Please help me out with these Gemini women...

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by BigD56 on Tuesday, August 1, 2006 and has 30 replies.
I've met a lot of beautiful and sexy gemini women, and tried to get with each one of them. I get their numbers and everything looks good...UNTIL WE START TALKING ON THE PHONE!! Why does EVERY single gemini women I come across talk soo got darn much about themselves?! THEY WON'T STOP TALKING!!! I try to say something...just anything, but they cut me off! Then I start wondering...hmmm, maybe this is just a stage gemini women go through, maybe if I go through the 5 hour greeting stage, things will go up from there...I don't know anything about gemini's so help me out with this problem!
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LMAO That sucks huh? Just tell em' to take a break. I know I don't get upset when someone tells me i'm talkin' too damn much. I appreciate them doing' that cuz beleive me, we know we talk.. ALOT. i also know.. when i'm nervous.. it's even worse. But.. as one of them older Gem's.. LMAO i have learned to bit the tongue.. and let him talk.. the only down fall with that.. is when you give them the opportunity to talk.. that ain't got shit to say. BUt i have to have that talk time.. that's what attracts me to someone.. so i give them plenty of opportunity to carry conversation..
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Yeah, I guess you're right...but this is what they like to do! I'm not a girl, and I don't sit there and talk about things that happen in the beauty shop!! I mean this chic, she REALLY thought it was big news that one of her friends got her hair dyed the wrong color! And I'm like...ok...LOL! Talking a lot about your day or what happened isn't a problem, as long as I feel as if I'm a part of the conversation! That's cool, now I know that gems talk a lot, and there's a LOT of fine gemini's at that, but maybe it has something to do with me being an aquarius? Do you gems do this on purpose to test your new men, or are you really into what you're saying when you speak?
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as one of the young gems..LOL i have that problem to, but like baby0gel said i don't mind if someone says take it easy...talking helps stimulate us, you have to be a great conversationlist...try talking about something she knows nothing about or little about..and you'll find the best listener ever =)
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your an aqua! you should be a brilliant talker..lol but you are part of the conversation, bc she's sharing her day with you ..telling you about the big things that you think are little, but she's trying to make you laugh and stuff...just go along with it...we do have our days when were just quiet lol and it's a good sign bc we usually don't talk to people we don't find interesting, meaning like sit there on the phone for hrs and talk...so she must like you.. =)
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agreed juicy smile cuz we will not sit there with idle conversation and moments of silence. lol ain't happenin'. and i will admit i'll some stupid shit like that and talk about crazy shit to see if you'll humor it..remember we like games... and we love to play.
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Aight...I see this IS a part of the gemini's personality, so what I guess I need to do is to interrupt her, because their talking on topic's are ENDLESS, yes, I can talk also but I would usually stop to see if she is listening and to hear her input. This wouldn't tick you gemini women off...would it?
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haha we can't tell you what makes us tick! were to bizzy trying to find that out about you Winking
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i'll tell it.. we are complicated enough.. and they don't usually listen ANYWAY.. yeah cut her off.. i mean be nice about it.. you won't like what you get if you say some "bitch shut up" lmao yeah we can endlessly talk on especially if we like you. talk to her about some real shit.. you gotta come up with it.. but you shouldn't have a problem..
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GEMINIS ADDICTION... THE CELL PHONE, phone companies love gemini women. IF half the world was gemini the bills woul dbe so high that the even the low entry employee in a phone company would be rich,keep it up we love u all,lol.
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Awe HI DAEMON.. been a min since you graced our board :-p
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HII DAEMON! ..MY PHONE COMPANY DOES LOVE ME... LMAO there like you went over 39409 mins this month.. lol
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try talking about something she knows nothing about or little about..and you'll find the best listener ever =)
I agree- if you start on a topic a gem does not know about, she will shut up and listen because now you have got her full attention- we tend to be uncomfortable with silences sometimes, so depending on the situation we will just keep talking. I also agree that her talking about random shit is just her sharing her day with you- so, though what she is talking about could be the stupidest thing to you, to her she is opening up and giving you a glance into herself. If you really care for her, you'll learn to forgive her for it smile
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Gemini is a good match for you - aquarians often attracted to geminis. Yes we do talk lots, but the good ones are intelligent and interesting conversationalists. We do talk lots when nervous or new - silence can be awkward and the beauty shop might just be the first thing that came to mind. She was probably thinking about talking to you while raving on about the wrong hair colour!! Mouth often moves faster than brain! We settle down as you get to know us. Good luck with them, very fickle bunch, but play it cool, drop the hint you like her and let her think about it for a while smile
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BigD56..what happened to your little Libra?! Gemini women are cool..just go along with whatever she says..she'll love you if you love her friends too (wrong her colour and all)!! She probably doesnt realise you're bored..she's just sounds really comfortable telling you everything (and dont all women talk like that)? Sounds like you really like her and she's getting 'the vibe'. Good Luck x
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Yeah, sola...let's just say that my libra of love turned out to be a little more 'windy' than I thought. It hurt me a lot, but us aquarians can get over it pretty fast.
Daemon: GEMINIS ADDICTION... THE CELL PHONE, phone companies love gemini women. IF half the world was gemini the bills woul dbe so high that the even the low entry employee in a phone company would be rich.
Is that a fact?! WOW!! Ok, then that solves EVERYTHING!!
Juicy*: Try talking about something she knows nothing about or little about..and you'll find the best listener ever.
Aight juicy, that sounds like a plan. Today I talked to her and I actually just went along with her and her conversation and I think she began to open up a little bit cuz she began to ask me about how I felt about it or was this situation funny. Aight now, I know this is the excitement of dating, and I'm not trying to cheat, but you gemini's seem to be smarter than what you display yourselves to be. Is there ANYTHING else I need to know about a gemini, and I also want to give a HUGE bundle of love for everyone that helped me out with this cuz I got quite a crush on this girl.
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tell you what..if you could find out her birthday and what yr she was born..i'll find out her chart and tell you more about her, instead of just going by the sun sign, you'll have more information about HER... and everyone else here, will help i'm sure! =D
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Yeah get that for Juicy smile
I have just 1 more thought about us in general.. just an FYI.. don't come too strong at her. meaning too deeply. She might take off. when we like something.. we can't get enough of it.. we want more and more... and that holds especially true if we are not getting chased. So.. that means.. lol don't go as strong as she is. hold back just a little.. so she wants more. she will dive in.. and move ahead.. and the biggest mistake is dudes going just as fast as we do. keep it back just alittle.. i don't know if that makes sense to you.. in my head it makes all the sense in the world.. LMAO
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LMAO me to..god help us and yes she's right, if you come on to strong (probably like her) lol you'll scare her half to death....welcome to our head, enjoy your stay lol
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believe me , if she likes you ..YOU WILL KNOW she will make it obvious...
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and you will be on her mind NON STOP.. it will make her fuckin' mental!!!! she'll try to hide it.. usually don't work..
*remembers juicy runnin cross room fallin' off bed, bumping her head to get to the phone. LMAO
so if she seems kinda crazy.. nah she just likes you... hahahaha bare with her, she'll chill out..
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lmaoo
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If I really like someone I tend to talk endlessly its very strange. I'm aware of it but it is not easy to control. Its a dead give away that I have a crush.
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If I really like someone I tend to talk endlessly its very strange. I'm aware of it but it is not easy to control. Its a dead give away that I have a crush.
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If I really like someone I tend to talk endlessly its very strange. I'm aware of it but it is not easy to control. Its a dead give away that I have a crush.
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Posted by BigD56
I've met a lot of beautiful and sexy gemini women, and tried to get with each one of them. I get their numbers and everything looks good...UNTIL WE START TALKING ON THE PHONE!! Why does EVERY single gemini women I come across talk soo got darn much about themselves?! THEY WON'T STOP TALKING!!! I try to say something...just anything, but they cut me off! Then I start wondering...hmmm, maybe this is just a stage gemini women go through, maybe if I go through the 5 hour greeting stage, things will go up from there...I don't know anything about gemini's so help me out with this problem!


Brutha, Brutha! Let me holla atcha for a second. A wise man once told me that "If you get the mind, everything else will follow. But to get that mind to follow, you must gain that minds trust." If a woman as yappin on and on about ANY subject matter, shut-up and take it ALL in. What, you mad cuz she won't give you time to talk about yourself??? Well, let me tell ya bruh: The Gemini woman already got you figured out, so why feel like why not talk about themselves, right Chicas?? Winking Hell if she's even taking the time to talk to you at all is a great honor, because a messenger only goes where they're directed. If those fems were directed towards you, either you've got some good shit coming to you? Or you've been a verrrrry bad boy! Either way, it's a win win for you because you've been given the 'answers' to the test and it doesn't cost you anything. I love women that talk alot about themselves. That means I don't have to talk about myself. Then they be like....."I know nothing about you, and you know everything about me!" type shit. So, look at it that way. *shrugs*
~GM
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Posted by BaBy-GrL414
Yeah get that for Juicy smile
I have just 1 more thought about us in general.. just an FYI.. don't come too strong at her. meaning too deeply. She might take off. when we like something.. we can't get enough of it.. we want more and more... and that holds especially true if we are not getting chased. So.. that means.. lol don't go as strong as she is. hold back just a little.. so she wants more. she will dive in.. and move ahead.. and the biggest mistake is dudes going just as fast as we do. keep it back just alittle.. i don't know if that makes sense to you.. in my head it makes all the sense in the world.. LMAO


EXACTLY!!!! ha! couldnt have said it better!. YUCK a guy thats chasing too hard TOO SOON ew ew ew. Its a turn off. I agree with holding back. You aquas are distant by nature, you should already have this one in the bag!! Give her some attention, make her laugh, let her feel comfortable around you, etc etc then pull back a few days or so. She'll be thinking about you guaranteed (if she likes you though) and she'll come to you. Lead her... but veryy SUBTLY.
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Also, if shes talking alot, id say shes interested. If I personally wasnt interested pft lol I wouldnt be so keen on making endless conversation... even if iam just rambling on about shit. Shes prob just nervous or is trying to avoid a 'silent' moment haha maybe your not talking enough? Step in, take control and dominate the conversation a bit. Dont worry about butting in (dont be rude though!), she'll most probably be happy that you started a new topic and gladly follow on with it lol.. make sure its something interesting though... not about how bad the weather was that day lol
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Well, Geminis are the quintesential conversationalists - we normally can and WILL talk about anything under the sun...
Now it depends on educational background and character/tastes what we choose to rumble on about.
Philosophical or silly chit-chat...YES, we are turned on by conversation...
The beauty salon details sounds a little silly to me ( I got a serious taurus merc) but as a gemini,
if we are talking to you enthusiastically and want to share with you, we LIKE you - that's all I can say for now,
maybe not romantically, that's for you to explore, but gems want to have the 'friendly' vibe even with romantic interests as well.
Now you can turn the tables. We are very intrigued by somebody who will make us LISTEN (and i am referring to typical geminis here) so next time its your turn to be the enthusiastic story-teller - focus on you and she/they ll do the same.
If a gem gets carried away talking it can go on forever - we are thrilled to find avid listeners but you need to get into this mode once in a while...
You can go on this in two ways: mirror them and the mightiest talker wins lol
or go into mysterious elusive mode and they ll be forced to shut up and wonder why arent you that enthralled by their cheerful disposition and exciting chatter..!
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Very well said, Lilith. smile
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