married Gemini girl in a relationship with a single gem guy

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by NinaGeorgina on Friday, July 28, 2017 and has 10 replies.
My husband who is addicted to cocaine and prostitutes had an agreement with me to stay married until I become a European citizen. Seeing the sufferring I have had day in and out, he encouraged me to find a guy who I can love and who will be faithful with me and this is when I dated online and found my Gem guy who I told the whole truth about my situation.He understands that I have to wait for my papers before I can start processing my divorce.I like him so much and he expressed the same feelings but told me earlier on the relationship that we should take things slowly and he encouraged me to go back to my country and start a single life there than staying here with a toxic husband.We talk everyday and he's always available to help me when things get messy at home.We spend time together in his place almost every weekend and offers me sweet small gifts /flowers every time I am there.Sometimes I am confused if he really likes me or he just feels pity on me knowing my situation or he's afraid of investing too much emotions knowing that I am still married. What do you guys think about this?
Umm perhaps both... what are his placements?
Lol with a guy with that kind of addiction.

Good luck.
 "... encouraged me to go back to my country and start a single life there than staying here with a toxic husband"

Confused

How much longer you have to stay married?
Posted by Moonbutter
Umm perhaps both... what are his placements?
Hello. smile Thanks for the reply.I don't honestly know anything about placements but his birthday is May 21.
Posted by AerialView
Lol with a guy with that kind of addiction.

Good luck.


Yes it has been a head/heartache.I have tried my best to understand and find him help but cocaine addiction is a very big fight an addicted person should be willing to overcome, himself.
Posted by Arielle83
So U picked a drug addict to get a visa?
Hello Arielle83. My husband was a very decent man when I married him and I did not just pick him for visa purposes.I was madly in love with him and it's the same for him. The agreement just happened because he wants me to stay in Europe which is also good because I want to restart my life where it became messy.
Posted by Effervescent
Messy
Hmmmm. Unfortunately. Sad
Posted by Montgomery
 "... encouraged me to go back to my country and start a single life there than staying here with a toxic husband"

Confused

How much longer you have to stay married?
Hello Montgomery. 2 more years Sad
Posted by NinaGeorgina
Posted by AerialView
Lol with a guy with that kind of addiction.

Good luck.


Yes it has been a head/heartache.I have tried my best to understand and find him help but cocaine addiction is a very big fight an addicted person should be willing to overcome, himself.
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That's really nice of you.

All the best.