Should i give up?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by leobuzzer on Wednesday, August 16, 2017 and has 12 replies.
Please tell to me what i have to do with my Gems. he was said to me, we were not a friend and i never could be his friend. he said like that because i was asked him too personality but i think i still in the ordinary zone about to ask something and also he said, he is someone that kind have an issue like shut-in person? I dont know what that thing but his words was really hurt me and i pretend to be okay on him. but the deepest of my heart i am really really sad. Really sad like i dont know what i have to do about this feeling. Should i forget those Gems? Or he just teasing me?
Don't chase someone who is actively pushing you away, especially if you're not already in a relationship with that person. It only devalues you and makes you look needy. If you have self respect and know your value, then you'll know that there are other people who will treat you a lot better than this guy is. Those people deserve the gift of your energy and time, not him.
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How many different people are you talking about?
Posted by Chuckcem
Don't chase someone who is actively pushing you away, especially if you're not already in a relationship with that person. It only devalues you and makes you look needy. If you have self respect and know your value, then you'll know that there are other people who will treat you a lot better than this guy is. Those people deserve the gift of your energy and time, not him.
Thats what my Leo side says to me but this kind of Virgo traiits said the opposite thing Sad i dont know what i have to choosed

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How many different people are you talking about?
One. Still the same Gems guy. Sorry for confusing you but need your advice tho smile

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How many different people are you talking about?
One. Still the same Gems guy. Sorry for confusing you but need your advice tho smile

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You're the Leo/Virgo cusper iirc. Really sucks when you like someone who is just not interested.

First thing I'd say is proofread your post before posting it because you sound drunk or high, it's really hard to understand what you're saying. I get the gist of it but the details are like you typed them with your forehead. And you're bouncing between using singular and plural.

Something about.........you asking a personal question and he got angry because he's a closed-up person? Sorry, but he's a total stupid idiot if he gets mad for something so trivial. You asked a question, doesn't automatically mean he HAS TO answer it. He's got major issues and I think you're better off without him anywhere near you.

He's treating you like crap, he ain't worth the effort.
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Posted by Chuckcem
Don't chase someone who is actively pushing you away, especially if you're not already in a relationship with that person. It only devalues you and makes you look needy. If you have self respect and know your value, then you'll know that there are other people who will treat you a lot better than this guy is. Those people deserve the gift of your energy and time, not him.
Thats what my Leo side says to me but this kind of Virgo traiits said the opposite thing Sad i dont know what i have to choosed

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The option that doesn't waste your or energy on someone who appears to be uninterested in you. The Virgo side of you is looking to "fix" the situation. This is a pointless endeavor because there is nothing to fix.
Forget him... interest should be a 2 way street. Save yourself future headache and heartache and walk away. I dated a closed off Gem and he just wanted his way all the time, no compromise. Is that what you want? You want someone who won't open to you and communicate?
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How many different people are you talking about?
One. Still the same Gems guy. Sorry for confusing you but need your advice tho smile

You're the Leo/Virgo cusper iirc. Really sucks when you like someone who is just not interested.

First thing I'd say is proofread your post before posting it because you sound drunk or high, it's really hard to understand what you're saying. I get the gist of it but the details are like you typed them with your forehead. And you're bouncing between using singular and plural.

Something about.........you asking a personal question and he got angry because he's a closed-up person? Sorry, but he's a total stupid idiot if he gets mad for something so trivial. You asked a question, doesn't automatically mean he HAS TO answer it. He's got major issues and I think you're better off without him anywhere near you.

He's treating you like crap, he ain't worth the effort.
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sorry for my bad english Sad yess he is a shut-in person. idk about how to handle his issues but i think i still like him.

Posted by Moonbutter
Forget him... interest should be a 2 way street. Save yourself future headache and heartache and walk away. I dated a closed off Gem and he just wanted his way all the time, no compromise. Is that what you want? You want someone who won't open to you and communicate?
its really funny to thinking about his traits again. i wasnt forced him to open to me until he said something and i wasnt judge him. i try to accept all his story and idk why he got angry with me cuz i was talked about something that he told to me first. so this is so confusing me because i still want him.

Posted by leobuzzer
Posted by Moonbutter
Forget him... interest should be a 2 way street. Save yourself future headache and heartache and walk away. I dated a closed off Gem and he just wanted his way all the time, no compromise. Is that what you want? You want someone who won't open to you and communicate?
its really funny to thinking about his traits again. i wasnt forced him to open to me until he said something and i wasnt judge him. i try to accept all his story and idk why he got angry with me cuz i was talked about something that he told to me first. so this is so confusing me because i still want him.

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This is gonna be an uphill battle for you ... and when you reach the top (if ever) you will probably want to jump off anyway when you realize he's not for you and took too much energy and started chipping away at your soul.
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Posted by Moonbutter
Forget him... interest should be a 2 way street. Save yourself future headache and heartache and walk away. I dated a closed off Gem and he just wanted his way all the time, no compromise. Is that what you want? You want someone who won't open to you and communicate?
its really funny to thinking about his traits again. i wasnt forced him to open to me until he said something and i wasnt judge him. i try to accept all his story and idk why he got angry with me cuz i was talked about something that he told to me first. so this is so confusing me because i still want him.

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This is gonna be an uphill battle for you ... and when you reach the top (if ever) you will probably want to jump off anyway when you realize he's not for you and took too much energy and started chipping away at your soul.