Ladies, How 2 a Gems Heart?

There this seemingly innocent 26yr cutie in my english class.
She obviously is a Gemini, I just want to know what the best way to grab her attention and win her over.
What do yall like?
Thanks
Taister

Thanks for ur input.

I am new.

I'll try the one liners.

I've noticed that gems are the only ones quick enough for my train of thought, definetly one of my favorite signs.

I'm a female gem. and i'm attracted to hot males.

Define Hot

Like Nice face, Nice body that sort of thing.

Do you have a picture of your self? I'll rate you.

taister, talk to the girl, and get to know her also tell her about yourself.

humor is the right place to start first!

by the look of the dates they are either
A) on their 2nd child or
B) the Gemini did a runner around mid-June 2006 and Taister is still scratching his head trying to figure out what he did wrong.

Catching her attention isnt the hard part.

Keeping it & 'winning her over' is.

Humour, be confident, strike conversation start with a joke, one liner, be silly but serious also, have a laugh & make her smile! Make sure your looking good (physically) and add on some nice cologne 😉 haha.

Dont linger, keep it short and sweet, let her brain absorb your presence and then let the games begin!! wooo lol jokes. But my third sentence, USE IT!

I like men who dressed well. Nice body (slightly muscular for me) 🙂 and have medium length hair on their head. Penetrating eyes *drools* and a nice smile. Also it would really impress me if a guy would make me laugh and have conversations with me about anything. 😛

I like a guy who knows how to dress, too! And I'm into longish or disheveled hair- not short. Also: quirky good looks, good sense of humor, nice deep eyes, well-spoken, odd in some way, mysterious, and warm but not immediately into me. I like a guy who's confident, but not drifting too far into cockiness (although a little cockiness is intriguing because it gets me interested in interacting with him for the purpose of knocking him down a few pegs).

Posted by Whimsy
I like a guy who knows how to dress, too! And I'm into longish or disheveled hair- not short. Also: quirky good looks, good sense of humor, nice deep eyes, well-spoken, odd in some way, mysterious, and warm but not immediately into me. I like a guy who's confident, but not drifting too far into cockiness (although a little cockiness is intriguing because it gets me interested in interacting with him for the purpose of knocking him down a few pegs).

haha longish hair is good too! just don't like the short hair style . must also add mysterious and confident..also able to be accept and be comfortable with my randomness and weirdness. well spoken is good too. 😆 i'm just taking some of the traits that you prefer and adding it to my list. haha i hope it's okay 🙂

"Chickeniness"— I said "c*ckiness", for the record!

mmm yes im also a big fan of muscular guys mmmm yummy! Definately well spoken i'll have to add to my list too! I hate illiterate guys. Or ones who dont know how to spell. The biggest turn off is getting a text from a lingering candidate and all his words are misspelt and its just retarded lol yuck.

Be able to hold a conversation. Dont just let her do all the talking. And definately DONT show tooooo much interest or follow her around. Leave her alone after making your 'first contact' and then see if she comes to you. If she does then I think its safe to say shes NOTICED you.

confident but not arrogant and intelligent,playful with a great sense of humor and someone
who laughs with me and knows how to roll with my style .I like a man whose not worried about
everythng and knows how to relax and chill when he's with me.
I love the medium length hair style s but I have seen a few aries guys who can pull off the
short hair very well,and I like casual dress but real nice dressed if we go out somewhere
elegant,Leo men are great at this,and a guy who cares about his health & his mind.
working out is a great thing too and being a real person with good intentions.

Use nonverbal communication at first.

sozen, I would say that the fact that you don't try to impress Geminis is a turn-on it itself! We kind of EXPECT guys to be interested, so when one isn't giving off that vibe and is just being himself it gives us time to relax and cultivate an interest in HIM.

Not to stuff this thread up but since there are so many gems girls commenting, I have a question since SOZEN's sentence of "The problem comes when the Gemini goes after the guy's attention because of an EGO drive as opposed to genuine affection etc" hit a nerve lol.

So my question is do you think your egotistical gem girls? I hate to admit it, but I am.. and VERY. I cant help it i've always been like this. Yes I can be insecure but overall I always have this air of 'superiority' around me and i've been told by my friends before that "you love yourself too much" LOL. oh well!

Posted by nats
Not to stuff this thread up but since there are so many gems girls commenting, I have a question since SOZEN's sentence of "The problem comes when the Gemini goes after the guy's attention because of an EGO drive as opposed to genuine affection etc" hit a nerve lol.

So my question is do you think your egotistical gem girls? I hate to admit it, but I am.. and VERY. I cant help it i've always been like this. Yes I can be insecure but overall I always have this air of 'superiority' around me and i've been told by my friends before that "you love yourself too much" LOL. oh well!

This is pretty hard to admit, but somewhere inside I DO feel like I'm a little superior. This happens even though I know, intellectually, that I'm no better than anyone else (and much WORSE than lots) and even though I had terrible self-esteem for a lot of my life. My Gemini friends carry themselves like they're just a little more awesome than other people, too. It might be because people's reaction to us throughout our lives is that we're very special and unique, even when we may or may not really believe it ourselves. It rubs off after a while.

Whimsy I think your right. Not to toot my own horn lol but people that have surrounded me all my life LOVE me more so than what I deserve to be loved and kinda 'praise' me LOL sounds shallow I know. I can be a real mean bitch sometimes but people just keep coming back and I dont get why?. My gem friends carry themselves the same and yes like you I do also feel a tad superior than others lol sometimes the way I talk and carry myself goes a bit overboard with this superiority thing and I have to be brought back down and taken off my high horse!

Smart, funny, and basically being themselves .. I like a guy who's being natural and comfortable around me. Looks matter but not as much as personality for me!