Ive been so down ...typical gemini guy

So my gemini boyfriend just disappears !? The last time he text me he told me he was on the plane ! Coming from overseas ! & I haven't heard anything from him since Monday ! No text telling me he made it safe nothing ! I texted him to day on a APP called "KIK" to see if he made it back safe & the message just says Sent ! So I know his phone isn't on or dead one ! Idk ! I really hope this gemini man wasn't just playing around with me for 2 months & decided to reunite with an ex or something ... I hope I'm just overacting & he's busy with family or something buy it just seems like he would atleast reach out to me !! I don't mind given him space but is this typical for a Gemini to just disappear like this or what ? I'm confused .

is this typical for a Gemini to just disappear like this or what ? I'm confused .

It's so normal that we just need to go ahead and suggest a new category called "My Gem guy disappeared."

Haha mine disappeared too

Mine is still hanging by a thread 🙂.

Gem and I had our first argument this Saturday, continued on Sunday. Although he claimed to dislike arguments (ended two previous relationships due to them), they seemed to have an erotic effect on him. He initiated steamy sex after each argument. I've never seen him so turned on!

But no, it wasn't the "make up sex" he was after. Instead, he appeared to use sex as a mean to establish control, to show me who "the boss" is, dirty talk included.

Sex was fun, the arguments quite serious I would say. He said something that made me feel insecure (with implications about how our relationship was progressing) and then failed to reassure me. In fact, he put the blame on me for making things difficult.

I'm quite worried our relationship is going to end in a few weeks time, unless we reach some sort of agreement.

@undine: he seems unstable even for a gem you should be the one breaking up with him....

@beautyandthebul: hun, something like that is the norm for most gems. Txting is a pain in the butt for most gems and hes probably caught up with stuff. Our attention span is short because no matter how old we are, we are kids at heart. Just be patient 🙂

Posted by Undine
Mine is still hanging by a thread 🙂.

Gem and I had our first argument this Saturday, continued on Sunday. Although he claimed to dislike arguments (ended two previous relationships due to them), they seemed to have an erotic effect on him. He initiated steamy sex after each argument. I've never seen him so turned on!

But no, it wasn't the "make up sex" he was after. Instead, he appeared to use sex as a mean to establish control, to show me who "the boss" is, dirty talk included.

Sex was fun, the arguments quite serious I would say. He said something that made me feel insecure (with implications about how our relationship was progressing) and then failed to reassure me. In fact, he put the blame on me for making things difficult.

I'm quite worried our relationship is going to end in a few weeks time, unless we reach some sort of agreement.

I'm sorry to hear this Undine. I don't think it's a good sign that he told you he ended relationships over arguments. Arguments are about airing the grievances and working things out. If you can't work out your issues or you're not emotionally invested enough, that is one thing. But to leave someone over an argument is pretty fucking weak. This guy sounds like a jumper who will run at the first sign of trouble. I do think gemini men can be skiddish this way until they grow up and meet a suitable match.

Well it's never a good sign when a man of any sign disappears but sometimes people go on "vacation mode" and maybe he just wants a bit of freedom in general (not sexual)? Gemini, especially when they are having fun, can get easily distracted. I wouldn't read anything into this because it sounds like he's on vacation. Anyway, that's my take based on the limited info. Just let him play and have fun. What matters more is what he does when he's back and with you. Good luck!

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
So my gemini boyfriend just disappears !? The last time he text me he told me he was on the plane ! Coming from overseas ! & I haven't heard anything from him since Monday ! No text telling me he made it safe nothing ! I texted him to day on a APP called "KIK" to see if he made it back safe & the message just says Sent ! So I know his phone isn't on or dead one ! Idk ! I really hope this gemini man wasn't just playing around with me for 2 months & decided to reunite with an ex or something ... I hope I'm just overacting & he's busy with family or something buy it just seems like he would atleast reach out to me !! I don't mind given him space but is this typical for a Gemini to just disappear like this or what ? I'm confused .

Why are you texting him? That's not a 'texting' moment. If he just came back from overseas you call not text! Common sense.. Taurus's are a bit slow when it comes that.. don't worry bout it, I love Taurus's so I am not trying to be disrespectful in any shape way or form. But, yes.. geminis disappear, we do get distracted easily.. if you want to be with him, kind of act like him, but don't over do it. Just be unpredictable and don't be to easy.. we like easy but then we will get bored easy. Give him his space, trust me when I say he will come back around, but on HIS time. So therefore.. you get back to him on YOUR time and then sit back and watch and see who wins 🙂 nono.. this isn't competition, but we do like challenges, so just go with it 😛 hehe