Signs GEMS can't get along with

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by TwistedTwin on Friday, October 1, 2010 and has 44 replies.
Are there signs you absolutely can't get along with?
In my case, I would say Capricorn. I don't get them at all. I find them too authoritarian and black and white. I'm a gem and so naturally, when something comes up, I like discussing it. But most oftentimes, they take the questions and discussions personally, like it's an affront to their authority or human dignity (rolls eyes upwards) or whatever. Most of the time, I even agree with them but it hardly gets to that point because they hardline already.
I just find it very tiresome dealing with them to the point that my unspoken argument is that... okay, so the world is black and white for you, when we both die and become spirits, let's see who's right. LOL.
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For me its a virgo! They do my head in!!!
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Posted by wineaux
Posted by ser9123
For me its a virgo! They do my head in!!!


ditto!
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LOL, that's funny. Aren't we supposed to be mercurial siblings with Virgo? Actually, if I come to think about it, I do butt heads with them because they always have a different way (read as boring) of doing things. They're like the biggest killjoys of the planet sometimes.
I'm surrounded by Virgos though so maybe I have learned to get along with them. When it comes to non-romantic Virgo relationships, the butting heads gets easier to handle as they're very non-confrontational. What I do is just let my inner Leo (rising and venus) out and my Mars in Aries and they go scuttling back to the land of capitulation, lol.
When it comes to romantic relationships though where I'm the female receptive, it does get trickier. I've had four Virgo exes, two of which were very controlling and two of which were very "service oriented". With the lesser dominant ones, all I had to do was to state my case/position and assume a take it or leave it attitude. (They would take it, lol). With the virgo alpha males, I would have to find a workaround. There's more than one way to skin a cat. And I think the mental exercise of finding a way kept the relationship exciting for me.
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Posted by TwistedTwin
Posted by wineaux
Posted by ser9123
For me its a virgo! They do my head in!!!


ditto!


LOL, that's funny. Aren't we supposed to be mercurial siblings with Virgo? Actually, if I come to think about it, I do butt heads with them because they always have a different way (read as boring) of doing things. They're like the biggest killjoys of the planet sometimes.
I'm surrounded by Virgos though so maybe I have learned to get along with them. When it comes to non-romantic Virgo relationships, the butting heads gets easier to handle as they're very non-confrontational. What I do is just let my inner Leo (rising and venus) out and my Mars in Aries and they go scuttling back to the land of capitulation, lol.
When it comes to romantic relationships though where I'm the female receptive, it does get trickier. I've had four Virgo exes, two of which were very controlling and two of which were very "service oriented". With the lesser dominant ones, all I had to do was to state my case/position and assume a take it or leave it attitude. (They would take it, lol). With the virgo alpha males, I would have to find a workaround. There's more than one way to skin a cat. And I think the mental exercise of finding a way kept the relationship exciting for me.
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My mother is a virgo and although we have an excellent communication and she's the person I trust the most (and her having moon/asc in gem helps alot), I just find the WAY she tries to make a point irritating many a times...
Virgos seem (and are!) so critical - they do it out of love and to show they CARE, that I learned, but sometimes it can get very smothering...
Caps and Scorpios are our karmic signs - if we survive and get past the initial interaction, we can have amazing relationships...never known Caps/Scops till now(apart from my FAVE teachers at HS which happened to be Caps and Scorpios lol and I adored them) in a friendship/relationship but I am getting to know a couple and I like and respect them alot!
Hmm, do not dislike any sign tbh, I have to throw in some Aries though - they can get very childish (in a bad, not cute-sy way) with their stubborness and me-me, i-gotta-win-or-die attitude. And, although I have a LEo as
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Cancer - and geminis don't mix .not gonna happen EVER
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And, although I have a Leo ascendant, I found some leos extremely annoying with their fake-pride and arrogant attitude...
they are pretty easy to handle though :p not natural diplomats...and harmless...
BUT, I realize they are not all like that, the ladies i met were fun and loyal and warm...
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i get along with any sign for the most part.
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Virgos and Aquarius. Virgos because there personality and ways of doing things are too analyzing. If you're going to say something, say it! Quit looking and analzying it all over and over and over again. For Aquarius, I should probably get along with thim, but I don't understand their aloofness. I can never seem when they are being serious or kidding. They aren't envolved enough in the conversation. and also my best friend is a Capricorn and my other best friend is a cancer, guess I can have a dynamic personality with everyone (except those 2) cause I have an ascendant in cancer.
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I get along and don't get along with all signs. O___O
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My best friend is a cancer, but sometimes she bitches about everything too much and it gets on my nerves. She thrives on the drama that she allows in her life. I get along with fellow gems splendidly smile virgo and taurus relationships have ended tragically, but good as friends.
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Posted by TwistedTwin
Are there signs you absolutely can't get along with?
In my case, I would say Capricorn. I don't get them at all. I find them too authoritarian and black and white. I'm a gem and so naturally, when something comes up, I like discussing it. But most oftentimes, they take the questions and discussions personally, like it's an affront to their authority or human dignity (rolls eyes upwards) or whatever. Most of the time, I even agree with them but it hardly gets to that point because they hardline already.
I just find it very tiresome dealing with them to the point that my unspoken argument is that... okay, so the world is black and white for you, when we both die and become spirits, let's see who's right. LOL.


Maybe you haven't met the right capricorn.
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The one person who I cannot get along with at all is a Capricorn. I don't know if that means I would have a hard time getting along with most Capricorns or if its just her specifically. She does have some BPD issues and a sense of entitlement like no one else I have ever come across.
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wierdly i have friends with basically an aries, they are ok, just dont like the bossiness, i have a taurus friend, but we arent really close, i have a bunch of gem friends and i would die for them, i have a cancer brother and hes cool, his emotions flying can get to me, and i had a leo friend, dont know what happened. i have a scorpio we get along great, prob gemini moon, and then im madly in love with a aqua. sadly....
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Posted by LovelyMissAries

Caps and Scorpios are our karmic signs


Sorry to butt in, but do you know who Aries' karmic signs are? I tried googling it before asking and could only find the karma associated with each sun sign.
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Karmic signs are considered the signs quincunx/inconjunct your own. (150 d. apart)
Namely, in your case, Aries' karmic signs are Scorpio and Virgo. smile)
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I get along,(for the most part), with most people, and when I clash with someone I usually don't stick around long or get to know them enough to find out their sign..
HOWEVER, I have to be around a Taurus/Gemini cusp and we do not get along. He stresses me to. the. max!
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I am a gemini and I just love virgos. We have many differences though. Capricorn men do not interest me at all. My moon is in Capricorn but I just don't see it!
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phew, no one said SAGGIS
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funny that Geminis dont like Virgos..
i know a gemini guy who married a virgo and is now divorcing her. meanwhile, he seeing two other virgo women at the same time. and they just found out about each other.
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i agree with you wineaux! it's like discriminating due to race, or sex. you can't help what month ppl are born in.
just to add to what i've said before... i do get along with any sign for the most part... what i don't get along with is the negativity. i will politely excuse myself, just not entertain it, or not be a part of it. BUT, i do understand that everyone has a maturity level to reach and will still try to get along with everyone cuz that's what i want in return.
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correction: i can't help what month other ppl are born in...
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Cancer and Capris, i just dont get them and they irritate me most of the time!
Love Virgos, my Best friend is virgo, but hey- i have too many placements in virgo so that might explain it :p
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Posted by angelbunnydarlinglibra
Cancer - and geminis don't mix .not gonna happen EVER


That's a bit weird I think it really matters where placements are. My sister, bff (of 20 years), 3 ex boyfriends are all Cancers. I have 3 chasing me now too. And I seem to get along just fine with them all
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Ones I dont really get along with is probably Sagittarius. I don't like their omg freak out, busy OMFG gotta get this now, flip outs and 20 questions. The nonchalant attitudes towards life and relationship is annoying to me. Oh im so amazingly free of life duties and Im just going to sail around with no goals and see where the wind takes me. ANNOYING AS FUCK!
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i dont get along with most type of water ,there energy dont click with me with some exceptions . im social and will say hello but thats as far as it will go with water . With being a gemini sun and a virgo moon im a huge communicator and its very important to me as far as in a relationship
i feel right at home with fire. Air i relate well with , earth uhhhhhhh tbd lol
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Posted by TwistedTwin
Are there signs you absolutely can't get along with?
In my case, I would say Capricorn. I don't get them at all. I find them too authoritarian and black and white. I'm a gem and so naturally, when something comes up, I like discussing it. But most oftentimes, they take the questions and discussions personally, like it's an affront to their authority or human dignity (rolls eyes upwards) or whatever. Most of the time, I even agree with them but it hardly gets to that point because they hardline already.
I just find it very tiresome dealing with them to the point that my unspoken argument is that... okay, so the world is black and white for you, when we both die and become spirits, let's see who's right. LOL.


It's funny because I don't get along with most geminis that well. I find they don't take anything seriously and can't be consistent and I just get a vibe that they're not trustworthy because they have one opinion today when they had a complete opposite opinion yesterday.
Core differences, I suppose. *shrugs*
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Yep ditto about caps. No bueno both males and females. They have no appreciation for differences and like to be thought of as cold and hard. When you treat them like that, they want to know why and try to convince you that they are not. Whatevs....
Funny, my bestie in high school was a cap, last time I saw her she borrowed some money and that was that.....
I know they love money a lot, but a couple females that I know don't seem to manage it well and like to borrow or have a hard time paying it back. Embarassing, the men that I know seem to handle money better.
Along with the caps, no to water signs especially cancers and scorps. Mostly the females.
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and I forgot about them leos. Never again.
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I ditto on the capricorns. I've never dated one, or been around a capricorn Dude for too long. Guys seem to be overly goofy but predictable and girls seem to be loud mouthed and pretty obnoxious.
Only sign I can truly make me uncomfortable.
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Any Earth or Water sign!Honestly, I dont get all with my OWN sign. I havent been around Fire signs that much to know just yet.
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actualy i see countless Gem/Capricorn marriages. and they seem 2 do rly well
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Posted by AirMan
Aries. they are fuckin pricks.


Whatttttttttt?!!! A gemini doesn't like aries? Are you joking? I thought gems were obsessed over aries people?
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Posted by truecap
Posted by TwistedTwin
Are there signs you absolutely can't get along with?
In my case, I would say Capricorn. I don't get them at all. I find them too authoritarian and black and white. I'm a gem and so naturally, when something comes up, I like discussing it. But most oftentimes, they take the questions and discussions personally, like it's an affront to their authority or human dignity (rolls eyes upwards) or whatever. Most of the time, I even agree with them but it hardly gets to that point because they hardline already.
I just find it very tiresome dealing with them to the point that my unspoken argument is that... okay, so the world is black and white for you, when we both die and become spirits, let's see who's right. LOL.


It's funny because I don't get along with most geminis that well. I find they don't take anything seriously and can't be consistent and I just get a vibe that they're not trustworthy because they have one opinion today when they had a complete opposite opinion yesterday.
Core differences, I suppose. *shrugs*
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Truecap, if I remember, just reading around these boards here and there, lurking! I've read you were married to a Gem for a long time? What drew you together and what made you stay so long together with him, if in fact the differences were so great?
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I'm a Cap obviously. Reading this thread is like seeing a sign that says "Nobody likes you." But hey, I don't blame Gems, really.
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Posted by AirMan
Posted by Noreallynow
Posted by AirMan
Aries. they are fuckin pricks.


Whatttttttttt?!!! A gemini doesn't like aries? Are you joking? I thought gems were obsessed over aries people?


OBSESSED?!!! LMFAO. are you for real? now why would i want to obsess over aries people of all signs? Lol. no. the one thing about me is i obsess over NOOOOOOOOObody. no way ho'zay.
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What I meant was that astrology say gems and aries love each(very compatible). I actually know a gem who was obsessed with an aries.
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Posted by RollergirlOrc
Posted by truecap
Posted by TwistedTwin
Are there signs you absolutely can't get along with?
In my case, I would say Capricorn. I don't get them at all. I find them too authoritarian and black and white. I'm a gem and so naturally, when something comes up, I like discussing it. But most oftentimes, they take the questions and discussions personally, like it's an affront to their authority or human dignity (rolls eyes upwards) or whatever. Most of the time, I even agree with them but it hardly gets to that point because they hardline already.
I just find it very tiresome dealing with them to the point that my unspoken argument is that... okay, so the world is black and white for you, when we both die and become spirits, let's see who's right. LOL.


It's funny because I don't get along with most geminis that well. I find they don't take anything seriously and can't be consistent and I just get a vibe that they're not trustworthy because they have one opinion today when they had a complete opposite opinion yesterday.
Core differences, I suppose. *shrugs*


Truecap, if I remember, just reading around these boards here and there, lurking! I've read you were married to a Gem for a long time? What drew you together and what made you stay so long together with him, if in fact the differences were so great?
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In the beginning the differences didn't seem to matter - you start out thinking they complement you and you benefit from each other. But, after a while those differences begin to cause some issues, resentment, different lifestyle preferences, etc. For instance, the spontaneous one gets bored with the one who is less spontaneous. The responsible one gets irritated by the fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants one. The inconsistent one drives the consistent one crazy. The romantic one gets hurt by the non-romantic one.
It's just the differences of the core of this sign are extreme.
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well, things get better with Gemini stellium and conjunctions.
Heidi Klum for example is a very focused, successful person although she does the predicted Gemini multi-tasking.
She has Venus, Mercury, Saturn, Sun and Moon in Gemini.
+ AC in Leo/29??. Chiron in Aries. Jupiter in Aqua. Lilith&Neptune in Sag.
(btw no wonder that she was with Seal. Her/AC/Leo/29??=His/NN/Leo/29??)
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Honey, you are new to this site. You'll get used to AirMan's mentions on fire signs. He has three personal planets in a Water sign. His water wants to delete fire. He can't help it.
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Posted by AirMan
fire signs will never make good tycoons. ... if you were to google those rich sagittarians, i'll bet you they were all earth influence sagittarians.

You see every fire sign is at high risk to have earth placements. Every earth is in high risk to have fire.
So in one case fire does what it likes and earth parts tries to keep and accumulate money which is the byproduct of the success with the job. Example Steven Spielberg. Fr?bes 2014: Steven Spielberg Tops Our List Of The Most Influential Celebrities. Wiki: The unadjusted gross of all Spielberg-directed films exceeds $ 8.5 billion worldwide. His personal net worth is estimated to be more than $ 3 billion.
In the other case earth sun likes to keep and accumulate money. It uses talents and traits of its fire parts (among all) to achieve his goal.
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... i have never come across a successful fire element(my sag woman included) ...

you are right. the proof is that she is with someone who does not believe in her.
... root cause in her chart. ... Beethoven ...

... succeeded in anything yet. ...i never accomplish anything major.
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0. still water likes to delete fire.
1. define success.
2. money is not success. It is sometimes just an indicator.
3. some social circles are made of financially poor people. That would include fire signs in them. Yet they have things rich people are missing.
4. for a fire sign success is to be able to do what they like to do. Money, fame, recognition is just a byproduct.
5. Your water/earth parts dream of money and drain your happiness. Have fun instead.
6. I know to Virgos nothing is ever good enough.
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you are just toooooooo lazy to Google. you don't even Google how strong the earthquake in Nepal was. you have to ask dxp for it.
Gemini has no time for learning. You let other people read and tell you so you can spread the word uppon creating furors.
Of course fire signs are to find in any occupation. No doubt.
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I had a female Gemini student for four years. She never worked hard to learn the stuff. But she was good at choosing, checking and deselcting the units she was about to take.
I was ok with it cause I had read in Astrology Gemini is a good Project Manager (but not a good project soldier). Also I knew I had to be thankful that my Student was a Gemini cause only a chaotic one can learn from a chaotic one.
She wanted it and I wanted her to have her high school degree. So that her life goes in better ways from there. And we succeeded.
When she started to study Civil Engineering at the University, I stopped teaching her. Cause I thought we could make it that she gets good score but is she an engineer by this? what about bridges she's gonna design? I said to myself either she works as hard as any other student in the Engineering majors or she changes her major. Both is better than to help somebody become an engineer and they are not sincere about Mathematics and Physics.
I still believe she will be very successful in her work life. She has Jupiter in Scorpio in the 10th house. She'll be a project leader I'd say.
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My first thought when I read the title was capricorn LOL.
I can't see a gem being patient for cap slow motion.
It would only work if the gem has some earth or the cap has some fire.
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
I had a female Gemini student ...
When she started to study Civil Engineering at the University, I stopped teaching her. ...
I still believe she will be very successful in her work life. She has Jupiter in Scorpio in the 10th house. She'll be a project leader I'd say.

Update! Update!
My student called me today cause she has a deadline on Monday. For Computer sience. Matlab prgoramming.
Thanks to this thread (and transit Venus&Merc in Gemini) I was ready to help her again if she wanted. So she came to me today and we solved together one of her three assignments. Tomorrow we continue with the other two assignments.
It was a win-win situation. Both happy to have the other in her life. (well, there will come five more assignments)
Now hear, hear, she has made a 2.7 in Mathematics. Without my help.
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Physical attraction that happens between Taurus and Gemini male and that is it.. too much work....shouldn't be..
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