Needs all gemini's opinions on this

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by holy_moo on Wednesday, July 22, 2015 and has 6 replies.
hi all! This is my first post since years ago on here and I lost both my username n password oops! Anyhoo, hope u all well an sound.

I'll cut long story short. Gemini ex bf broke up with me on New Years (2yrs relationship) be just gone via email (LDR) and no contacts since. He finally returned my belongings in March which I had my closure. As I'm on the mend and yesterday out of the blue I received an email off him...here's what he written:

Hi xxxx

Probably a bit out of the blue this email but I have been thinking about this a lot and a long time.
I come in peace :-) and good intentions.. so you know.

Time past by and all the less happy times we had now found place and rest and so the water isn’t murky and filled with emotions but it is clear and peacefull.
Really have been thinking about how your life is going now, your work, your family, your flat, your car, your juice plus, and so on.
But I hope you allow me to ask you how you are in the first place.

How are you you?


Bye


Xxxx

I haven't replied yet, as I don't know what to do. Anyone pls help me what I can/should do as I don't wanna be jerk for not replying but by doing so I'm reopening the wound and let me mentally abuse me with his mind game....

Thanks everyone in advance xxxx
Nobody can really tell you what to do. This is all dependent on you and what your true feelings are. If anything just keep it lite in the first response if you intend to reply at all.
Thank you everyone and really appreciate it smile
Hiya TokerX, sorry I should've mentioned those xxx were my name and at the bottom was his name. I knew he searched me on google etc so I didn't put my name on...he never used crosses as kisses he will only use icons. Sorry if I confused u there Sad
Posted by Gem87
Venus retrograde brings all the exes back... I'm not surprised at all.

I see...well to be honest, deep down I don't really care if he moved on or not, jut me being weak that my mood got affected by him. Feels like I'm back at square one Sad I guess if I reply I'm just simply throw myself into a hell...
Posted by TokerX
Posted by holy_moo
Hiya TokerX, sorry I should've mentioned those xxx were my name and at the bottom was his name. I knew he searched me on google etc so I didn't put my name on...he never used crosses as kisses he will only use icons. Sorry if I confused u there Sad

Oh ok, hmm...
Apart from that I didn't really see anything wrong with it.

Don't get why a Gem would contact you after all this time though. Like any of the girls I've known are dead to me. But that could just be my Scorpio Moon talking. I've actually only contacted two in my whole life (and that was in the last half year) to apologize for hurting them. Other than that uhm 1 ex contacted me cause she had fucked something up and was getting notices from bills that had to be paid, never talked to her after it was settled. There's a girl who has contacted me twice cause I have a blanket of hers and she has some books to me (but still doesn'twantto exchange), so yeah I don't want to piss her off too much (even though I want to burn her fuckin blanket). And another ex who talks to me at soccer games, cause she thinks we're friends but I just ignore her. :/

So yeah... Gemini contacting exes... I'm puzzled. :')
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He never ever contacted any of his exes at all, that wS one who found out he worked in se company as she do, she tried to arrange to see him but he refused...so I don't know why after 7 months he would sent an email like this...I know most of other users on here be like 'well, just go find out urself!' I just so lost and dunno what to do...I still not replied yet may be he already forgotten about this email lol