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Posted by GeminiSparkle
I recently wrote in another thread how deeply a gemini feels and that we try not to show it because it's horrible and makes us feel humiliated, this is how you are feeling, it's very natural for a gemini. When you say you are not good in a relationship it is because you like to act like you don't care and nothing can hurt you, and that is what people see, but deep down Geminis are so frickin sensitive and little things someone says or does hurts so much that we end up lashing out at them, we over think things and want to retaliate. This hurts relationships, but we have an automatic wall that comes up, even when we try to stop it, it just shoots up and we say fuck you I don't care. It's so hard when your heart says one thing, but everything in your mind and body says another thing and you are powerless against it, sometimes I hate my dual personality, but at other times I know it is my saviour.

Posted by GeminiSparkle
AnieshaAries: "I think being seen as vulnerable is Gemini's biggest fear."
You are so right, we find it so hard to do vulnerable, it makes us feel silly and because we sometimes find ourselves outside ourselves looking on, we can even question how stupid we sound while we are saying vulnerable things (when and if we do). That whole Libra thing I know well, first they slight you, you get offended, retaliate a little too harshly, they see you as cold and uncaring and then then mirror you. Only when you try to break down their defenses (because you have vented and are over it within minutes) they hold a grudge and the time and effort you would have to put into humiliating yourself at their feet is just not an option for you, it's an endless cycle.
I don't express myself to friends either, never have, I just sympathize with their problems but never really share mine, not deeply anyway. I don't think there is a way to overcome this, your moon in Gemini is emotions and you will deal with emotions like a Gem. The older you get and the more life experience you have actually makes it worse not better. You end of valuing your integrity far too much to succumb or take shit. Helpless as fuck haha

Posted by Undine
Shame on you all!

Posted by GeminiSparkle
I recently wrote in another thread how deeply a gemini feels and that we try not to show it because it's horrible and makes us feel humiliated, this is how you are feeling, it's very natural for a gemini. When you say you are not good in a relationship it is because you like to act like you don't care and nothing can hurt you, and that is what people see, but deep down Geminis are so frickin sensitive and little things someone says or does hurts so much that we end up lashing out at them, we over think things and want to retaliate. This hurts relationships, but we have an automatic wall that comes up, even when we try to stop it, it just shoots up and we say fuck you I don't care. It's so hard when your heart says one thing, but everything in your mind and body says another thing and you are powerless against it, sometimes I hate my dual personality, but at other times I know it is my saviour.

Posted by GeminiSparkle
Guilty too

AnieshaAries: In relationships I think I try to open up at first, but it's mainly to see what the other person is feeling. And then if it's good to go I'll open up a little more, but if a guy seems indifferent, or throws something up in my face I'll never do it again ever. Also I find that Libra's tend to not want to hear about your issues, it's like you always need to be there for them but they don't actually want to see you being vulnerable, they need you to be strong, but it doen't make for an honest soul to soul relationship, which is what we crave most. I've always wanted to be sure that if I ever "killed" someone (jokes) that my man would stand by me and keep my secret. But deep down you know a Libra never would, they would judge you they would make you fess up, they can make you feel like it's not a team. Signs I find that would are Scorpio men and Leo men, they have your back when they love you.

Posted by Undine
For your fear to be vulnerable in love.

Posted by Whimsy
I sometimes wonder if the fact that I seem indifferent in relationships holds some sort of attraction for guys. I'm pretty sure my partner is convinced that I could leave him much more easily than he could leave me, so maybe it makes "the chase" continue on a daily basis. IDK.

Posted by AnieshaAries

Posted by Whimsy
I sometimes wonder if the fact that I seem indifferent in relationships holds some sort of attraction for guys. I'm pretty sure my partner is convinced that I could leave him much more easily than he could leave me, so maybe it makes "the chase" continue on a daily basis. IDK.

Word because most guys don't want 'easy' so to speak, they'll get complacent then possibly try and look for the next best thing.

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