I'm confused LOL

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by GlamGemini on Sunday, July 11, 2010 and has 4 replies.
I'm a Gemini female n I'm confused.
Okay so there's this Capricorn guy, he's like amazing lol but hes an old crush .. kinda
I bounce back n forth, I like him then I just go "meh" then I go back to liking him n again go "meh" lol
so I'm just wondering it's been long, do I just like him because he's never been officially mine?
I'm like one of those "want what I can't have" Geminis n if I see a guy & he interests me I'll go after him then I get really bored when I actually get him. I've never slept with him or anything, I'm pretty sure he likes me but he is reserved as hell and I guess I find that exciting because he's not an open book and he treats me really differently compared to other girls.. but yeah how come I'm still actually interested in someone LOL? do I just want him because I haven't actually had him yet? lol
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Probably so, especially if he's an old crush, Geminis like new things. But this is kind of a new thing, if u were to get.. get.. with him, but it could get old pretty fast. I say take your time or it really wont work, although its basically up to you especially if hes doing his part,its completely normal to feel that way if you've had similar past circumstances, but just have to let time play itself out, hope you find clarity in this situation though lol.
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I love Capricorns but they are cold hard people and were warm and fuzzy inside.
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GlamGemini, I think you have excellent insights into your own motivations. Sounds like you answered your own question. Wanting what you can't have isn't unusual. Thing is, going doing that path is never gonna make you happy but rather validate the belief that you can't have what you want. Easier said than done but you've got to start wanting the men who want you and seeing the reserved and inaccessible man for what he is: a trap. Also, not getting to know him allows him to be your perfect fantasy. But fantasies don't snuggle up with you in bed at night. Until you really see the mental games you're playing with your heart, it won't allow itself to open up to love. Good luck attracting the love you want and deserve. We all deserve to love and be loved although it's no easy task. We have to change our thought patterns and then we'll start seeing it manifest in the real world. There is some truth in the law of attraction. Whatever we attract is an opportunity to see where were at and what it is we're drawing into our worlds. You're half way there, at least, by seeing the pattern and questioning yourself. Namaste.
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