Need some Gem advice on dating and commitment

Posted by nanobot

Well there is really only one gemini man here anymore, and he is kind of a troll @xkraft


I have been with 2 gemini men (over 8 years of my life so far), both of whom proposed to me within the relationships so I think that I have some insight into this. I actually don't at all agree with the statement that gems aren't one to commit, gemini guys commit FAST if they are into you. My first cancer moon gem, was insulted that I even had to ask what we were, a few weeks after hanging out. He was like.... you are my girlfriend, duh. I didn't know that. My second gem, the one I am with currently, is a scorp moon and he constantly was asking me, when are you gonna be my girl, I want you to commit to me, etc etc.


In my opinion, what you described either means that 1) he already thinks you are together, or 2) that it does not sound good and is nothing like my own experiences. Gemini men are quick to commit and want to make women "theirs" and can be very possessive. I can't think of a placement within our charts that would not behave this way.


I think that after investing 4 months into him, you have a right to know where you stand in his life. That to me, is a very long time to not what you are to him. And since you said that you don't really want to wait, I absolutely think that you should assert yourself, and ask him. You always risk not getting the answer you want, but isn't that better than waiting in limbo for another 2 months or more?

Posted by nanobot

Well there is really only one gemini man here anymore, and he is kind of a troll @xkraft


I have been with 2 gemini men (over 8 years of my life so far), both of whom proposed to me within the relationships so I think that I have some insight into this. I actually don't at all agree with the statement that gems aren't one to commit, gemini guys commit FAST if they are into you. My first cancer moon gem, was insulted that I even had to ask what we were, a few weeks after hanging out. He was like.... you are my girlfriend, duh. I didn't know that. My second gem, the one I am with currently, is a scorp moon and he constantly was asking me, when are you gonna be my girl, I want you to commit to me, etc etc.


In my opinion, what you described either means that 1) he already thinks you are together, or 2) that it does not sound good and is nothing like my own experiences. Gemini men are quick to commit and want to make women "theirs" and can be very possessive. I can't think of a placement within our charts that would not behave this way.


I think that after investing 4 months into him, you have a right to know where you stand in his life. That to me, is a very long time to not what you are to him. And since you said that you don't really want to wait, I absolutely think that you should assert yourself, and ask him. You always risk not getting the answer you want, but isn't that better than waiting in limbo for another 2 months or more?