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This topic was created in the Gemini forum by JuiCy* on Saturday, May 20, 2006 and has 2 replies.
I thought the guy was perfect! haha .. lol no but i'm having a problem & other peoples opinions would help alot. Ok so me and the scorp have been doing fine up until the last week. He's a work a holic and thats fine, This week & the first week of June are his bizziest weeks of the bizziest months in what he does. Ok with that said now, i understand him being bizzy and comming home from work shot. We speak every day mostly and everynight all the time (actually fall asleep with each other on the phone...awww or eww) whichever you think LOL anyway it's usually i do the morning or afternoon call and he does the night..after he's all done doing what he has to do, shower & all that stuff he calls me, just how it works out all the time. Sometimes it switches but whatever..Ok my problem is for the past 4 days he's been not calling me, so not a big deal i'll call him...& Hes sleeping when i call says he's sorry and i try to make out whatever sleep talk i can from him lol. So today i call him in the afternoon and i had something to tell him, you could tell i was kind of upset...I say exactly "Hey babe it's me, hope your having an good day , when you call me later i have something to talk to you about PLEASE DONT FORGET IT'S IMPORTANT"...NOW still no phone call, and what i had to say was indeed very important. He knew i was not feeling well today sick and that time of the month (sorry guys) lol and usually i get a text, a call or him to see how i am feeling, to see if i'm ok whatever. I really don't know how to react to this, i mean i think he's getting comfortable, just the feeling i get that maybe he feels he doesn't need to do all this? But i just think it's the right thing to do for someone, a simple phone call,text, im anything? and me clearly saying something's important i have to talk to him about. I think i should be mad about this, But i could be over reacting a little? I'm just hoping someone could help me to see something i don't? Or if i'm right to feel this way?...GEMINIS HELP! LOL
UGh don't you just hate that unsure crap???? This kinda thing is hard to give advice on because only you know how far and where ya'll are at. But i'm always suspect of radical change in behavior. lol But you say it's his busiest time and he could be just exhausted. the problem is we are so communicative that we expect simple communication.. and not everyone does. so it could be just that simple.. and if you are calling and it's late and he is all groggy then what do ya do? I hate that unsure shyt. lol are you guys 'together'? i mean established as each others significant other? if so.. then i would be more upset. if not... i never expect that kinda thing... i wish i could be of more help to ya! but.. my last thought to ya is... i'm ALWAYS suspect of unusal behavior. Sad but that means absolutely nothing.

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