My Gemini friend advice

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Kristenxxx
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So I'm an Aquarius. Me and my friend are really close but sometimes I get mixed messages from her. I'll text her and she won't reply. The only time she replies is when she's the one who texts me first. Also there are times where I'll be talking to her and I'll get one word answers and she's kind of rude honestly. But then 5 minutes later she's Chatty Cathy! And if I suggest something and she's not into it it's ALWAYS a no. Which pisses me off because when she suggests doing something that I don't exactly want to do I'll agree to doing it because I know it will make her happy and I try to be fair with my friends so it's not like I'm controlling whatever we do. So I'm just not sure why she acts this way? We have been best friends for years. So I'm used to it but it still pisses me off sometimes. She will act like if it's not her idea it's not a good idea. Which is hurtful to me sometimes when it's something I was looking forward to and/or hoping she would like doing it.
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I have an Aqua sis and Gemini brother. My Aqua sis is always down for anything I ask her.

My Gemini brother is not.. Says no all the time.

After years of this, he started saying, "Well you all never call me. You never include me."

I was stunned. My Aries sister, Aqua sister, and I all looked at each other. Lol We said, "It's because you never want to?"

Now we text/call him more, but he still says no or has some excuse.. Lol I don't know what that boy wants.
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Posted by littlenanobyte
LOL sounds 100% like what my AQUARIUS sister does to me. Except it doesn't bother me, I just think she's a bitch. She will agree to nothing unless it benefits her in some way or another.

Both Gemini and Aquarius excel in communication. Why not just talk to her about it?

TBH, I don't always reply to text messages from people I care about, sometimes. It's nothing personal. I just read it and am busy and forget to reply, or if it requires thought, then I'll read it and think about it and forget to reply.
Except Aguas thinking about themselves and talking about themselves and only care about impression they make on those they are taking to...

Unlike Geminis.
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Posted by jane84
I have an Aqua sis and Gemini brother. My Aqua sis is always down for anything I ask her.

My Gemini brother is not.. Says no all the time.

After years of this, he started saying, "Well you all never call me. You never include me."

I was stunned. My Aries sister, Aqua sister, and I all looked at each other. Lol We said, "It's because you never want to?"

Now we text/call him more, but he still says no or has some excuse.. Lol I don't know what that boy wants.
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Kristenxxx
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Posted by sagsagsag
Uhm, are you sure you're an aquarius? What's your moon sign?

Well all gems i know are super talkative in real life as much as in text.. The one line reply sometimes happen but then came the long text again.. More often than not, it is usually I who do these kinda of things ? I mean why does it even matter? she still replies right?

and they're always excited to try something new too.. but we share common interest.. so dunno about you and her :s
My moon sign is Scorpio. And I have many traits of an Aquarius.

And yeah idk she's not that chatty honestly. Like when she wants to be she is but when I want to have a conversation it's like not happening lol. We have been friends for years though so it's not like we don't have common interests, we do.

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Kristenxxx
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Posted by jane84
I have an Aqua sis and Gemini brother. My Aqua sis is always down for anything I ask her.

My Gemini brother is not.. Says no all the time.

After years of this, he started saying, "Well you all never call me. You never include me."

I was stunned. My Aries sister, Aqua sister, and I all looked at each other. Lol We said, "It's because you never want to?"

Now we text/call him more, but he still says no or has some excuse.. Lol I don't know what that boy wants.

That's exactly my problem! Lol

I'm down for whatever honestly. And she says no to everything. I'll be like do you want to hang out Friday? And she's says no and then texts me later being like um are we hanging out or what? So confusing lol
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Posted by Kristenxxx
Posted by jane84
I have an Aqua sis and Gemini brother. My Aqua sis is always down for anything I ask her.

My Gemini brother is not.. Says no all the time.

After years of this, he started saying, "Well you all never call me. You never include me."

I was stunned. My Aries sister, Aqua sister, and I all looked at each other. Lol We said, "It's because you never want to?"

Now we text/call him more, but he still says no or has some excuse.. Lol I don't know what that boy wants.

That's exactly my problem! Lol

I'm down for whatever honestly. And she says no to everything. I'll be like do you want to hang out Friday? And she's says no and then texts me later being like um are we hanging out or what? So confusing lol

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It's the twins I swear! Lol My brother is the sammmmeee way.