Married to Gem Man? I need advice !

So I have been dating this Gem man ! We have known each other for 4 years ! I thought 4 years was long enough why not give him a chance ! He has brought up me moving in with him but I went around the question ! It's too fast for me but I also don't want him to think I don't want him . I have twin boys that I have protected with my life so I'm afraid to just let any man around them ! Also change is very scary to me being a Taurus woman ! But I want it & I need it !

Any advice of how I should go about this if he asks me to move in with him again ,when he gets home !?

Also I'm not working anymore. I'm just going to school ! I just don't want him to feel like he has to take care of me & my boys . I've always been very independent so depending on a man is very scary for me . I can tell he wants to do everything for me even cook . But I just don't want this man to stress about having to take care of me & my boys ! ! I could be over analyzing because it's what I do best ! Which is why I need some kind of help or guidance !

Yea I thought It was super fast ! It almost scared me off ! We aren't having sex & I don't really want to yet either ... But when he brings it up again because I know he will I'm just going to tell him we have to wait .. I will have a job again soon my lAst job sucked !

Here's a novel idea: move in with him, let him around your boys, and start depending on him AFTER HE MARRIES YOU. If he really wants to give you "everything", then he'll give you a ring and a commitment, too.