Lonely Gemini Female 27
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by lostpanther on Sunday, November 16, 2014 and has 9 replies.
I am a lonely gemini female whose never been lucky in a relationship. Men are attracted to me but they don't want to marry me. These are the ones I date. Other guys who ask me out and want to marry me are usually creepy, ugly, uneducated, or excessively needy. Why can't I find a decent normal average guy?
I hate my complicated nature. I am too intense for my own good. I am selfish but I try to be good. I get moments of high but then I go down so low I wish I was dead. I hate it.
I hate my complicated nature. I am too intense for my own good. I am selfish but I try to be good. I get moments of high but then I go down so low I wish I was dead. I hate it.
I think to attract those better males you should first improve yourself in other areas of life (other than education/work) and show people how you are good at enjoying life, by having lots of fun friends, going out on trips, or having different hobbies, or if you prefer staying at home , just creating an active life at home, cooking, throwing little parties, playing an instrument, or sometimes turning your house into a spa etc
life can be so much fun and I see people around me who are so good at making the most out of their lives even if they are single or 60 years old I get jealous and hate how lazy I am and that I should build a nice life like that instead of wasting it by focusing on boys so much xD
life can be so much fun and I see people around me who are so good at making the most out of their lives even if they are single or 60 years old I get jealous and hate how lazy I am and that I should build a nice life like that instead of wasting it by focusing on boys so much xD
Posted by lostpanther
IOther guys who ask me out and want to marry me are usually creepy, ugly, uneducated, or excessively needy. Why can't I find a decent normal average guy?
Errr....because you spend too much time with the "creepy, ugly, uneducated, or excessively needy". Don't tell me that they want to marry after only one date. Or without getting to know you inside and out. Because it's bulls;t.
I agree... the best thing you can do is love yourself and enjoy this time in your life!
Your free and single...that means that you can do what ever you want go and move where ever you want without having to consider someone else's plans! now is your time to develop yourself as a person. When you start appreciating what a great person you are, and start realizing that you deserve better than creeps you'll meet a decent bloke.
I'm a Gemini sun too and used to feel incredibly lonely in my teens and early twenty's. I didn't love or value myself at all and thus attracted a string of creeps and ass holes with truck loads of baggage. Good character building.
I'm also curious about your ascending and moon sign! do you know what they are? I have Libra ascending which i think makes me a bit up and down too. And I've a Scorpio moon that really does enjoy wallowing from time to time.
Your free and single...that means that you can do what ever you want go and move where ever you want without having to consider someone else's plans! now is your time to develop yourself as a person. When you start appreciating what a great person you are, and start realizing that you deserve better than creeps you'll meet a decent bloke.
I'm a Gemini sun too and used to feel incredibly lonely in my teens and early twenty's. I didn't love or value myself at all and thus attracted a string of creeps and ass holes with truck loads of baggage. Good character building.
I'm also curious about your ascending and moon sign! do you know what they are? I have Libra ascending which i think makes me a bit up and down too. And I've a Scorpio moon that really does enjoy wallowing from time to time.
Posted by lostpanther
I am a lonely gemini female whose never been lucky in a relationship. Men are attracted to me but they don't want to marry me. These are the ones I date. Other guys who ask me out and want to marry me are usually creepy, ugly, uneducated, or excessively needy. Why can't I find a decent normal average guy?
I hate my complicated nature. I am too intense for my own good. I am selfish but I try to be good. I get moments of high but then I go down so low I wish I was dead. I hate it.
You're not the only one. I have a gem friend who gets in relationships, but they never want to marry her, they leave. It's because of her attitude and because she is committed.
Don't let that you down. There's someone for everyone.
Posted by RainDancer88
What's your ascendant and moon sign?
My BFF is a gem sun and she has a similar dilemma at the moment.
I know one with this similar situation,also. She has scorp moon. She can be in a relationship for years, but the men never wants to marry her.
Posted by auriqa
It's because you're coming off as desperate. You're repelling all the "decent normal average guys" with that energy. Work on yourself first, because how is someone going to love you when you don't even love yourself?
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Posted by NoreallynowPosted by lostpanther
I am a lonely gemini female whose never been lucky in a relationship. Men are attracted to me but they don't want to marry me. These are the ones I date. Other guys who ask me out and want to marry me are usually creepy, ugly, uneducated, or excessively needy. Why can't I find a decent normal average guy?
I hate my complicated nature. I am too intense for my own good. I am selfish but I try to be good. I get moments of high but then I go down so low I wish I was dead. I hate it.
You're not the only one. I have a gem friend who gets in relationships, but they never want to marry her, they leave. It's because of her attitude and because she is committed.
Don't let that you down. There's someone for everyone.click to expand
Isn't committed*
lostpanther,
I really dont think it is the "gemini" problem. Also, dont listen to all that crap of us gems not being marriage material. There are men who can completely get your complicated nature and they will like you anyway.I say it from experience. But rememeber our strong point, confidence independence and charm. If you come off needy everyone is going want to keep their distance.Hope you meet the right man soon.
My advise try aquarians.
I really dont think it is the "gemini" problem. Also, dont listen to all that crap of us gems not being marriage material. There are men who can completely get your complicated nature and they will like you anyway.I say it from experience. But rememeber our strong point, confidence independence and charm. If you come off needy everyone is going want to keep their distance.Hope you meet the right man soon.
My advise try aquarians.
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