Oh Geminis....

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CappyRamFish
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I'm a Capricorn(Moon in Aries/Pisces Rising) who is seriously interested in a Gemini(Leo Moon/Sag Rising). I'm not asking for people to help me. This is more of my experience with Geminis. I have never dated a gemini or had any feelings once for a Gemini. I've had a lot of experiences with every sign except this one. Let me jus say, I love it, I love how Geminis offer more insight on topics that I wish I could talk about with other signs but can't. I will say right now she is my best friend. We like all the same music, movies, and a love for adventure, we both hate small talk and when we're not conversating, we're just jamming out and or enjoying the silence. I told her I liked her but I rather form a friendship(I'm a Venus in Aquarius) than make a stupid move and risk a great friendship cuz I wanted to get laid. I actually did end up making a move but got denied because it wasn't the right time and I let my impulse get the best of me. Thought it was the end of a friendship but she called me a few days later and told me after everything she still rather be my friend. We both already take care of each other in our own way, she told me she needed someone in her life who is a doer and a positive person on her life. I just want her to enjoy the ride that I'm on. I don't want to change her, she is who she is, but damn do I enjoy every minute with her. I think all the time when I should make my move because we're already getting so comfortable with each other(we've slept in the same bed the last 4 out of the 5 nights). But I gotta tell myself, in due time, if it's feels right do it and just enjoy the friendship you have with her. I think I should do it after a day of Rockclimbing or go karting, disc golf, something like that idk( I'm such a Capricorn). Anyway guys enjoy the Geminis in your life. They are the best talkers ever and if you have ADD, you'll be really good friends with a Gemini. Anyway I'm new here and wanted to share that. Hope you guys have a great day. Tell me what you think.
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CappyRamFish
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Well we're not dating, I would say she's my best friend, we both call ourselves the hot mess express lol. Plus I'm a straight male so no guys for me(not saying there is anything wrong with that, I love all people). I've already caught on the out of nowhere mood swings, I just don't say anything or let it be, and if she wants to talk to me about what's wrong, she will let me know. Don't poke the bear you know. Lol
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Posted by patrick20124
Well we're not dating, I would say she's my best friend, we both call ourselves the hot mess express lol. Plus I'm a straight male so no guys for me(not saying there is anything wrong with that, I love all people). I've already caught on the out of nowhere mood swings, I just don't say anything or let it be, and if she wants to talk to me about what's wrong, she will let me know. Don't poke the bear you know. Lol

I am a Libra woman Gemini rising Aquarius moon. You have what it takes to handle her; I read that Gemini love partners who are stable and consistent.
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I think puregem hits it right on. Once you cross that threshold and we give ourselves, be prepared to make yourself available and make us feel secure, and, if she has a leo moon, as do I, be prepared that she may be somewhat insecure at first. We need to be sure. Double your efforts twice as much. Don't do this to get her in between the sheets because if you do and then take her for granted you will feel the gem/leo moon sharp tongue ten fold. Good kuck to you.
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CappyRamFish
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Posted by littlemegabyte
I'm a gem with a cap moon and stellium in cap, and for what it's worth, I love cap men 🙂 I think they are sexy, strong as hell, and grounded. They are focused and know what they want out of life and that is so attractive to me. Caps are what I aspire to be more like, but "hot mess express" is a good term to describe what I really actually am like lolz. They also understand our need for space which is SUPER important, I cannot stress that enough.

It sounds like your Gem thinks a lot of you and you mean a lot to her. When given space, we do return if we really care, we just need time to think and figure out what are feelings are and how to properly articulate them.

One thing I want you to be cautious of is to not be too upset if it remains friendship. Unfortunately when I see you slept on the same bed for 4-5 nights, you made a move and got rejected, she actually told you she wanted to be friends, it seems kind of like a friend zone to me so be careful and try not to have expectations of her :/



Lol I actually made my move before we even started sleeping in the same bed. After I tried to make my move, I gave her space and then that when she told me she still wants me in her life. I won't get upset if it remains a friendship, I enjoy my friendship with her. We actually told each other last night that we love each other.
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CappyRamFish
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Posted by patrick20124
Well we're not dating, I would say she's my best friend, we both call ourselves the hot mess express lol. Plus I'm a straight male so no guys for me(not saying there is anything wrong with that, I love all people). I've already caught on the out of nowhere mood swings, I just don't say anything or let it be, and if she wants to talk to me about what's wrong, she will let me know. Don't poke the bear you know. Lol
I changed it to girl.. haha. Didn't mean to post it like that. Sorry my friend.
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You're all good lol. I love Geminis. Seriously, I love that I can talk about ANYTHING with them.