Shy Gems?
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by InTheCloud on Thursday, April 28, 2016 and has 15 replies.
So I previously posted this on this on the R&A forum with not much success so I figured I'll come to the source.
He: Gem sun (arguably cancer cusp depending on source), pisces moon, mercury cancer, venus gemini, mars cancer, ascending not sure, however comes of very nice and sweet everyone says that about him.
Me: cancer sun, leo moon, mercury cancer, venus virgo, mars cancer. My ascending is Sag.
So whenever it concers work he helps a lot, but does it for many hence the sweet heart label he gets. However once in a while he will say something sweet especially when i am on a floor I dislike I guess it is written on my face, but he will tell me he is sorry I am on that floor (we work different shifts so he leaves when I come in, and like me he floats) or if I am koved from the floor that i go on the most after the sart of the shift he shows concern. I never thought much of his concerns because again he is sweet to everyone. Until I caugh him shifting his gaze from me when I looked in his direction on multiple occassions.
Other times he seemed to be hiding from me in that he will stand in an area where my line of sight is obstructed to finish his paper work. I have hidden from guys too when I don't feel at my best so I am not sure how to read that. We once had an exchange where he me a question when I walked in at the start of work and he was finishing up his work when i answered him and then paused and realized I could have made additional comments to keep the conversation going so I made a joke, except he went "oh ok" talk about crashing and burning I felt stupid afterwards this is why I claim up around guys.
Everytime I see him nowadays he gives me the most excited hellos and his face lights up. But that is the end of it. I thinking he is shy and I pick that up about him now. He is much more out going with others.
I am also shy so this makes it hard for me I am assuming this is our mars at work. Because one of my co workers is also a cancer with leo moon like me she is always landing a helping hand however has no patience and is much more outspoken than I and does not listen well. I discovered her mars in aries. I always figured geminis are much more outspoken because those that I have known are talkative and can make a stranger feel like they have known them for years and definitely not afraid to approach those they are interested. The only other gemini that I know of wuo comes off like him shares his birthday. I pegged her for a cancer before i found out her birthday. So what is my approach should I just take a leap of faith?
He: Gem sun (arguably cancer cusp depending on source), pisces moon, mercury cancer, venus gemini, mars cancer, ascending not sure, however comes of very nice and sweet everyone says that about him.
Me: cancer sun, leo moon, mercury cancer, venus virgo, mars cancer. My ascending is Sag.
So whenever it concers work he helps a lot, but does it for many hence the sweet heart label he gets. However once in a while he will say something sweet especially when i am on a floor I dislike I guess it is written on my face, but he will tell me he is sorry I am on that floor (we work different shifts so he leaves when I come in, and like me he floats) or if I am koved from the floor that i go on the most after the sart of the shift he shows concern. I never thought much of his concerns because again he is sweet to everyone. Until I caugh him shifting his gaze from me when I looked in his direction on multiple occassions.
Other times he seemed to be hiding from me in that he will stand in an area where my line of sight is obstructed to finish his paper work. I have hidden from guys too when I don't feel at my best so I am not sure how to read that. We once had an exchange where he me a question when I walked in at the start of work and he was finishing up his work when i answered him and then paused and realized I could have made additional comments to keep the conversation going so I made a joke, except he went "oh ok" talk about crashing and burning I felt stupid afterwards this is why I claim up around guys.
Everytime I see him nowadays he gives me the most excited hellos and his face lights up. But that is the end of it. I thinking he is shy and I pick that up about him now. He is much more out going with others.
I am also shy so this makes it hard for me I am assuming this is our mars at work. Because one of my co workers is also a cancer with leo moon like me she is always landing a helping hand however has no patience and is much more outspoken than I and does not listen well. I discovered her mars in aries. I always figured geminis are much more outspoken because those that I have known are talkative and can make a stranger feel like they have known them for years and definitely not afraid to approach those they are interested. The only other gemini that I know of wuo comes off like him shares his birthday. I pegged her for a cancer before i found out her birthday. So what is my approach should I just take a leap of faith?
I have the same placements, except rising is in leo and moon is in cancer.... And , I'm a woman...
I am incredibly shy. I will not approach anyone till they approach me first. It's not ideal, but it works for me. Also, I will not make the first move... I will wait till it's apparent that they are interested. Or, they make the first move... lol!
It has been said of gems that we will act differently around those we have interest in. We like to be nice and ppl mistake our niceness for flirting.... it's usually the ones we don't act that way towards we normally have an interest in. In other words, we will still be nice, but it won't seem like flirting.
I am incredibly shy. I will not approach anyone till they approach me first. It's not ideal, but it works for me. Also, I will not make the first move... I will wait till it's apparent that they are interested. Or, they make the first move... lol!
It has been said of gems that we will act differently around those we have interest in. We like to be nice and ppl mistake our niceness for flirting.... it's usually the ones we don't act that way towards we normally have an interest in. In other words, we will still be nice, but it won't seem like flirting.
Im a shy Gemini also. It's crazy because I'm a talkitive person with my friends and family but when it comes to a woman I like I just get quiet as hell. I just start to over think things cus i dont want that wrong/weird things to come out my mouth to make that person uncomfortable and have a sudden disinterest in me.Just like today I tried to holla at this girl. Even though I got ol girl numba I just felt stupid and helpless because I got lip locked and said some stupid shit when I did open my mouth.
Posted by FyzaGememieePosted by yung_wisegem
Im a shy Gemini also. It's crazy because I'm a talkitive person with my friends and family but when it comes to a woman I like I just get quiet as hell. I just start to over think things cus i dont want that wrong/weird things to come out my mouth to make that person uncomfortable and have a sudden disinterest in me.Just like today I tried to holla at this girl. Even though I got ol girl numba I just felt stupid and helpless because I got lip locked and said some stupid shit when I did open my mouth.
US, irl with the person we have had crush with! ^^click to expand
Lmao that gif is classic. It's sooooo true tho. I swear being being a Gem is a gift and a curse but mostly a curse even though I wouldn't want to be any other sign
Posted by exxtasyx
I love how people think Gemini's are always so social, loud and crazy. I used to be like that as a kid and then I lost trust in the world. Now I'm a shy freak. I won't talk to people unless I absolutely have to!
Lol u described to the fullest. I hate that im shy😖. It just seemed inescapable as I got older tho
Posted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by exxtasyx
I love how people think Gemini's are always so social, loud and crazy. I used to be like that as a kid and then I lost trust in the world. Now I'm a shy freak. I won't talk to people unless I absolutely have to!
Lol u described to the fullest. I hate that im shy😖. It just seemed inescapable as I got older tho
Interestingly enough I always see Leo suns (the ones in real life) as being social, loud and crazy.click to expand
Aries and Leo's are the loudest of the zodiac😂 I love aries but I can't stand leos cus of their egos.
Posted by FyzaGememieePosted by yung_wisegemPosted by exxtasyx
I love how people think Gemini's are always so social, loud and crazy. I used to be like that as a kid and then I lost trust in the world. Now I'm a shy freak. I won't talk to people unless I absolutely have to!
Lol u described to the fullest. I hate that im shy😖. It just seemed inescapable as I got older tho
I don't know how true this is, but I think most Geminis are loners.
I can be all fun, loud and crazy but it's only after I know the person and am comfortable enough to go cray cray. I'm not even talking when I am around my relatives.
I swear irl, if we had not know each other and especially if I have something going on for you, you will think that I'm a cancer with a bitch resting face or if I'm into you, most likely I looks like a Libra with that sweet bitchy yet innocent smiling face but a restless one.
The moment I am so comfortable with that person, trust me, you will feel like putting a tape over my mouth as well as my arsehole bc I loves to fart on people. I'm a dock! Lol!!click to expand
Yes I'm a true loner. When it comes to my fam they are always asking "why do u go to the movies by yourself" or "why haven't I seen u in 8 days". In my head I'm just like leave me alone and quit being emotional lol. I just hate when people ask me 21 questions or act like they can't sleep eat or shit without me.
BTW since I've joined this site u are one if my favs😊
Posted by FyzaGememieePosted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by exxtasyx
I love how people think Gemini's are always so social, loud and crazy. I used to be like that as a kid and then I lost trust in the world. Now I'm a shy freak. I won't talk to people unless I absolutely have to!
Lol u described to the fullest. I hate that im shy😖. It just seemed inescapable as I got older tho
Interestingly enough I always see Leo suns (the ones in real life) as being social, loud and crazy.
Aries and Leo's are the loudest of the zodiac😂 I love aries but I can't stand leos cus of their egos.
I'm actually an Aries. But of the loner variety lol. I actually know of very, very few Aries who are as loud as Leos.
Well, that's because you're a Gemini asc!
You're even worst than us, the Gemini sun. You can be there and poof and then appear again calling me for nothing. So, yeah yeah yeah.
K bye.click to expand
See what I mean by u being one of my favs... U r hilarious
Posted by FyzaGememieePosted by yung_wisegemPosted by FyzaGememieePosted by yung_wisegemPosted by exxtasyx
I love how people think Gemini's are always so social, loud and crazy. I used to be like that as a kid and then I lost trust in the world. Now I'm a shy freak. I won't talk to people unless I absolutely have to!
Lol u described to the fullest. I hate that im shy😖. It just seemed inescapable as I got older tho
I don't know how true this is, but I think most Geminis are loners.
I can be all fun, loud and crazy but it's only after I know the person and am comfortable enough to go cray cray. I'm not even talking when I am around my relatives.
I swear irl, if we had not know each other and especially if I have something going on for you, you will think that I'm a cancer with a bitch resting face or if I'm into you, most likely I looks like a Libra with that sweet bitchy yet innocent smiling face but a restless one.
The moment I am so comfortable with that person, trust me, you will feel like putting a tape over my mouth as well as my arsehole bc I loves to fart on people. I'm a dock! Lol!!
Yes I'm a true loner. When it comes to my fam they are always asking "why do u go to the movies by yourself" or "why haven't I seen u in 8 days". In my head I'm just like leave me alone and quit being emotional lol. I just hate when people ask me 21 questions or act like they can't sleep eat or shit without me.
BTW since I've joined this site u are one if my favs😊
Well, thank you. You're stroking my Leo in me now.
Nah, tbh, I love all the Gemini peeps here, even those with Gemini placement in them, they are all cool af.
We are the free spirit, optimistic and adaptable so that's why we actually gets along with one another more often then the other signs, imo. I like you too and thank God, we finally have more Gemini males. The board definately needs you guys! Urghhhclick to expand
Yea I've Never I repeat never had any bad blood with my fellow Geminis. I only had bad blood with h every other sign
Posted by FyzaGememieePosted by yung_wisegemPosted by FyzaGememieePosted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by exxtasyx
I love how people think Gemini's are always so social, loud and crazy. I used to be like that as a kid and then I lost trust in the world. Now I'm a shy freak. I won't talk to people unless I absolutely have to!
Lol u described to the fullest. I hate that im shy😖. It just seemed inescapable as I got older tho
Interestingly enough I always see Leo suns (the ones in real life) as being social, loud and crazy.
Aries and Leo's are the loudest of the zodiac😂 I love aries but I can't stand leos cus of their egos.
I'm actually an Aries. But of the loner variety lol. I actually know of very, very few Aries who are as loud as Leos.
Well, that's because you're a Gemini asc!
You're even worst than us, the Gemini sun. You can be there and poof and then appear again calling me for nothing. So, yeah yeah yeah.
K bye.
See what I mean by u being one of my favs... U r hilarious
Psst..you don't know this Aries. She's a troll who loves stalking others. Don't tell her I'm telling you this.
Scorpio moon....smdass... -_-click to expand
Chances are she already seen this post and went a-wall
Posted by FyzaGememiee
@yung_wisegem
See what I mean with her. She's something like this. ^^ You know when Aries, Scorpio and Gemini blends in together, it's kind of fiery, creepy, crazy kind of a human. Right?
Lol yea I see what u mean
Posted by trollbait
I still want to know what a-wall means though?
Is it something like Wall-E?
U never heard the term A-wall or apeshit etc. I sense the feeling ur just fuckin wit meðŸ˜'
Posted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by FyzaGememiee
@yung_wisegem
See what I mean with her. She's something like this. ^^ You know when Aries, Scorpio and Gemini blends in together, it's kind of fiery, creepy, crazy kind of a human. Right?
Lol yea I see what u mean
Hmmm no, I don't think you see what she meant.click to expand
Even if I didn't know what she meant I know that u know what she meant😆
Posted by FyzaGememieePosted by yung_wisegemPosted by trollbaitPosted by yung_wisegemPosted by FyzaGememiee
@yung_wisegem
See what I mean with her. She's something like this. ^^ You know when Aries, Scorpio and Gemini blends in together, it's kind of fiery, creepy, crazy kind of a human. Right?
Lol yea I see what u mean
Hmmm no, I don't think you see what she meant.
Even if I didn't know what she meant I know that u know what she meant😆
Taurus mercury gonna be like this.^^
Both of you has that and it's retrograde now. Good Luck!click to expand
Lmaooo that gif tho. what does retrograde really mean?
So I got to work with him recently and I am even more confused. Maybe he is not that shy after all. He iniated almost all of our conversation. Threw a few compliment there with respect to my work. On a few occasion. Constantly asked me if he could help me, (maybe it is because I am not as familiar with the department) and asked if I was ok. He brought up comments I made earlier in the shift later on to make conversation and few other thing that made me realized he was listening. Lets just say the gemini in him was very apparent.
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