I really need some insight on this..
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by kiwiigirl on Monday, September 13, 2010 and has 4 replies.
I just want to say this may be long, and I'm great full to anyone who reads this and gives their input.
Let's start this off saying I'm a Libra female. Almost 4 years ago I graduated high school, but had to go into continuing education because I needed some courses to fully graduate. I was 17 at the time, and my parents were very disappointed that I didn't finish high school and go into college right away. So for a punishment, everyday after continuing education, my parents made me take the bus to their office to work. One of their employees got sent to pick me up from the bus stop everyday, who I would later find out is the Gemini who is the center of my world at this moment. He was 4 years older than me, but we got along really well. We would have random conversations about nothing and everything, we would even text each other when not at work for hourssssss at a time.
When I was 18 years old, my parents went to India for 3 weeks, and my brother was going to university out of town.. I did not have my driving license yet and it was winter time and we were texting. He asked me where I was.. I told him the grocery store, he asked me how I got there.. I told him the bus.. and he said I'm coming to get you. He came and picked me up from the grocery store and told me I was crazy doing the grocery on my own.. he then told me I reminded him of his ex-girlfriends little sister (he dated his ex for 4 years, his first love, and was very close to the family)..
I had always been overweight my whole life, but when I was 19 I started gaining a lot of weight.. due to depression, food was like my best friend. I started talking to him less, and I started gaining weight, and weighed the most I ever had at age 20. ( I wasn't gaining weight because I wasn't talking to him, it ws related to other things)..
At age 20 I had enough of being overweight and I lost 60 lbs, and moved away for school.. I had a total life change. That's when he came back into my life but in a different way. He seemed more interested in me.. started calling me sweety,starting paying more attention to me in that way.
We're constantly texting each other, and I finally got the courage to ask him to hang out outside my parents work. He said yes.
but what I don't get WHY he is HOT with me sometimes.. and so damn COLD with me at other times.. he never used to be like this.. sometimes he'll act like we're the best of friends.. then he'll turn around and say i'm such a child, i need to gr
Let's start this off saying I'm a Libra female. Almost 4 years ago I graduated high school, but had to go into continuing education because I needed some courses to fully graduate. I was 17 at the time, and my parents were very disappointed that I didn't finish high school and go into college right away. So for a punishment, everyday after continuing education, my parents made me take the bus to their office to work. One of their employees got sent to pick me up from the bus stop everyday, who I would later find out is the Gemini who is the center of my world at this moment. He was 4 years older than me, but we got along really well. We would have random conversations about nothing and everything, we would even text each other when not at work for hourssssss at a time.
When I was 18 years old, my parents went to India for 3 weeks, and my brother was going to university out of town.. I did not have my driving license yet and it was winter time and we were texting. He asked me where I was.. I told him the grocery store, he asked me how I got there.. I told him the bus.. and he said I'm coming to get you. He came and picked me up from the grocery store and told me I was crazy doing the grocery on my own.. he then told me I reminded him of his ex-girlfriends little sister (he dated his ex for 4 years, his first love, and was very close to the family)..
I had always been overweight my whole life, but when I was 19 I started gaining a lot of weight.. due to depression, food was like my best friend. I started talking to him less, and I started gaining weight, and weighed the most I ever had at age 20. ( I wasn't gaining weight because I wasn't talking to him, it ws related to other things)..
At age 20 I had enough of being overweight and I lost 60 lbs, and moved away for school.. I had a total life change. That's when he came back into my life but in a different way. He seemed more interested in me.. started calling me sweety,starting paying more attention to me in that way.
We're constantly texting each other, and I finally got the courage to ask him to hang out outside my parents work. He said yes.
but what I don't get WHY he is HOT with me sometimes.. and so damn COLD with me at other times.. he never used to be like this.. sometimes he'll act like we're the best of friends.. then he'll turn around and say i'm such a child, i need to gr
he says I need to grow up.. but then sometimes he talks to me like he wants to jump my bones!..
are gemini's hot and cold when they like someone?? are they scared to reveal their true feelings ???
he is constantly texting me throughout the day.. its like he doesn't want me to go away, but then he gets in one of his moods, i act like i don't care.. then he's nice again.. wtf is this ??
are gemini's hot and cold when they like someone?? are they scared to reveal their true feelings ???
he is constantly texting me throughout the day.. its like he doesn't want me to go away, but then he gets in one of his moods, i act like i don't care.. then he's nice again.. wtf is this ??
Posted by Ccdarling
Yes at first we are. We will get close to you then pull away. It is scary for us. Eventually this should stop although he will always be in need of his personal space. However he will also allow you to have your personal space without interfering.
Although I must add one stipulation to this, once we do fall for you prepare for a few jealousy episodes. We will only be this way until we realize you are not going anywhere, then we will seldom show any jealousy at all. To the point where you may wonder if we care, but we do we are just holding our jealousy under wraps. This is actually a good way to judge whether or not a Gemini is in love with you, if you start to see some jealousy you are on the right track. Although don't make him jealous on purpose if we catch you doing this it will be goodbye.
OMG, this is so true. When I really don't like someone, I couldn't care less. I even get annoyed when they try to make me feel jealous but I'm not there yet. I get annoyed because I see right through the ploy and get more insulted at being played.
Now, if I like the guy, I do get jealous but also learned to keep that under wraps because it's really highly unattractive especially early on. Learned that the hard way though, LOL. But if I like him and he makes me jealous on purpose, I feel hurt. So I take the high road and just... hey, if you want to be with her, if you enjoy her company more.. go ahead. Toodledoo.
So I take the high road and just... hey, if you want to be with her, if you enjoy her company more.. go ahead. Toodledoo.
LOL....spoken from a true GEM!!!...Too funny but very true!!!
LOL....spoken from a true GEM!!!...Too funny but very true!!!
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