I met a Gemini??oh goody.lol

My home girl (whom is a Gemini herself might I add) introduced us. She insisted that he would be a good match, she dates his friend. Anyway, we went to the gems house about 2 weeks ago. It was me, gem, my friend and her guy, and their other friend, and our other friend. So it was 6 of us altogether.

We played UNO.lol. He wound up making a joke calling me his baby-mama(bm) and saying we are having twins. I laughed and played along, everyone was laughing. The night went well, and ended with him hugging me, but not asking for my number so I assumed he was just being nice and didn't like me. My friend thought the opposite, and apparently she was right. She insisted he liked me but didn't want to act so soon without knowing if it was mutual.
So we went again this past weekend, and this time he and I sat in a chair together, and he was wrapping his arm around me, and hugging me and stuff, a lot more affectionate this time. I was shocked, and happy. At the end of the night he asked me for my number in the cutest way he goes —Can I check on my twins— while pulling out his phone.lol.
He texted the next day, and the conversation is not dry but casual and it's hard to tell where his head is at. I??ve been playing it cool, following his lead. He still calls me BM, so I call him BD.lol. He's so cute, especially his shy demeanor, I think it's cute, a bit confusing??_ but still cute.

I want to know what to expect from a Gemini male when they like you, and what do they like from a woman?

Posted by duchessedenemours
Keep up the fun/light interaction, be yourself and enjoy it, and let him come to you. The friendship thing is key. Geminis want that "in between" friendship and lovers. If you aren't demanding and just let him slowly figure out that he wants you on his own, he will be yours. 🙂 Geminis are sensitive beneath the surface though, so even if they treat you lightly, doesn't mean they are feeling lightly. That's just how they operate.

That's the only generalized advice I can give. Hope it helps!

Thanks! It does help. I will keep it in mind 🙂

Posted by CluelessCancer
You meet alot of different men dont' you.

Yes, I do. That sort of thing tends to happen when you??re young, pretty, established, with no kids, and not married.

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Posted by pinklibra

Posted by CluelessCancer
You meet alot of different men dont' you.

Yes, I do. That sort of thing tends to happen when you??re young, pretty, established, with no kids, and not married.

Sorry i'm not impressed. You seem to be boy crazy. Don't you have other hobbies?

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Sorry you got the impression I was —trying?? to impress you. You asked a question so I answered it. I can careless if you??re impressed or not.
And yes I do have other hobbies, I love to sing, and I like to write novels.
I??ve never published my novels though. I'm going out for The Voice next month, and it's my second time going. I got picked last year but I didn't make it to live performance sadly, but it won't stop me from trying this year 🙂 So yea, I would say I do have other hobbies. I just don't post them.

@CG LOL. Like how I spun that huh? Lol. I just hate when people try to make slyy comments about my dating life. Especially when I have no ring or responsibility other than myself. I work hard, and take care of myself, I don't see a problem with me meeting new people. I meet all kinds of people, but I love to post about my little crushes when I have them because DXP give variety of outlooks. It's like when you see a cute guy in class and you want to run and tell your girls all the little things you??ve gathered about him so far. It's fun. Dxp, is kind of like that.lol. Even with the little slyy remarks from some.
Anyway, Love huh? I??d say this is the 2nd Gem guy I??ve ran into in my life, the first is still a very good friend, he wasn't shy like this one though. He moves at his own pace, and I do find that giving him space did our friendship very good. This new one is a little different, same sense of humor as the first one but not as direct. Over all I like this sign. They are fun and free spirited.

Stay playful and keep up the interesting conversations. Mental stimulation is the key 😉

It's sort of hard to have a stimulating conversation through text. I get the feeling he's not really a phone person. I'm told he's busy a lot because he plays college basketball and always in the gym if not at a game. And we haven't had much conversation in person really because both times we've seen each other have been amongst friends. So we've kept things light, with hugs, and cute flirty jokes between us. So I don't know. He just got my number on Saturday so I may be jumping the gun like always lol.

I have a theory that if when you give a guy your number if he text you first instead of calling, and it's been established that both of you are just chilling at home, then there's pretty much a 90% chance he doesn't like to talk on the phone. That's just my opinion though.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
You meet alot of different men dont' you.

Yes, I do. That sort of thing tends to happen when you??re young, pretty, established, with no kids, and not married.

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Tell it! :-)

Posted by pinklibra
@CG LOL. Like how I spun that huh? Lol. I just hate when people try to make slyy comments about my dating life. Especially when I have no ring or responsibility other than myself. I work hard, and take care of myself, I don't see a problem with me meeting new people. I meet all kinds of people, but I love to post about my little crushes when I have them because DXP give variety of outlooks. It's like when you see a cute guy in class and you want to run and tell your girls all the little things you??ve gathered about him so far. It's fun. Dxp, is kind of like that.lol. Even with the little slyy remarks from some.
Anyway, Love huh? I??d say this is the 2nd Gem guy I??ve ran into in my life, the first is still a very good friend, he wasn't shy like this one though. He moves at his own pace, and I do find that giving him space did our friendship very good. This new one is a little different, same sense of humor as the first one but not as direct. Over all I like this sign. They are fun and free spirited.

Nothing wrong with what you're doing--have fun and never mind those who are obviously jealous and wish they were getting the attention you're getting. Get it girl!

@CG When I see a guy I think is cute, I steal small gazes at him to make sure I like his features. Once I'm sure I find him attractive I turn on my charm, I may come off cool and flirty and as you stated above??_ —witty?? but on the inside I'm nervous, lol. I crack a lot of jokes to calm my nerve. So that's why it's easier for me to mesh well with people that look at life from a fun and adventurous point of view, instead of the ones that take life so SERIOUSLY. Ugh, so boring. I will pick on the guy I like, especially if I know he likes me back. It normally works on just about every guy I??ve had a crush on, they think it's cute.lol. I don't play on their man-hood though, and I don't try to belittle them. I crack schoolhouse jokes like I may say they have a bighead (because I know I have a bighead) and they will start cracking on my head, which will make us both laugh. Then before you know it we are joking together and friendship is establishing. Butterflies??_. I don't get those the minute I see a cute guy because he has to have a personality to match his looks. I??ve had some of the finest guys turn me COMPLETELY off, and some of the non-lookers win me over; just off of personality alone.

@gemstar, thanks! Lol.

Oh sorry about that. And no, we haven't spoken on the phone. But we've talked everyday via text since he's gotten my number. Today we texted from 10am-2pm. It was one big flirting session though.lol. I get nervous about what I flirt about with guys tho, because I don't want him to think I'm serious or easy. He's a gem so I'm hoping he knows joking when he see's it. He was saying how he's a beast and I was saying beauty tamed the beast.lol. Then he challenged me like you can't tame me, I said well you wont know unless I do. I told him he talks a lot of junk, he said he's gonna keep talking junk until I shut him up.lol

If ur Venus is in Scorpio, be careful and try to keep it sane. Otherwise, you're good to go! Gem + Standard Libras are a great match.

@MUNCHKIN My Venus is in Leo... 🙂