IF ROSES ARE RED, ARE GEMINIS FICKLE?

Why on earth would this sign break up with you and take you right back after? wtf... but im not sure if its his leo moon leo venus or leo mars that causes him to behave in such a child like manner. I think leo and gemini in the charts is an intelligent mix but its so controversial. because gemini is not loyal nor really that deep in emotions but leo on the other hand is. ive dated a leo because and my gemini is somewhat like my leo so damn into himself. but then his gemini side allows him to be into me. but then hes always tryna like test me and i will pass fail. If you tell me were done my cancer is going to react by accepting it but my aries is going to tell you who you are first. so should i be on the leo board or is this so gemini?

Posted by geminicandIe
Lol, you are dating a male version of ME!

I got gem sun, rising and mercury.
Leo moon and mars.

Yeah, brace yourself for childish games and tests. We are difficult but never a dull moment with us😉

finally, whoosh i thought it was just him or me i was beginning to become embarrassed. how the hell do i deal though? your suppose to now enlighten me with some short cuts or secrets.

Posted by thebiggcarlos12345678910
yeah GC. i think you just put your foot in your mouth this time. so now she's looking for some enlightments from you. since you're the gemini god. 😄

no shes the gemini sun moon leo god

Posted by scribble
He doesn't know if it's really "love" so he did it to see if he would miss you. Just a guess.

Were suppose to be passed this stage

Im 20 hes 22 personally i like my men older because i know that around this age its all about money f# $ % b^&% es.

just to let you know the break ups last like 15 to 20 minutes theres extreme cases where its been hours but its not fluent and thats why im confused.

I'm gemini sun and leo moon. I'm extremely loyal with my friends and family. I've been married for 15 years to an awesome scorpio man.
I will go to the nth degree to help you, comfort you, and be there when you need me.

The only time I cut someone loose is when they play mind games as passive - aggressive and treat me with a total lack of respect. I can forgive but
if you can't rise above the petty nonsense of games etc. , I'm moving on. Too old to deal with that crap anymore. Had this happen in the past year with someone I truly loved and admired as a mentor. However, he played the passive -aggressive stuff and refused to acknowledge my marriage. If you intentionally disrespect my marriage, you intentionally disrespect me; and good bye.

Aging isn't always fun, however, it does teach you many things. One is that throughout the years, you know who are your true friends and your true family.
And more isn't always better. Quality for me outweighs quantity every time.

Posted by Geminivixenn
whoa.. Geminis are extremely loyal actually. I could potentially break up with a partner and go back. why break up? maybe because they instantly did something to turn me off.. why go back? maybe because they were persistent enough and made me believe they would change.. Who knows, but loyalty is huge on my behalf.

Yeah its something instantly done its one of those impulsive break ups not the one you been thinking about. I treasured this one yesterday because it gives me a chance to tell him about himself, at that point i really dont care how he feels but ill still show him he needs to improve for himself because im trying to do so and i cant be with some one whos gonna break me just to build themselves. I think his base root chakra is damaged, hes emotionally difficult to deal with. when he does get emotional i really cant elaborate on it. Geminis are ;loyal they dont really cut bridges and if they do they dont keep it like that. Ive done grimey things to him before out relationship nwhen we seemed to be in a competition only a man in love would forgive the things ive done and even a man in love can fall out of love with this things ive done. But hes so perverse it seems the more i mess up the more hes attracted=. I remember those days where i use to be perfect not rebellious did everything he said gave him what ever he wanted and he still didnt want me only my body and comfort nothing emotional. What people fail to realise is most people come in a package if you want someone for one thing like their body you might as well find hooker or boops

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Posted by Chachacha
Im 20 hes 22 personally i like my men older because i know that around this age its all about money f# $ % b^&% es.

Yeah uh he's only 22. He is 99% still in his experience phase unless he has a lot of Cancer or Taurus. Sorry to say this but he's exploring his options to figure out what is what. He will not know what he needs/wants.

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he knows hes not a dummy hes very open to their no exploring your options when you live side by side with someone hes a committed person hes just never been so close to the opposite sex on all their levels im pretty sure it freaks him out cause it freaks me out and im that type of person who doesnt let people that close to my heart now he has my heart and i have his thats conflict right there in itself.

Posted by gemini64
I'm gemini sun and leo moon. I'm extremely loyal with my friends and family. I've been married for 15 years to an awesome scorpio man.
I will go to the nth degree to help you, comfort you, and be there when you need me.

The only time I cut someone loose is when they play mind games as passive - aggressive and treat me with a total lack of respect. I can forgive but
if you can't rise above the petty nonsense of games etc. , I'm moving on. Too old to deal with that crap anymore. Had this happen in the past year with someone I truly loved and admired as a mentor. However, he played the passive -aggressive stuff and refused to acknowledge my marriage. If you intentionally disrespect my marriage, you intentionally disrespect me; and good bye.

Aging isn't always fun, however, it does teach you many things. One is that throughout the years, you know who are your true friends and your true family.
And more isn't always better. Quality for me outweighs quantity every time.

Forcing me into submission will get you nothing but mind games and passive aggressiveness. When you break up with one what are you expecting to hear especially when you didnt even want to break up in the first place. I think hes either trying to test me, force me into submission or bored so he does these things.

Sounds like a toxic relationship from BOTH sides!!! I think y'all should break up and work on your own issues by yourselves..... WOW.

Gemini's are the twins remember, we're constantly battling two sides we don't know what we want. If he did take you back it's because he's realized what he's lost. If he's testing you it's probably cos he's insecure and what's to see what you reaction would be.

Posted by Geminivixenn
Continue.. But this one is not for you love. your to young to be settling for less. When you get older and look back, you will either regret it or laugh out loud. When a Gemini gets into a pattern of breaking up with you, it pretty much means it's over and when you really push his limit you will be the one in the dead end. I say you leave him before it gets there. If not it's your business, but don't say I didn't tell you so.

But remember sister, I can also easily dissect a natal chart within minutes. Aspects within seconds. The only reason i find it just as hard as him to leave is because hes so effin focused into music which again is my passion that its so attractive. It could be worse he could be out physically cheating on me and ish. I use to break off the flings we use to have before this relationship because it was less then i desired. I see a change in him drastically. We had a huge emotional conversation 2 days in a row. Its like hes finally lettin me into his darkness which hes explained me what it looks like. I dont think he realizes its part of \being a twin. Ive told him weeks before that he needs to bring them both together in harmony and he he said thats impossible. Im surprised he even believed it. As an aries we dont take anything too seriously in life except our hearts and the hearts of others. And as a person i dont spend too much times with my emotions neither so i make a joke out of it to avoid being hurt in a way i can not recover and he has brought me to that pain and he knows it. Hes told me that i showed him light on top of his really rough upbringing i would never expose. That being said he doesnt even realize that i was light turnt darkness and then brought back into both to be in harmony and a great part of it was him. If i leave him i leave a part of me.

by the way im a crystal child.

Posted by Ardni
Gemini's are the twins remember, we're constantly battling two sides we don't know what we want. If he did take you back it's because he's realized what he's lost. If he's testing you it's probably cos he's insecure and what's to see what you reaction would be.

Yeah he tries to make me cry in order to show sincerity but thats not the rgiht way. Thats the only way he'll know.

I know gem men to be loyal and some gem girls to be unloyal but that depends on the person you involved in too

IF VIOLETS ARE BLUE, HIS BALLS WILL BE TOO!

Posted by Geminivixenn
Continued.. sign of him coming back to me. I will give him signs to come back and chase a bit. If he takes me back I know better to obviously take the relationship more seriously.. What I am trying to say is, take a break from this relationship tell him you want a break and lead it for ONE whole month.. See how fast his other twin comes chasing after you wanting more. You might win him for good in this case without the drama. If you don't want to risk it, then it is what it is.

how do you take a break from somewhere you live?. sure i would love to take a break but to move all my stuff out and the cat? that seems a little dramatic to me. i feel like im not falling into role. i dont have a problem with that but my biggest concern is him talking down to me infront of his friends and talking like its not a relationship and then sayin the opposite. i realized that hes still growing and trying to find himself. i dont put people down anymore unless i feel like thats what they want to hear. if you start attacking me like its my best interest at hand i am going to do the same. we are all connected you dig what im sayin? its gonna hurt you when you hurt someone else. i know he and i are not perfect but thats my goal aand i have a different standards for perfection

Posted by auriqa
IF VIOLETS ARE BLUE, IS THIS TITLE COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT TO THE POST LOLOL

i didnt want my title to be obvious because love seems corny and beautiful to me. it can make you your strongest and weakest so i just make a joke out of it humour lightens the seriousness. as serious as you see my feelings are i look at everything as life or death. while im still alive its all fun and games, the whole point of being young forever. seriousness never got me nothing in live but hurt over and over again when i try my hardest at anything i get hurt it just always seems to back fire but when i just have fun and see things as either a competition or a game it all ends well whether the result is good or bad i enjoyed it.