need help figuring out this Gemini woman...!!!

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by crazycoolGEMINIgirl on Saturday, March 21, 2009 and has 10 replies.
Ok, I'm an 18 y.o. Gemini girl and I have a new best friend who I've been hanging out with a lot for about the past 6-9 months...she is 53...and also a Gemini...
We get along great and I love her as a friend...but she kinda gives me these vibes...
Like she'll smile and sorta gaze at me...she always wants me to come over and be around her...and includes me in a lot of things she does...and when I go to her house she has me and her sleep in the same bed and kinda tries to be close to me and lean up against me when we lay down...but she's subtle about it...she'll always say things like oh we have so much in common, and our families are so much alike...like I don't know what to think about this...I hear that Gems will flirt with their friends even sometimes...but what do you guys think? Does it seem like she's hitting on me?
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Oh and she has said on more than one occasion that she doesn't think men are worth anything anymore...hmmm haha
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i think there seems to be alot hints, yes.
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She's latently gay.
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first, ya she seems like she is making moves on you. That should be obvious. Being a gemini female, ya i flirt and sometimes with my girlfriends. BUT they know with out a doubt that i'm not seriously hitting on them. I have 2 girlfriends that when i come to town being that both are single moms, and kids are all in beds, i have slept in their bed with them. we have been friends since high school so for us that is normal and we don't try and get close to each other in bed. Do you have a problem with this or are you comfortable? by your post, you don't sound upset about it, more curious.
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Ok well I guess it would seem pretty obvious by the hints...but you know how Gems can be very wishy washy and misleading sometimes (I know for sure) so it's just very confusing...see she has a son like 7 years older than me, and is about a year older than my mom...(not that it would matter I guess lol) but also, sometimes I can be such a flirt and kinda get infatuated with some friends here and there...and quite honestly I don't know how to feel, I mean I am bisexual, and think she's great to be around, but with all the circumstances and questions I'm just afraid of seeming like the freak or the one that's crushing if I come out and just see how she really feels...it's like so much subtly to me and it's driving me crazy, not necessarily in a good or bad way though lol Do you think maybe I'm just thinking wishfully? I know you guys think it's obvious and all, but it's just all pretty awkward considering my mom and her went to high school together and like everyone knows everyone that we associate with, so I just really want to make sure I got my cards laid out before I jump to any majorly wrong conclusions! thanks =)
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Exactly what emeraldgem said.... What's an 18 year old doing with a 53 year old?!
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If the age factor was a problem I would have mentioned that, my question was concerning whether or not she seemed like she could have a "thing" for me...I see age only as a number, that's my opinion...others can feel however they want.
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...and who said we were TOGETHER anyway? we're friends...as far as I know...
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I'm sure if you're someone who isn't very open-minded or "worldly-experienced" you might find my post weird...but that's ok, I don't find much of anything weird. =)
If someone only wants to make remarks, not answering my question, I'd prefer that you stayed away. Thanks.
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