Posted by LibradollWhat is his Venus and Mars? What is yours?
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.
Posted by Moonbutter
He's one of those softy Gems... that Cancer Moon ? Seems like he's getting affections for you but just pace your selves otherwise it will burn out before it really started ?
Posted by LibradollDid he plan anything for you guys to do? What do you mean asked to see you?Posted by Moonbutter
He's one of those softy Gems... that Cancer Moon ? Seems like he's getting affections for you but just pace your selves otherwise it will burn out before it really started ?
what do you mean burnout? I don't know how to deal with this gem. seriously I see where the women are confused. He asked to see me again this weekend i told him I could see him friday and saturday in the evening and then nothing for 4 hours. So i told him that somthing came up and this weekend wasn't good...now he's kinda freaking out I think. I don't do the silent treatment good, I find it to be rude and suspicious.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by LibradollDid he plan anything for you guys to do? What do you mean asked to see you?Posted by Moonbutter
He's one of those softy Gems... that Cancer Moon ? Seems like he's getting affections for you but just pace your selves otherwise it will burn out before it really started ?
what do you mean burnout? I don't know how to deal with this gem. seriously I see where the women are confused. He asked to see me again this weekend i told him I could see him friday and saturday in the evening and then nothing for 4 hours. So i told him that somthing came up and this weekend wasn't good...now he's kinda freaking out I think. I don't do the silent treatment good, I find it to be rude and suspicious.click to expand
Posted by Moonbutter
Burn out meaning Gems go hard and then when you think you got them they fly away. Gotta pace... not see them all the time. Create intrigue and take him on a date something fun he will like .
Posted by LibradollOk well he needs to put forth more effort .. woo you, be the man and lead. You need a man with a planPosted by Moonbutter
Burn out meaning Gems go hard and then when you think you got them they fly away. Gotta pace... not see them all the time. Create intrigue and take him on a date something fun he will like .
Ahh so they're tricky like that I see...its hard because its a long distance relationship we live 2 hrs apart. I did buy hin this adorable porcelain bird from an antique shop bc he loves to bird watch. Didn't seem to excited about it but he said he loved it and that he'd put it on his dresser in his room lol thought that was cuteclick to expand
Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.click to expand
Posted by LibradollI feel yah or rather put pressure on the relationship. I think as long you know he's open to a relationship and it can move into bf/gf and you guys are exclusive then no need to rush. The Gemini will bring it up when he's ready but don't wait longer then 5 months.Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.click to expand
Posted by lesenfantterriblesI can see where you would think that, I told him bc he asked and I wasn't going to lie about it.
why did you tell him you were going out with a guy friend? and not just a friend?
of course he is gonna start drilling you with questions! it sounds like you were trying to make him jealous.
4 hours of not responding is not "silent treatment". he could've been at work, hanging with a friend, in a movie, etc etc. claiming "something came up" bc he didnt text you immediately is game playing.
Posted by MoonbutterPerfect thank you. Do you think he wants one now but is afraid to say something without my divorce being finalized?Posted by LibradollI feel yah or rather put pressure on the relationship. I think as long you know he's open to a relationship and it can move into bf/gf and you guys are exclusive then no need to rush. The Gemini will bring it up when he's ready but don't wait longer then 5 months.Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.click to expand
Posted by LibradollSounds like he wants an exclusive fuck buddy. Use him to help you move on from your marriage but don't expect a relationship.Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.click to expand
Posted by LibradollNo it's too messy now... don't expect anything from him until he's emotionally connected to you. I had a long time Gem friend who acted jealous but it meant nothing so don't base off that.Posted by MoonbutterPerfect thank you. Do you think he wants one now but is afraid to say something without my divorce being finalized?Posted by LibradollI feel yah or rather put pressure on the relationship. I think as long you know he's open to a relationship and it can move into bf/gf and you guys are exclusive then no need to rush. The Gemini will bring it up when he's ready but don't wait longer then 5 months.Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterHow do you know when they're emotionally connected and should I just back off and let him process?Posted by LibradollNo it's too messy now... don't expect anything from him until he's emotionally connected to you. I had a long time Gem friend who acted jealous but it meant nothing so don't base off that.Posted by MoonbutterPerfect thank you. Do you think he wants one now but is afraid to say something without my divorce being finalized?Posted by LibradollI feel yah or rather put pressure on the relationship. I think as long you know he's open to a relationship and it can move into bf/gf and you guys are exclusive then no need to rush. The Gemini will bring it up when he's ready but don't wait longer then 5 months.Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneGood ans valid points, think I'll just let this one Gem go.Posted by LibradollSounds like he wants an exclusive fuck buddy. Use him to help you move on from your marriage but don't expect a relationship.Posted by blackphaseI figured if i tokd him i did want a "label" then he would ghost so I thought about it and agree that we should just take it slow and see where it went he's the one that's reacting jealous and possessivePosted by LibradollWhat do you expect if you don't want a relationship anyways? If you don't want a relationship, you are going to get treated the same way by most men.. :/ You want him to treat you like his girlfriend but not have the label of being his girlfriend it sounds like..
Okay met my gem on tinder (I'm currently seperated about to divorce) he's 32 I'm 29. He immediately asked to see me and I agreed, we did sleep together there was jusy something I couldnt say no to him! He asked to come by next day and he stayed the night having to drive back 2 hrs to work the next morning. He said I was different, unique, and that he really liked me. Asked me if I liked him and soending time with him. He spent the whole weekend with me the following week. Come to find out I know his family and they know me. Small world. Anyways, he said he wanted to see where things went. The sex is INTENSE eye contact the entire time. We laugh and just have fun with it. I see where Gems are hott and cold. He referred to me and him as "us" last night and is asking me where am i and what am i doing and if I go out he asks if I'm going out with my gf. Started asking me about my husband more but goes silent for hours..idk if I should continue seeing him as I am getting mixed messages, he said he doesnt want a relationship which I agreed no labels and to go with the flow (especially dealing with a divorce), but he acts different. He lives with friends in a condo in a big city and is well established in his career. I just have a feeling there is someone else or this isnt going to work. My moon sign is cancer he is a sun gemini moon cancer...any insight will help as this is my first Gem.
Tinder is just for hookups. People don't meet their fairytale ending on there. Js.click to expand