In Love With My Gemini BestFriend
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Sjmusic22 on Thursday, March 24, 2016 and has 8 replies.
I made a post a couple of months ago about my friendship with a Gemini... I am a Leo female w/ Virgo Cusp and I met my Gemini friend in August as we go to the same College and live on the same floor of our co-ed dorm. We moderately became best friends as we found we have a lot in common and get alone naturally out of all the rest of our floormates. It was apparent to our floormates that we had great chemistry and they would go to each of us and tell us we should be together. After break, we became tremendously closer hanging out everyday, watching shows together, doing things together and playing around a lot more. In January, I finally told him that I was starting to like him and found that he liked me too. We both agreed that we didn't want to make things awkward and he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship at this time. We continued to get closer after our conversation and would be inseparable.
Sometime after our conversation, we just got extremely busy with school work and talked and saw each other less. I would still try to make time for us to spend even for a little bit but he was immersed in work. It was around the same time a friend came into picture in which I went on a date with him. My Virgo friend and I began dating and it happened so quickly I was still processing it myself. I Did like him but I was dealing with my feelings altogether. He began to come around and I was neglecting to tell my Gemini Bestfriend. I realized then that I liked my bestfriend more than I thought, otherwise I would have openly talked to him about this guy. I valued his opinion and his feelings more than anyone else.
The person I was dating absolutely hated my friendship with my bestfriend and it became the central problem of our relationship. I quickly ended it when my controlling Virgo guy began to go through my text messages and would constantly find something to pick at.
I am now single and frustrated because I've never been able to read my Gemini. He is not one to wear his emotions on his sleeve. We talked about me dating and he said that we are still friends nothing will change. He confided all of these things to my previous roommate in which it came out that she's liked him all this time. It was irritating because she knows my feelings for him. Although I know she isn't his type it bothers me extremely that he has became closer friends with her and talks to her everyday when we all live on the same floor. I know he is friendly so I'm trying not to think too much into it. But we haven't been talking that much other than me telling him Im no longer dating the guy (and that night we fell asleep and slept in the same bed). We don't haven't watched our show lately but he's been watching shows and staying up late with my old roommate. Can you tell how confused I am to know this and I don't really know where his head is at on these things?? It sucks, really.
Any Advice? Thank You!
Sometime after our conversation, we just got extremely busy with school work and talked and saw each other less. I would still try to make time for us to spend even for a little bit but he was immersed in work. It was around the same time a friend came into picture in which I went on a date with him. My Virgo friend and I began dating and it happened so quickly I was still processing it myself. I Did like him but I was dealing with my feelings altogether. He began to come around and I was neglecting to tell my Gemini Bestfriend. I realized then that I liked my bestfriend more than I thought, otherwise I would have openly talked to him about this guy. I valued his opinion and his feelings more than anyone else.
The person I was dating absolutely hated my friendship with my bestfriend and it became the central problem of our relationship. I quickly ended it when my controlling Virgo guy began to go through my text messages and would constantly find something to pick at.
I am now single and frustrated because I've never been able to read my Gemini. He is not one to wear his emotions on his sleeve. We talked about me dating and he said that we are still friends nothing will change. He confided all of these things to my previous roommate in which it came out that she's liked him all this time. It was irritating because she knows my feelings for him. Although I know she isn't his type it bothers me extremely that he has became closer friends with her and talks to her everyday when we all live on the same floor. I know he is friendly so I'm trying not to think too much into it. But we haven't been talking that much other than me telling him Im no longer dating the guy (and that night we fell asleep and slept in the same bed). We don't haven't watched our show lately but he's been watching shows and staying up late with my old roommate. Can you tell how confused I am to know this and I don't really know where his head is at on these things?? It sucks, really.
Any Advice? Thank You!
Oh honey, Been there before...what are his placements?
Posted by Moonbutter
Oh honey, Been there before...what are his placements?
I'm not all too familiar, but I know his birthday is on May 23.
Posted by Sjmusic22Posted by Moonbutter
Oh honey, Been there before...what are his placements?
I'm not all too familiar, but I know his birthday is on May 23.click to expand
How old is he and where was he born?
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Sjmusic22Posted by Moonbutter
Oh honey, Been there before...what are his placements?
I'm not all too familiar, but I know his birthday is on May 23.
How old is he and where was he born?click to expand
He's 19, I am 18. We are both from California
Posted by Sjmusic22Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Sjmusic22Posted by Moonbutter
Oh honey, Been there before...what are his placements?
I'm not all too familiar, but I know his birthday is on May 23.
How old is he and where was he born?
He's 19, I am 18. We are both from Californiaclick to expand
Here is what I got:
Sun-Gem
Moon-Sag
Mercury-Taurus
Venus-Gemini
Mars-Virgo
Oh man, Gem with Sag Moon...ahhhh killer combo. Hmm Venus Gemini is typically a bit flirty if they like you...he doesn't flirt in the way of teasing? Does he do anything that would make you think he may like you? Or say anything?
Here is what I got:
Sun-Gem
Moon-Sag
Mercury-Taurus
Venus-Gemini
Mars-Virgo
Oh man, Gem with Sag Moon...ahhhh killer combo. Hmm Venus Gemini is typically a bit flirty if they like you...he doesn't flirt in the way of teasing? Does he do anything that would make you think he may like you? Or say anything?
We flirt, we laugh together and talk. Its just been kind of different lately like we haven't talked as much as we have before. So I'm really unsure what he feels now and how to read him
Posted by Sjmusic22
Here is what I got:
Sun-Gem
Moon-Sag
Mercury-Taurus
Venus-Gemini
Mars-Virgo
Oh man, Gem with Sag Moon...ahhhh killer combo. Hmm Venus Gemini is typically a bit flirty if they like you...he doesn't flirt in the way of teasing? Does he do anything that would make you think he may like you? Or say anything?
We flirt, we laugh together and talk. Its just been kind of different lately like we haven't talked as much as we have before. So I'm really unsure what he feels now and how to read him
Hmm, maybe he is waiting on you to show him a sign. Next time check out his body language when you are in a group and watch him interact with others...see where his torso is pointed, and his feet. The overall "direction" of his body(below the head) should be facing in your direction if you are next to/near him. Just watch...
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