my gem dissapeared when I just started to like him

ok! here is d situation:

There is a Gemini guy who has been really nice to me in d recent 3 months, since when I know him.. he found out lots of programs4us, always called me partying or came with me for my parties. Very cool, social, attractive & clever guy...🙂

On d other hand he was quit shy with me in expressing his feelings, or in really kissing me. Once he started to talk about how nice i am for him but got embarrassed and didnt finish.. and due 2 I just was recovering from my previous relationship I didn make any move towards either...and honestly i was lil bit confused with his inconsistent behavior that several times he called me out & than started postponed those meetings

So @ New Year's Eve, he tried to kiss me but very shy way when we said goodbye but I do not know for what reason I just was not reacting d right way and than he ran away and since than he never calls! He sais it s because he feels low&depressed due to the winter, dark, cold and he is bored with work/life generally as it is not really spinning for him right now...

So I called him, he was friendly, also answers my text msg-s but not like before&himself never calls me...always writes in his messages that he will call me Than once I facebooked chatted him & I wrote him to call me and we can fix a time this week when he comes over for dinner..he answered it sounds good but actually didn t call then...
Before almost always he made d move towards me!!!

I just started to fall into him NOW and I would so much love to kiss him too and he behaves like this... and I do not wonna be clingy or pushy but I want to meet him! We always had so-so much fun when being together!

What do u suggest?

ok...I dated a gem guy for a long time..i dont know what your sign is, but its definitely difficult to handle us in love. we lvoe variety and it takes a gem to understand that lol...
anwyway.. to me it looks like he's not that intersested in you, no matter what his sign is, if a man wants you he will fight 😉...although us gems love playing hard to get and mind games(trust me im a double gem...) I still find myself when really in love at the end of the day call him, so what im trying to say is, if I'm really in love I will call when I say I will, if I don't it means im playing games and am unintersted, we gems are good at that 🙂... he probably doesnt want to get his feelings hurt and thats why he's makin excuses 😉

get YOUR feelings hurt

exactly GF...i think so if a guy wants you he will fight for you...and actually that s why i started to be attracted to him.🙂 He was really active&toughtful to get my interest while me at the beginning was not thinking of him as a "potential" , just i found entertaining2 be him a friend.
Than as time went by, he called me for dates, we met more & more and had much fun, he was always by my side all nights long at each party and we could understand each other perfectly... i became really into him and actually just since he doesn t call i can feel how much I miss him!

So if it s a game from his side, it works well...hehe

I m a cappy and after having an emotionally-terrorizing libra boyfriend I was soo happy that with this guy everything is soo easy and fun...

Ahh...I m in love and it is such a great feeling but I m now again confused that he now became so passive..lost his interest?...mayb...hmmm

Anyway, thanks for d insight GeminiFlirt🙂

ahhh caps and gems always make great friends but usually it gets confused with more and trust me ive seen it get way outta control....for the capricorn 😢

my advice....since youve already fell in the trap...try as hard as you can to get out now because we now how determined you guys can be and hate being turned down (which makes you want it more....and i guess that goes for any sign lol) but run! 😢 sorry

and im afraid that by you running...will make him crawl back.....time and again...but stay strong and dont even reply to a hello or anythingg