Im pisces woman, should i stop seeing this gemini

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by rabbitpisces on Monday, September 16, 2013 and has 10 replies.
Hi,
I'm pisces woman and recently i started being friend with gemini guy,i admit it im in awe with everything about him, he is not handsome at all, but i see a lot of quality in him that the more i talked with him the more i'm attracted to him, i read that gemini and pisces could be a disaster combination, and i've been so many bad relationship in past that made me too afraid to fall in love anymore, also im confused a lot with the way he play the card, sometime in one day he could be everywhere, constantly in touch and then suddenly gone, like i'm not even exist
Piscean very intuitive and that's true, but the gemini is a very flirtatious sign so i can't tell anymore whether he attracted to me or this is just the way he friends with anyone
Drama is the least thing i need in life, we pisces when hurt takes really long time to be able stand up with our feet again, i finally moved on from infidel scorpion after two years, and this gemini guy able to bring me back to connect with life and wanting to life the best of it, i want to feel it but in the other hand i'm to afraid making wrong move again
Help me please, what should i do... any gemini guy around that could give me a piece of advice, or anyone who ever dealt with this sign?
details
I can't tell if he flirtatious around since our work makes us hard to see each other, mostly we are chat and skype
details
Sorry for not being clear, yes i guess im way too influenced with everyone negative remark about gemini guy being flirtatious, as far as i can tell he is kind and easily connect with everyone, i don't want taking risk,i'm a coward i know.. too afraid getting hurt,so i need to make sure first if we are in same page or not first before im start to trusting him and willing to give a try
details
this is not helping at all... i just want to know from gemini man point of view or someone who dealt with this sign a lot, how they play their card, but thank you for replying
details
im confused a lot with the way he play the card, sometime in one day he could be everywhere, constantly in touch and then suddenly gone, like i'm not even exist


I guess thats explain the situation i'm having
Posted by alohamora
There is NO
You stated that Pisces are intuitive, then when you described the gem man it's not really a respectable quality at all. Do you get where i'm going here?
click to expand


There is no single post i made about gem isn't respectable :S, you really get me wrong i guess..
Flirtatious isn't a flaw,its character..
sigh... its almost impossible to reasoning here, i'm asking a piece of advice,more to help because i don't understand at all with this guy here,if i could figured it out by myself i wouldn't be here right now,lets just stop i guess, this is going nowhere,this makes me sad even more. Thank you for replying alohamora
details
Posted by Aleese76
RabbitPisces,
First of all, calm down and allow yourself to think. (Deep breath in, now, slow breath out...) Good? Okay!!
I am a fellow Piscean who just found out that I was born under the Aquarius sign, and, my Gem, has captivated my heart also. I look at astrology as a guide, more or less, and not a Biblical way to live by. I've seen opposite signs that astrology say would not make it, last for a very long time.
Many Gems like to take things slowly. They are not based on or move by emotions as we do. They like to think things out and logically before making a decision. I'm totally into my Gem and I told him, but at the same time, I give him his space that he needs to think. I send him a text during the day. He gave me his schedule and usually I know what's going on. If I don't hear from him, I find something else to do to distract myself so I do not get psycho emo on him.
I guess what I'm trying to say is learn your Gem. If you are unsure about something, use your intuition to your advantage. Ask him questions, listen to him, talk to him. If he says one thing and his body language is another, inquire with him.
I hope this helps some!!!


Thank you... this is helpful,i'm glad you understand my frustration here
No, I didn't get you wrong. You said you didn't want to be hurt right? From what? You don't even know yet if he's a flirt. What's he like? Is he quiet? Is he sociable? How did he approach you at first?
click to expand


He is a quiet guy at first sight,but once you get to know him, he talks a lot, very... very sociable, he approach me first, and his attention is overwhelming, and flirt A LOT as well, but then again after few days playing cold, its not like he is ignoring but total lost like im just nobody, i never asked him or make my move because of this, he is so unpredictable and i hate guessing at this moment, whether this is how gem man playing his card or he is not into me, i can't tell at all, you probably don't understand, each people dealing different with their problem, im turned into this super cautious person because i've been hurt way too many times,after 2 years this is the first time i'm attracted to man again, he awaken my dull senses but with this playing hot and cold, im tired and confused
details
Posted by alohamora
Your title is "i'm a pisces woman, should I stop seeing this gemini man"
I asked you for what? Has he been flirting with other gals?
Gemini's worry too and it's not healthy when it's too much.
Unless he gives you a GOOD reason to cut him off, don't overthink/feel things, because then you won't be giving something that maybe good a chance. You have to open up, slowly and with caution. If you gave your best shot then there's no regret.
Don't listen to the noise and what hasn't happened yet.



So you mean one day being nice and flirty,give a lot of attention and then the next day pretend that she is not exist, then after few days suddenly jumped in "being flirty" then depends on mood,if lucky it could be few days before he gone again is what normally gemini man do?? this is what i've been asking from very beginning man and all you do is attacking my insecurities about getting into new relationship Sad
details
Well.. finally have sometime to talked with him again, and we are going to travel together soon, its work related,im so happy talking about the trip after work and planned a lot, he flirted a lot during our talk, in the middle of conversation i asked him when is his last relationship and reply easily "i have gf atm"
i just stand there, shocked and can't believe whatever he said, this very same guy who've been flirting way too many times even planned to do holiday together could easily said that, i lost all of my respect towards him and loathe even, we are talking about sharing beds and many things and he easily said his GF is cool about it,i know he came from different country but still i never found people that open with their relationship allowing her boyfriend traveled with single girl sharing bed and stuff
This is really sad... i guess have quality always attracting wrong people
details
I am a fellow pisces woman who was with a gemini for 8 year.. we even have a son together. The best advice I can tell you is that Geminis make really great friends and the relationship can be smooth as long as the pisces holds interest and can keep up with their endless changing of hobbies and ideas. My ex floated between music, video games, & a random sport. He would go all in on whatever it was that was grabbing his attention at the moment. This did not leave much attention on me. Which as a pisces woman.. we need and long for romantic attention.
The positives to a relationship with them is that do not get easily offend and do not hold grudges. We both could get very angry with each other and then could be over it within the hour. To this day I am still really good friends with my ex. We can even talk about the people we are dating now and have no hard feelings.
As for them being a flirt or disappearing... I wouldnt think to far into it... they naturally get along with everyone and are a mutable sign... it can seem like they are flirting but they just like to be the center of attention and love to learn/ debate with other people. As for not calling or texting he is probably just into some hobby of the moment and will come back around.
details
Posted by chellbell
I am a fellow pisces woman who was with a gemini for 8 year.. we even have a son together. The best advice I can tell you is that Geminis make really great friends and the relationship can be smooth as long as the pisces holds interest and can keep up with their endless changing of hobbies and ideas. My ex floated between music, video games, & a random sport. He would go all in on whatever it was that was grabbing his attention at the moment. This did not leave much attention on me. Which as a pisces woman.. we need and long for romantic attention.
The positives to a relationship with them is that do not get easily offend and do not hold grudges. We both could get very angry with each other and then could be over it within the hour. To this day I am still really good friends with my ex. We can even talk about the people we are dating now and have no hard feelings.


Can't agree no more with your description,its exactly like him, but for me loyalty is above everything, he even hinted that during the holiday whatever happens stay there, and this kind of statements i loathe the most, is it just me or to every piscean, loyalty is on top of everything? he clearly have GF but he can't stop flirt all the time, im glad to know this actually,because im starting to loose my interest towards him, now im start taking distances and he realizes i've been drifting away but he even try harder, this makes me thinking if he is honestly into me regards of his relationship with someone else or its just the game changer he can't take like you said, being the center of attention
but i don't care anymore, we are fish who will start swimming further if the bait offered is not interesting enough anymore i guess
details

Leave Your Feedback

We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.

Home Astrology Comments Forums Search

©1997-2025 dxpnet.com. All Rights Reserved.
Advertising Contact Terms of Use Privacy Policy