Sexless Marriage or On Your Own?

Would you rather be in a sexless marriage or be on your own?

on my own. LOL.

on my own

On my own...

gemini? sexless ? wrong topic in wrong corner 😛

Posted by Aesma
That depends on why it's 'sexless'. If LDR, then of course, no sex life. It's a commitment so if that has to be part of the sacrifice, I'd willingly abstain. If we're together but he's refusing all the time, then no, I'd rather be on my own.

^^this.

Posted by duchessedenemours
I'd be in a sexless marriage if it was true love...

I mean, what if he got paralyzed or something?

hmmm...a good point..

in that case..which, there was sex life during marriage..but due to unexpected events (illnesses or accidents) there will be no longer sex life..then yes, the marriage would last.. because, those things are not under my or my s.o. or any others' control

(unless one drives under influence, fully knowing what they're doing & risking.. but even then someone just gets all okay and well after a horrible event -even when others who happened to be with said one ended up being dead- whilst some just die due to seemingly insignificant carelessness of their own action.. so, it's really like..throwing dice.. like, you always being a careful driver, but other people just com crash your car for whatever reason -them being drunk or pure lack of carefulness or whatsoever other factors..-)

so I will not make a decision on certain events which are not under my control and my will is not being a direct factor


but sexless for no reason from the beginning of marriage, then no..but then I would have not married one who is not sexually compatible with me at the first place..hmmm..

Posted by duchessedenemours
I'd be in a sexless marriage if it was true love...

I mean, what if he got paralyzed or something?

I'm with the duchess on this one. Love is much deeper than sex.

If I gave my word and decided to join you in commitment

sexless marriage for me.

Id rather be by myself than be in a sexless relationship.