Is calling a Gem girl out on being hot and cold...

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by FieryAries9108 on Monday, January 9, 2012 and has 4 replies.
Bad? There is this gemini girl who has been continually hot and cold with me, would it be bad to call her out on it? because I heard you guys don't like drama and that you will get mean when drama get too "intense" , I only want to talk to her about it because I want to form more of an understanding between us, Specifically today I went out of my way to ignore her because she was very insulting/ irrationally mean to me on friday, I know you guys are the sign of the twins but it's so confusing..., anyways I ignored her and to my surprise she noticed that I did, she surprised me today and asked if something was bothering me, I was shocked that she even noticed, though I lied straight to her face, she was the one bothering me, I was happy she cared but I was still mad about what happened on Friday so I said I feel like we had a misunderstanding on Friday, and she said that she didn't see it as a big deal, that hurt, I don't know should I try to talk to her about it or should I just play along with her hot and cold moods, but honestly I don't think I can take a lot more of her "cold" moods
Gemini Girls please give me some advice!, I just want her to like me/trust me more...


Here is her chart:



and here is mine:

Posted by Maddy
If you don't tell her how she makes you feel, how do you expect her to treat you well? To her she didn't anything wrong, but to you it did. Just tell her what bothers you cause other wise she's going to keep on doing it if you don't point out her bad behavior.
Stand up for yourself. That's all.



your right, are you sure that I won't offend her, though if i point out, her specific actions that offended me?
Posted by Maddy
You should be honest with her. Tell her in a nice way, she doesn't have to get offended. If she does oh well, don't waste your time.



okay and your right, what do you think about our compatibility based on our charts?
Posted by Maddy
To be honest with you, I'm not really good with charts. Maybe someone else can help you with on this one.


oaky thanks for your advice anyways.

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