sneak in your profile just to be nosy Tongue. just out of curiosity, are you a male or female? and what is your sign?
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Hey AirMan! I'm pretty sure Lust is a female Libra dating a Gemini. That is what I have gathered anyway from her postings. Oh, and she can be quite, how do you say...bitchy lol.
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
Posted by TokerX
Posted by BigEyesBigLies
As a gemini it seems like my love life is more or less tragic and not from my own doing just the circumstances the universe has thrown at me.
Not ideal examples but Marilyn Monroe and Lana Del Rey seem to be these tragic love goddesses, I relate for their desire for true love.
Yes it's very depressing to here that I, a gemini is probably at fault for my relationships because I am too fickle or slutty. It makes me consider either astrology is bs or I'm too evolved for that :I

Or maybe it is bc Gemini won't settle for anything less than perfection?

Nah I don't care about perfection.
I can see the character flaws but i learn to love them.
I'll even tell someone that I love that one thing they hate about themselves because that's what makes them unique.
As corny as it sounds, I like to thing Gemini's are tolerant beings and when your strive for perfection you are close minded.
Perfection is a set to your own individual ideals.
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I don't want someone to be perfect because I know I am sure as hell not perfect. I don't like arrogance. If someone acts like they are too good then they probably are and I will never live up to their expectations as there is no such thing.
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Posted by AirMan
Posted by Lust
Ooo,, is that so? 😉

yep. it's so Winking.

um, you know i like to know a little about you. i see you here on the gem board from time to time. i just sneak in your profile just to be nosy Tongue. just out of curiosity, are you a male or female? and what is your sign?

Hey AirMan! I'm pretty sure Lust is a female Libra dating a Gemini. That is what I have gathered anyway from her postings. Oh, and she can be quite, how do you say...bitchy lol.


HI 👋 so we meet again smile.

ahhh so she's a female libra with a gemini man i see!!! i'd probably gather those facts had i did what she directed me to but in a physical since i was lazy Tongue.
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Haha yes Airman you know I got the Gems backs Winking , and I only know cuz she keeps sticking her nose in my business lol